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About three months ago, a couple of my friends started giving me male on
male hugshakes. This consists of the two males handshaking each other with their right hands, pulling the other male towards their shoulder, each touching the other's shoulder right front with their own shoulder front, and the left hands patting the other one on the back. Is this a new style of handshake, or does it have any secret or ritualistic overtones? Steve |
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"Steve B" wrote in message news About three months ago, a couple of my friends started giving me male on male hugshakes. This consists of the two males handshaking each other with their right hands, pulling the other male towards their shoulder, each touching the other's shoulder right front with their own shoulder front, and the left hands patting the other one on the back. Is this a new style of handshake, or does it have any secret or ritualistic overtones? Steve I think it was something that started on TV, so now everyone has to do it. Fist bumps, high fives, etc. I'm not much of a participant in that stuff, I'm just an old fart traditionalist. |
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"Steve B" wrote: About three months ago, a couple of my friends started giving me male on male hugshakes. This consists of the two males handshaking each other with their right hands, pulling the other male towards their shoulder, each touching the other's shoulder right front with their own shoulder front, and the left hands patting the other one on the back. Is this a new style of handshake, or does it have any secret or ritualistic overtones? Steve have they recently travelled to San Francisco? |
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About three months ago, a couple of my friends started giving me male on male hugshakes. This consists of the two males handshaking each other with their right hands, pulling the other male towards their shoulder, each touching the other's shoulder right front with their own shoulder front, and the left hands patting the other one on the back. Is this a new style of handshake, or does it have any secret or ritualistic overtones? Steve It's just a fad. My hugs with my male friends are two handed with both hands and arms around the back of each other, much like brothers would do. I am heterosexual in case you wondered. I am also married to a female and have fathered 4 kids. -- Bill In Hamptonburgh, NY In the original Orange County. Est. 1683 To email, remove the double zeroes after @ |
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On Sep 13, 4:24*am, "Steve B" wrote:
About three months ago, a couple of my friends started giving me male on male hugshakes. *This consists of the two males handshaking each other with their right hands, pulling the other male towards their shoulder, each touching the other's shoulder right front with their own shoulder front, and the left hands patting the other one on the back. Is this a new style of handshake, or does it have any secret or ritualistic overtones? Steve Some people ar eeasily influenced by watching too much TV. They need to get a life watching such drivel. |
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Steve B wrote:
About three months ago, a couple of my friends started giving me male on male hugshakes. This consists of the two males handshaking each other with their right hands, pulling the other male towards their shoulder, each touching the other's shoulder right front with their own shoulder front, and the left hands patting the other one on the back. Is this a new style of handshake, or does it have any secret or ritualistic overtones? Dunno. But if I don't know the implications or meanings of a particular ritual, I'm sure as hell not going to participate in it. |
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"FlavorFlav" wrote in message eb.com... In article , "Steve B" wrote: About three months ago, a couple of my friends started giving me male on male hugshakes. This consists of the two males handshaking each other with their right hands, pulling the other male towards their shoulder, each touching the other's shoulder right front with their own shoulder front, and the left hands patting the other one on the back. Is this a new style of handshake, or does it have any secret or ritualistic overtones? Steve Do you live in the hills? geesh, U R behind the times. If you don't have an answer, please don't post. And what's with that stupid clock around your neck? Steve |
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"Malcom "Mal" Reynolds" wrote in message ... In article , "Steve B" wrote: About three months ago, a couple of my friends started giving me male on male hugshakes. This consists of the two males handshaking each other with their right hands, pulling the other male towards their shoulder, each touching the other's shoulder right front with their own shoulder front, and the left hands patting the other one on the back. Is this a new style of handshake, or does it have any secret or ritualistic overtones? Steve have they recently travelled to San Francisco? So, you have an obsession with homosexuality? Very interesting. Steve |
