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On 1/5/2012 7:33 AM, Leon wrote:
http://gma.yahoo.com/video/news-2679...-27777235.html Yeah, I posted a link to that one on Facebook earlier yesterday. One can only imagine how badly it could have gone if she hadn't been armed. -- Free bad advice available here. To reply, eat the taco. http://www.flickr.com/photos/bbqboyee/ |
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On 1/5/2012 7:33 AM, Leon wrote:
http://gma.yahoo.com/video/news-2679...-27777235.html It doesn't sound good for mom to me. Granted she defended herself, but now she has killed somebody. The guy may have needed it, but I suspect that she is pretty much traumatized over it. She certainly didn't look very happy on the news last night. Bill |
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On 1/5/2012 8:21 AM, Bill Gill wrote:
On 1/5/2012 7:33 AM, Leon wrote: http://gma.yahoo.com/video/news-2679...-27777235.html It doesn't sound good for mom to me. Granted she defended herself, but now she has killed somebody. The guy may have needed it, but I suspect that she is pretty much traumatized over it. She certainly didn't look very happy on the news last night. Bill In the news clip I saw, she stated she was unhappy she had to shoot him but in the same circumstances would do the same thing again. Good for her! Am sure will take a little time to heal but look at the money she just saved the state, not only this time but 4 years down the road when he would have been back on the streets. Personally think the state owes her some of that savings. |
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On 1/5/2012 8:21 AM, Bill Gill wrote:
On 1/5/2012 7:33 AM, Leon wrote: http://gma.yahoo.com/video/news-2679...-27777235.html It doesn't sound good for mom to me. Granted she defended herself, but now she has killed somebody. The guy may have needed it, but I suspect that she is pretty much traumatized over it. She certainly didn't look very happy on the news last night. Bill Better traumatized than most of the possible alternatives I can think of. -- Free bad advice available here. To reply, eat the taco. http://www.flickr.com/photos/bbqboyee/ |
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On 1/5/2012 8:21 AM, Bill Gill wrote:
On 1/5/2012 7:33 AM, Leon wrote: http://gma.yahoo.com/video/news-2679...-27777235.html It doesn't sound good for mom to me. Granted she defended herself, but now she has killed somebody. The guy may have needed it, but I suspect that she is pretty much traumatized over it. She certainly didn't look very happy on the news last night. Horse****! -- www.eWoodShop.com Last update: 4/15/2010 KarlCaillouet@ (the obvious) http://gplus.to/eWoodShop |
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Bill Gill wrote:
On 1/5/2012 7:33 AM, Leon wrote: http://gma.yahoo.com/video/news-2679...-27777235.html It doesn't sound good for mom to me. Granted she defended herself, but now she has killed somebody. The guy may have needed it, but I suspect that she is pretty much traumatized over it. She certainly didn't look very happy on the news last night. Bah! Killing people in self-defense is a mind-altering, but satisfying, life event. Shooting team interviewer: "So, then, officer your statement is 'The suspect raced down the hallway with me in pursuit. He turned into a bedroom and from a lower drawer on the dresser pulled a large-caliber weapon and pointed it in my direction. I, in fear of my life, discharged my service weapon.' Is that a fair and accurate summary of the events you experienced?" Cop: "Exactly. Like I said: He went for his piece and I smoked him!" |
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On 1/5/12 8:50 AM, Steve Turner wrote:
On 1/5/2012 8:21 AM, Bill Gill wrote: On 1/5/2012 7:33 AM, Leon wrote: http://gma.yahoo.com/video/news-2679...-27777235.html It doesn't sound good for mom to me. Granted she defended herself, but now she has killed somebody. The guy may have needed it, but I suspect that she is pretty much traumatized over it. She certainly didn't look very happy on the news last night. Bill Better traumatized than most of the possible alternatives I can think of. I agree with Steve. Life is traumas, and her husband had just died around Christmas, so how do know if she would've looked any different on camera if she'd just wounded the guy? Taking a human life is a horrible thing but that guy chose to die that day when he chose to break and enter the home of another person. -- -MIKE- "Playing is not something I do at night, it's my function in life" --Elvin Jones (1927-2004) -- http://mikedrums.com ---remove "DOT" ^^^^ to reply |