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"HeyBub" wrote in message ... Steve B wrote: About three months ago, a couple of my friends started giving me male on male hugshakes. This consists of the two males handshaking each other with their right hands, pulling the other male towards their shoulder, each touching the other's shoulder right front with their own shoulder front, and the left hands patting the other one on the back. Is this a new style of handshake, or does it have any secret or ritualistic overtones? Dunno. But if I don't know the implications or meanings of a particular ritual, I'm sure as hell not going to participate in it. That is the point. I wanted to identify its origin and meaning before continuing to allow it. I prefer a traditional handshake. The fist pounding and high five is a sign of understanding or a celebration, and they are simple expressions. This ons is bulky, and if you are not expecting it, or familiar with it, you almost want to pull away. Steve |
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FlavorFlav wrote in news:4e6ef58a$0$18832
: In article , "Steve B" wrote: About three months ago, a couple of my friends started giving me male on male hugshakes. This consists of the two males handshaking each other with their right hands, pulling the other male towards their shoulder, each touching the other's shoulder right front with their own shoulder front, and the left hands patting the other one on the back. Is this a new style of handshake, or does it have any secret or ritualistic overtones? Steve Do you live in the hills? geesh, U R behind the times. behind the times. What exactly does that mean? That I don't feel insecure and conform to someone elses ways so I don't feel left out? OK. If you wanna go flipping hands in circles, slaps, left and right, find a rapper or whatever. If you wanna hug find a woman. |
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On Sep 13, 9:45*am, "Steve B" wrote:
"HeyBub" wrote in message ... Steve B wrote: About three months ago, a couple of my friends started giving me male on male hugshakes. *This consists of the two males handshaking each other with their right hands, pulling the other male towards their shoulder, each touching the other's shoulder right front with their own shoulder front, and the left hands patting the other one on the back. Is this a new style of handshake, or does it have any secret or ritualistic overtones? Dunno. But if I don't know the implications or meanings of a particular ritual, I'm sure as hell not going to participate in it. That is the point. *I wanted to identify its origin and meaning before continuing to allow it. *I prefer a traditional handshake. *The fist pounding and high five is a sign of understanding or a celebration, and they are simple expressions. *This ons is bulky, and if you are not expecting it, or familiar with it, you almost want to pull away. Do you often look for a conspiracy or ulterior motive? You said a couple of buddies started doing it. If you don't trust them or their motives, why are you buddies with them? Look at it this way - all forms of greeting impart social significance and in many/most cultures also illustrate the social standing between the two people. If your buddies are willing to get in close, they're simply saying they like you a lot - more than just a handshake. It doesn't mean they are trying to get into your pants. Another way to look at it - harry is against the bro hug. That should be enough to tell you that there's nothing wrong with it. R |
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RicodJour wrote in
: On Sep 13, 9:45*am, "Steve B" wrote: "HeyBub" wrote in message ... Steve B wrote: About three months ago, a couple of my friends started giving me male on male hugshakes. *This consists of the two males handshaking each other with their right hands, pulling the other male towards their shoulder, each touching the other's shoulder right front with their own shoulder front, and the left hands patting the other one on the back. Is this a new style of handshake, or does it have any secret or ritualistic overtones? Dunno. But if I don't know the implications or meanings of a particular ritual, I'm sure as hell not going to participate in it. That is the point. *I wanted to identify its origin and meaning before continuing to allow it. *I prefer a traditional handshake. *The fist pounding and high five is a sign of understanding or a celebration, and t hey are simple expressions. *This ons is bulky, and if you are not expectin g it, or familiar with it, you almost want to pull away. Do you often look for a conspiracy or ulterior motive? You said a couple of buddies started doing it. If you don't trust them or their motives, why are you buddies with them? Look at it this way - all forms of greeting impart social significance and in many/most cultures also illustrate the social standing between the two people. If your buddies are willing to get in close, they're simply saying they like you a lot - more than just a handshake. It doesn't mean they are trying to get into your pants. [text version of pop-up window] Are you sure? :-) Another way to look at it - harry is against the bro hug. That should be enough to tell you that there's nothing wrong with it. R |
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On Sep 13, 11:22*am, Red Green wrote:
RicodJour wrote in news: On Sep 13, 9:45 am, "Steve B" wrote: That is the point. I wanted to identify its origin and meaning before continuing to allow it. I prefer a traditional handshake. The fist pounding and high five is a sign of understanding or a celebration, and they are simple expressions. This ons is bulky, and if you are not expecting it, or familiar with it, you almost want to pull away. Do you often look for a conspiracy or ulterior motive? *You said a couple of buddies started doing it. *If you don't trust them or their motives, why are you buddies with them? Look at it this way - all forms of greeting impart social significance and in many/most cultures also illustrate the social standing between the two people. *If your buddies are willing to get in close, they're simply saying they like you a lot - more than just a handshake. *It doesn't mean they are trying to get into your pants. [text version of pop-up window] Are you sure? :-) Unless you have information to the contrary, yes. I assume that Steve B is like most men - slightly repulsive. R |
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On 9/13/2011 11:33 AM, RicodJour wrote:
On Sep 13, 11:22 am, Red wrote: wrote in news: On Sep 13, 9:45 am, "Steve wrote: That is the point. I wanted to identify its origin and meaning before continuing to allow it. I prefer a traditional handshake. The fist pounding and high five is a sign of understanding or a celebration, and they are simple expressions. This ons is bulky, and if you are not expecting it, or familiar with it, you almost want to pull away. Do you often look for a conspiracy or ulterior motive? You said a couple of buddies started doing it. If you don't trust them or their motives, why are you buddies with them? Look at it this way - all forms of greeting impart social significance and in many/most cultures also illustrate the social standing between the two people. If your buddies are willing to get in close, they're simply saying they like you a lot - more than just a handshake. It doesn't mean they are trying to get into your pants. [text version of pop-up window] Are you sure? :-) Unless you have information to the contrary, yes. I assume that Steve B is like most men - slightly repulsive. R Seeing some of Steve's responses, I thought that "friends" knowing he had a heart condition were trying to help do him in |
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RicodJour wrote in
: On Sep 13, 11:22*am, Red Green wrote: RicodJour wrote in news: On Sep 13, 9:45 am, "Steve B" wrote: That is the point. I wanted to identify its origin and meaning before continuing to allow it. I prefer a traditional handshake. The fist pounding and high five is a sign of understanding or a celebration, and they are simple expressions. This ons is bulky, and if you are not expecting it, or familiar with it, you almost want to pull away. Do you often look for a conspiracy or ulterior motive? *You said a couple of buddies started doing it. *If you don't trust them or their motives, why are you buddies with them? Look at it this way - all forms of greeting impart social significance and in many/most cultures also illustrate the social standing between the two people. *If your buddies are willing to get in close, they're simply saying they like you a lot - more than just a handshake. *It doesn't mean they are trying to get into your pants. [text version of pop-up window] Are you sure? :-) Unless you have information to the contrary, yes. I assume that Steve B is like most men - slightly repulsive. R like most men - slightly repulsive. Yea, I got some of that too with a slight case of over achievement. |
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On Sep 12, 11:24*pm, "Steve B" wrote:
Is this a new style of handshake, or does it have any secret or ritualistic overtones? It -was- a "black" thing. Originally intended to place one's hearts together as a gesture of "unity". Now, it's just ghey. ----- - gpsman |
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"RicodJour" wrote in message ... On Sep 13, 9:45 am, "Steve B" wrote: "HeyBub" wrote in message ... Steve B wrote: About three months ago, a couple of my friends started giving me male on male hugshakes. This consists of the two males handshaking each other with their right hands, pulling the other male towards their shoulder, each touching the other's shoulder right front with their own shoulder front, and the left hands patting the other one on the back. Is this a new style of handshake, or does it have any secret or ritualistic overtones? Dunno. But if I don't know the implications or meanings of a particular ritual, I'm sure as hell not going to participate in it. That is the point. I wanted to identify its origin and meaning before continuing to allow it. I prefer a traditional handshake. The fist pounding and high five is a sign of understanding or a celebration, and they are simple expressions. This ons is bulky, and if you are not expecting it, or familiar with it, you almost want to pull away. Do you often look for a conspiracy or ulterior motive? You said a couple of buddies started doing it. If you don't trust them or their motives, why are you buddies with them? Look at it this way - all forms of greeting impart social significance and in many/most cultures also illustrate the social standing between the two people. If your buddies are willing to get in close, they're simply saying they like you a lot - more than just a handshake. It doesn't mean they are trying to get into your pants. Another way to look at it - harry is against the bro hug. That should be enough to tell you that there's nothing wrong with it. R I can tell that you have never felt the grasp of a cultist handshake, or are too ignorant to recognize their subtle inquisition as to whether or not you are one of the "secret" members. Your answer has nothing to do with the question. And who is harry? Steve |
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"Red Green" wrote Unless you have information to the contrary, yes. I assume that Steve B is like most men - slightly repulsive. R like most men - slightly repulsive. Yea, I got some of that too with a slight case of over achievement. Guilty on both counts. Steve |