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"Swingman" wrote ... On 1/5/2012 8:21 AM, Bill Gill wrote: On 1/5/2012 7:33 AM, Leon wrote: http://gma.yahoo.com/video/news-2679...-27777235.html It doesn't sound good for mom to me. Granted she defended herself, but now she has killed somebody. The guy may have needed it, but I suspect that she is pretty much traumatized over it. She certainly didn't look very happy on the news last night. Horse****! Agreed. There is all kinds of trauma. Her husband had died a few days earlier. What kind of trauma would have happened to her and her babies if she did not shoot him? Also. what if some politically correct prosecutor came after her? Some self defense victims are ruined financially with having to defend their actions. That would certainly be traumatic. Also, she in no way did anything aggressive or reckless. She hid for 21 minutes, talking to 911 before she shot the guy. All the time protecting her child. How many times have we heard about some idiot who lost it and somebody died because they did not do the right thing and act in a manner that protected life. She did the exact right thing. And for that, she should be proud of herself. She was a mamma bear protecting her cub. I am certain that any other kind of response (or non response) would be terribly traumatic. Not only for her, but for every one who knew her. Again, she did the right thing. The other point that nobody wants to talk about is that she is a woman. I taught self defense classes to women over 40 years ago. Long before it became socially acceptable to do such things. There is tremendous pressure on women in general to be a victim. Don't fight back, don't make a scene, etc. Not only is this demeaning to women, but it is a green light to any kind of whacko or criminal to prey on "helpless" women. Like the bumper sticker says, "Nobody Ever Raped A .38". Having directly dealt with a large number of women who were assaulted, I can tell you that hurting somebody else is far preferable to being a victim. The women I worked with fell into two categories. Those who wanted to move on and were willing to do whatever to see that this sort of thing never occurred again. The other category was much more tragic. These poor women basically crawled into a paranoid hole and never came out again. They became recluses, depressed, etc. I think today, there would be more support for them. But the fact is that a large number of victims never live normal lives again. Whatever trauma occurs as a result of defending yourself, it simply does not compare to the alternative. And I know that it is a cornerstone of liberal philosophy to create more victims and disarm the populace. Apparently creating safe working conditions for criminals has a higher social purpose. This woman did exactly the right thing. She should be commended and rewarded in some fashion. Certainly she should be given some support of some kind. If more women were like her, there would be less problems in this country. And as for the poor misunderstood home invaders, that is simple. Just use them for target practice. It is like those morons who hang a sign outside of their house, "gun free zone". They get robbed pretty quickly. They take the sign down. Criminal are safety conscious. It would be better for every one to created DANGEROUS working conditions for criminals. End of rant. |
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On 1/5/2012 8:18 AM, Steve Turner wrote:
On 1/5/2012 7:33 AM, Leon wrote: http://gma.yahoo.com/video/news-2679...-27777235.html Yeah, I posted a link to that one on Facebook earlier yesterday. One can only imagine how badly it could have gone if she hadn't been armed. Hopefully the AHoles relatives will no come after her for some kind of compensation. |
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On 1/5/2012 8:21 AM, Bill Gill wrote:
On 1/5/2012 7:33 AM, Leon wrote: http://gma.yahoo.com/video/news-2679...-27777235.html It doesn't sound good for mom to me. Granted she defended herself, but now she has killed somebody. The guy may have needed it, but I suspect that she is pretty much traumatized over it. She certainly didn't look very happy on the news last night. Bill It is sad but probably the best out come whether she realizes it now or not. |
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On 1/5/2012 12:31 PM, Lee Michaels wrote:
Snip And as for the poor misunderstood home invaders, that is simple. Just use them for target practice. It is like those morons who hang a sign outside of their house, "gun free zone". They get robbed pretty quickly. They take the sign down. Criminal are safety conscious. It would be better for every one to created DANGEROUS working conditions for criminals. A neighbor, a sheriff, has a sign in his front yard that says, NOTHING in this house is worth dying for. |
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"Lee Michaels" leemichaels*nadaspam* at comcast dot net wrote in
b.com: "Swingman" wrote ... On 1/5/2012 8:21 AM, Bill Gill wrote: On 1/5/2012 7:33 AM, Leon wrote: http://gma.yahoo.com/video/news-2679...er-18-kills-in truder-breaking-into-her-home-while-on-phone-with-911-27777235.html It doesn't sound good for mom to me. Granted she defended herself, but now she has killed somebody. The guy may have needed it, but I suspect that she is pretty much traumatized over it. She certainly didn't look very happy on the news last night. Horse****! Agreed. There is all kinds of trauma. Her husband had died a few days earlier. What kind of trauma would have happened to her and her babies if she did not shoot him? Also. what if some politically correct prosecutor came after her? Some self defense victims are ruined financially with having to defend their actions. That would certainly be traumatic. Also, she in no way did anything aggressive or reckless. She hid for 21 minutes, talking to 911 before she shot the guy. All the time protecting her child. How many times have we heard about some idiot who lost it and somebody died because they did not do the right thing and act in a manner that protected life. She did the exact right thing. And for that, she should be proud of herself. She was a mamma bear protecting her cub. I am certain that any other kind of response (or non response) would be terribly traumatic. Not only for her, but for every one who knew her. Again, she did the right thing. The other point that nobody wants to talk about is that she is a woman. I taught self defense classes to women over 40 years ago. Long before it became socially acceptable to do such things. There is tremendous pressure on women in general to be a victim. Don't fight back, don't make a scene, etc. Not only is this demeaning to women, but it is a green light to any kind of whacko or criminal to prey on "helpless" women. Like the bumper sticker says, "Nobody Ever Raped A .38". Having directly dealt with a large number of women who were assaulted, I can tell you that hurting somebody else is far preferable to being a victim. The women I worked with fell into two categories. Those who wanted to move on and were willing to do whatever to see that this sort of thing never occurred again. The other category was much more tragic. These poor women basically crawled into a paranoid hole and never came out again. They became recluses, depressed, etc. I think today, there would be more support for them. But the fact is that a large number of victims never live normal lives again. Whatever trauma occurs as a result of defending yourself, it simply does not compare to the alternative. And I know that it is a cornerstone of liberal philosophy to create more victims and disarm the populace. Apparently creating safe working conditions for criminals has a higher social purpose. This woman did exactly the right thing. She should be commended and rewarded in some fashion. Certainly she should be given some support of some kind. If more women were like her, there would be less problems in this country. And as for the poor misunderstood home invaders, that is simple. Just use them for target practice. It is like those morons who hang a sign outside of their house, "gun free zone". They get robbed pretty quickly. They take the sign down. Criminal are safety conscious. It would be better for every one to created DANGEROUS working conditions for criminals. End of rant. I'm a liberal. I am in favor of registration of firearms, and licensing people for the use of them. This lady did the right thing, and (I believe) has the 911 tapes to prove it. Because she had a baby, and was in her home, she had and has the right to defend herself against a perp like this. While it must be traumatic to know she killed a human being, that human being didn't live according to the rules. End of story. Kudos to the lady and I hope she can get on with her life as best she can as soon as she can. -- Best regards Han email address is invalid |
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Han wrote in
: "Lee Michaels" leemichaels*nadaspam* at comcast dot net wrote in b.com: "Swingman" wrote ... On 1/5/2012 8:21 AM, Bill Gill wrote: On 1/5/2012 7:33 AM, Leon wrote: http://gma.yahoo.com/video/news-2679...her-18-kills-i n truder-breaking-into-her-home-while-on-phone-with-911-27777235.html It doesn't sound good for mom to me. Granted she defended herself, but now she has killed somebody. The guy may have needed it, but I suspect that she is pretty much traumatized over it. She certainly didn't look very happy on the news last night. Horse****! Agreed. There is all kinds of trauma. Her husband had died a few days earlier. What kind of trauma would have happened to her and her babies if she did not shoot him? Also. what if some politically correct prosecutor came after her? Some self defense victims are ruined financially with having to defend their actions. That would certainly be traumatic. Also, she in no way did anything aggressive or reckless. She hid for 21 minutes, talking to 911 before she shot the guy. All the time protecting her child. How many times have we heard about some idiot who lost it and somebody died because they did not do the right thing and act in a manner that protected life. She did the exact right thing. And for that, she should be proud of herself. She was a mamma bear protecting her cub. I am certain that any other kind of response (or non response) would be terribly traumatic. Not only for her, but for every one who knew her. Again, she did the right thing. The other point that nobody wants to talk about is that she is a woman. I taught self defense classes to women over 40 years ago. Long before it became socially acceptable to do such things. There is tremendous pressure on women in general to be a victim. Don't fight back, don't make a scene, etc. Not only is this demeaning to women, but it is a green light to any kind of whacko or criminal