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On Mon, 12 Sep 2011 20:24:26 -0700, "Steve B"
wrote: Is this a new style of handshake, or does it have any secret or ritualistic overtones? Bromance? -noun 1. A non-sexual relationship between two men that are unusually close. -verb -mans-ing 1. The act of wooing a fellow male friend for the purpose of becoming closer. 2. Going to unusual lengths in an attempt to become closer with another male friend. .... "The newcomers include overly involved "helicopter parents," for instance, and the "boomerang child" who's returned home in adulthood for financial reasons. Maybe he's spending his days listening to "Americana" music, steering clear of that lonely "cougar" across the street and hanging out a lot with his best buddy, shaking off jokes that they're in a "bromance." And, of course, he "tweets" every detail of it." http://www.msnbc.msn.com/id/44273905/ns/technology_and_science-tech_and_gadgets/t/merriam-webster-adds-tweet-other-new-words/ |
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On 9/13/2011 8:45 AM, Steve B wrote:
wrote in message ... Steve B wrote: About three months ago, a couple of my friends started giving me male on male hugshakes. This consists of the two males handshaking each other with their right hands, pulling the other male towards their shoulder, each touching the other's shoulder right front with their own shoulder front, and the left hands patting the other one on the back. Is this a new style of handshake, or does it have any secret or ritualistic overtones? Dunno. But if I don't know the implications or meanings of a particular ritual, I'm sure as hell not going to participate in it. That is the point. I wanted to identify its origin and meaning before continuing to allow it. I prefer a traditional handshake. The fist pounding and high five is a sign of understanding or a celebration, and they are simple expressions. This ons is bulky, and if you are not expecting it, or familiar with it, you almost want to pull away. Steve Eh...Sounds a little homophobic to me. In some cultures it's common for male friends to kiss. Remember GW kissing the king of Saudi Arabia? I've noticed handshakes are not as common. Suits me just fine. I never make any gesture anymore. I say hello and hope that's enough. :-) |
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"Steve B" wrote: "Malcom "Mal" Reynolds" wrote in message ... In article , "Steve B" wrote: About three months ago, a couple of my friends started giving me male on male hugshakes. This consists of the two males handshaking each other with their right hands, pulling the other male towards their shoulder, each touching the other's shoulder right front with their own shoulder front, and the left hands patting the other one on the back. Is this a new style of handshake, or does it have any secret or ritualistic overtones? Steve have they recently travelled to San Francisco? So, you have an obsession with homosexuality? I do? Very interesting. Not to me Steve |
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On Tue, 13 Sep 2011 11:50:25 -0700, "Malcom \"Mal\" Reynolds"
wrote: In article , "Steve B" wrote: "Malcom "Mal" Reynolds" wrote in message ... In article , "Steve B" wrote: About three months ago, a couple of my friends started giving me male on male hugshakes. This consists of the two males handshaking each other with their right hands, pulling the other male towards their shoulder, each touching the other's shoulder right front with their own shoulder front, and the left hands patting the other one on the back. Is this a new style of handshake, or does it have any secret or ritualistic overtones? Steve have they recently travelled to San Francisco? So, you have an obsession with homosexuality? I do? Very interesting. Not to me This is all perfectly natural talk as soon as somebody mentions queers. Looks like Steve is pretty PC. My first inclination was to respond along those lines, but it's really pointless - the jokes are too old. I've had these "man hug" deals. It always feels natural enough. Somebody mentioned it was a "black brotherhood" thing. Might be. I still hug and kiss my own brothers when I see them, and find myself doing the "man hug" thing with male in-laws. Don't know who initiates it, it just happens. I don't have any friends I do that with, but maybe because I don't have any close friends. Sounds like Steve is in a good place. --Vic |
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On Mon, 12 Sep 2011 23:43:43 -0400, "Ed Pawlowski"
wrote: Is this a new style of handshake, or does it have any secret or ritualistic overtones? Steve I think it was something that started on TV, so now everyone has to do it. Fist bumps, high fives, etc. I'm not much of a participant in that stuff, I'm just an old fart traditionalist. Might just be my raising, but I was taught a handshake should be firm. You can tell a bit about a person from a handshake. Some folks might as well put a fish in my hand. There is no more a time when a man's handshake was his solemn word. Now days you have to have a 20 page Contract :-/ |
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"Malcom "Mal" Reynolds" wrote have they recently travelled to San Francisco? So, you have an obsession with homosexuality? I do? Very interesting. Not to me Steve Please reread the thread and tell me who brought it up. Hint: it wasn't me. You may go now. You don't seem to be able to follow common conversation, make relevant replies, and you seem to take off on vague tangents based on your own mysterious personal experiences. BTW, how was your trip to SF? Steve |
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"Steve B" wrote: "Malcom "Mal" Reynolds" wrote have they recently travelled to San Francisco? So, you have an obsession with homosexuality? I do? Very interesting. Not to me Steve Please reread the thread and tell me who brought it up. Hint: it wasn't me. You may go now. You don't seem to be able to follow common conversation, make relevant replies, and you seem to take off on vague tangents based on your own mysterious personal experiences. BTW, how was your trip to SF? Steve So, you have an obsession with homosexuality? |
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On Tue, 13 Sep 2011 06:42:37 -0700, "Steve B"
wrote: "FlavorFlav" wrote in message web.com... [...] Do you live in the hills? geesh, U R behind the times. If you don't have an answer, please don't post. And what's with that stupid clock around your neck? Steve I wondered about the clock. Couple a weeks ago I went to the bank to use the ATM outside. This guy comes out with this wall clock around his neck. I notice he has a key ring with about 100 + keys of all types, and shapes ( I collect some keys so I notice). He tells me not to put my ATM card in the machine as he thinks it ate the previous person's card. Me: "Hey I know you. What's your name?" Him: (reaching to shake my hand) "Flavor Flav!" What a weak-assed handshake.... |
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"JimT" wrote I've noticed handshakes are not as common. Suits me just fine. I never make any gesture anymore. I say hello and hope that's enough. :-) And I extend my right hand for an eye to eye handshake. After that, I'm uncomfortable with variations that I am not familiar with. I think it very impolite of the other person to be able to interpret variations of a common handshake along with all the other slapping, banging, and hand movements that come along with or after extending a hand for a common handshake. Homophobic? I know there are a lot of queers out there. And in here. For someone to immediately draw me into a hug as part of a simple common handshake to me is a homosexual advance, and something I would recoil from. Now that I have had enough information to know that this is not a probing handshake asking me if I am another member of some secret society, as some handshakes are, I shall keep it to a handshake, and reserve the hug for those I choose to hug. Being pulled into a hug is an unwanted sexual advance, just as any unexpected unwanted unsolicited body contact is. Steve |
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"Oren" wrote in message ... On Mon, 12 Sep 2011 20:24:26 -0700, "Steve B" wrote: Is this a new style of handshake, or does it have any secret or ritualistic overtones? Bromance? -noun 1. A non-sexual relationship between two men that are unusually close. -verb -mans-ing 1. The act of wooing a fellow male friend for the purpose of becoming closer. 2. Going to unusual lengths in an attempt to become closer with another male friend. I saw that the other day. It perfectly describes one of my friends. The other is a member of a common secret cult. I mentioned it to him, and we had a laugh. I would do almost anything for my good friend. You can fill in the blanks of the things I would not do. Steve |
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Steve B wrote: About three months ago, a couple of my friends started giving me male on male hugshakes. This consists of the two males handshaking each other with their right hands, pulling the other male towards their shoulder, each touching the other's shoulder right front with their own shoulder front, and the left hands patting the other one on the back. Is this a new style of handshake, or does it have any secret or ritualistic overtones? Steve It means you're gay? -- There is always an easy solution to every human problem -- neat, plausible, and wrong." (H L Mencken) Larry Wasserman - Baltimore Maryland - lwasserm(a)sdf. lonestar. org |
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On 9/13/2011 6:03 PM, Larry W wrote:
In , Steve wrote: About three months ago, a couple of my friends started giving me male on male hugshakes. This consists of the two males handshaking each other with their right hands, pulling the other male towards their shoulder, each touching the other's shoulder right front with their own shoulder front, and the left hands patting the other one on the back. Is this a new style of handshake, or does it have any secret or ritualistic overtones? Steve It means you're gay? He's afraid he's gay. |
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"Oren" Might just be my raising, but I was taught a handshake should be firm. You can tell a bit about a person from a handshake. Some folks might as well put a fish in my hand. And I don't like those dead fish handshakes, nor do I like anything extra that I am SUPPOSED to know what to do and SUPPOSED to understand the meaning thereof. Steve |
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"Steve B" wrote And I extend my right hand for an eye to eye handshake. After that, I'm uncomfortable with variations that I am not familiar with. I think it very impolite of the other person to be able to interpret variations of a common handshake along with all the other slapping, banging, and hand movements that come along with or after extending a hand for a common handshake. Sorry. Should have interjected : TO EXPECT ME between: I think it very impolite of the other person and to be able to interpret variations of a common handshake along with all the other slapping, banging, and hand movements that come along with or after extending a hand for a common handshake. Steve |
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"Larry W" wrote in message ... In article , Steve B wrote: About three months ago, a couple of my friends started giving me male on male hugshakes. This consists of the two males handshaking each other with their right hands, pulling the other male towards their shoulder, each touching the other's shoulder right front with their own shoulder front, and the left hands patting the other one on the back. Is this a new style of handshake, or does it have any secret or ritualistic overtones? Steve It means you're gay? No, it means you just disappeared from my sight forever .............................. hasta la vista, baby. |
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"JimT" wrote in message ... On 9/13/2011 6:03 PM, Larry W wrote: In , Steve wrote: About three months ago, a couple of my friends started giving me male on male hugshakes. This consists of the two males handshaking each other with their right hands, pulling the other male towards their shoulder, each touching the other's shoulder right front with their own shoulder front, and the left hands patting the other one on the back. Is this a new style of handshake, or does it have any secret or ritualistic overtones? Steve It means you're gay? He's afraid he's gay. AMF |
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Curious hugshake
On Tue, 13 Sep 2011 16:26:24 -0700, "Steve B"
wrote: "JimT" wrote in message ... On 9/13/2011 6:03 PM, Larry W wrote: In , Steve wrote: About three months ago, a couple of my friends started giving me male on male hugshakes. This consists of the two males handshaking each other with their right hands, pulling the other male towards their shoulder, each touching the other's shoulder right front with their own shoulder front, and the left hands patting the other one on the back. Is this a new style of handshake, or does it have any secret or ritualistic overtones? Steve It means you're gay? He's afraid he's gay. AMF This is getting funny. But maybe not to you. Here's an idea. You said they're your friends. Ask them what's up with that type handshake. Then you'll know. I told you I've done it with in-laws. To me it was a sign of affection and good will, nothing else. Basically, "I'm here for you if you need me." With a good friend it would be the same. I wouldn't like it if I didn't feel like "being there" for the other person. Wouldn't be honest. Push him off probably. That's one reason I don't have that type of friend any more. Since my old friends are gone I haven't got close to any. Got my own family to take care of. Just something to think about. Don't know if any of that applies to you. --Vic |
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Curious hugshake
"Steve B" wrote in message
news About three months ago, a couple of my friends started giving me male on male hugshakes. This consists of the two males handshaking each other with their right hands, pulling the other male towards their shoulder, each touching the other's shoulder right front with their own shoulder front, and the left hands patting the other one on the back. Is this a new style of handshake, or does it have any secret or ritualistic overtones? Was your wallet missing afterwards? Sounds like a pickpocket move to me. (-: -- Bobby G. |
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"Robert Green" wrote: "Steve B" wrote in message news About three months ago, a couple of my friends started giving me male on male hugshakes. This consists of the two males handshaking each other with their right hands, pulling the other male towards their shoulder, each touching the other's shoulder right front with their own shoulder front, and the left hands patting the other one on the back. Is this a new style of handshake, or does it have any secret or ritualistic overtones? Was your wallet missing afterwards? Sounds like a pickpocket move to me. (-: And/or watch. -- People thought cybersex was a safe alternative, until patients started presenting with sexually acquired carpal tunnel syndrome.-Howard Berkowitz |
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Curious hugshake
Oren wrote the following:
On Mon, 12 Sep 2011 23:43:43 -0400, "Ed Pawlowski" wrote: Is this a new style of handshake, or does it have any secret or ritualistic overtones? Steve I think it was something that started on TV, so now everyone has to do it. Fist bumps, high fives, etc. I'm not much of a participant in that stuff, I'm just an old fart traditionalist. Might just be my raising, but I was taught a handshake should be firm. You can tell a bit about a person from a handshake. Some folks might as well put a fish in my hand. For some men a handshake is a chance to prove how strong they are. I have one uncle-in-law whom I refuse to shake hands with. He puts out his hand to shake and I just pat him on the arm. Do they still make those toy vibrating things that are slipped on a finger and feel like an electrical shock when shaking hands? There is no more a time when a man's handshake was his solemn word. Now days you have to have a 20 page Contract :-/ -- Bill In Hamptonburgh, NY In the original Orange County. Est. 1683 To email, remove the double zeroes after @ |
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