to prey on "helpless" women. Like the bumper sticker says, "Nobody Ever Raped A .38". Having directly dealt with a large number of women who were assaulted, I can tell you that hurting somebody else is far preferable to being a victim. The women I worked with fell into two categories. Those who wanted to move on and were willing to do whatever to see that this sort of thing never occurred again. The other category was much more tragic. These poor women basically crawled into a paranoid hole and never came out again. They became recluses, depressed, etc. I think today, there would be more support for them. But the fact is that a large number of victims never live normal lives again. Whatever trauma occurs as a result of defending yourself, it simply does not compare to the alternative. And I know that it is a cornerstone of liberal philosophy to create more victims and disarm the populace. Apparently creating safe working conditions for criminals has a higher social purpose. This woman did exactly the right thing. She should be commended and rewarded in some fashion. Certainly she should be given some support of some kind. If more women were like her, there would be less problems in this country. And as for the poor misunderstood home invaders, that is simple. Just use them for target practice. It is like those morons who hang a sign outside of their house, "gun free zone". They get robbed pretty quickly. They take the sign down. Criminal are safety conscious. It would be better for every one to created DANGEROUS working conditions for criminals. End of rant. I'm a liberal. I am in favor of registration of firearms, and licensing people for the use of them. This lady did the right thing, and (I believe) has the 911 tapes to prove it. Because she had a baby, and was in her home, she had and has the right to defend herself against a perp like this. While it must be traumatic to know she killed a human being, that human being didn't live according to the rules. End of story. Kudos to the lady and I hope she can get on with her life as best she can as soon as she can. Also, this was posted on FB by a friend, and I'll repost it here. I hope this lady has some friends who will act on this to help her out: 1. I am not strong. I'm just numb. When you tell me I'm strong, I feel you don't see ...me. 2. I will not recover. This is not a cold or the flu. I'm not sick. I'm grieving and that's different. I will not always be grievi...ng as intensely, but I will never forget my loved one. Rather than recover, I want to incorporate her life and love into the rest of my life. That person is a part of me and always will be, and sometimes I remember him with joy and other times with tears. Both are ok. 3. I don't have to accept the death. Yes, I have to understand that it has happened and it is real, but there are just some things in life that are not acceptable. 4. Please don't avoid me. You can't catch my grief. My world is painful, and when you are too afraid to call me or visit or say anything, you isolate me at a time when I most need to be care about. If you don't know what to say, just come over, give me a hug or touch my arms, and gently say, "I'm sorry." You can even say, "I just don't know what to say, but I care, and want you to know that." 5. Please don't call to complain about your husband, your wife, or your children. Right now, I'd be delighted to have my loved one here, no matter what they were doing. 6. Please don’t say, “Call me if you need anything.” I’ll never call you because I have no idea what I need. Trying to figure out what you could do for me takes more energy than I have. So, in advance, let me give you some ideas: a. Bring food b. Offer to take my children to a movie or game so I have some moments to myself c. Send me a card on special holidays, birthdays (mine, his or hers), or the anniversary of his death and make sure you mention his or her name. You can’t make me cry. The tears are here and I will love you for giving me the opportunity to shed them because someone cared enough about me to reach out on this difficult day. d. Ask me more than once to join you at the movies or lunch. I may say “no” at first or even for a while, but please don’t give up on me because somewhere down the line, I may be ready, and if you’ve given up then I really will be alone. 7. Try to understand that this is like I’m in a foreign country where I don’t speak the language and have no map to tell me what to do. Even if there were a map, I’m not sure I could understand what it was saying. I’m lost and in a fog. I’m confused 8. When you tell me what I should be doing, then I feel even more lost and alone. I feel bad enough that my loved one is dead, so please don’t make it worse by telling me I’m not doing this right. 9. Please don’t tell me that I can have other children or need to start dating again. I’m not ready. And maybe I don’t want to. And besides, what makes you think people are replaceable? They aren’t. Whoever comes after will always be someone different. 10. I don’t even understand what you mean when you say, “You’ve got to get on with your life.” My life is going on, but it may not look the way you think it should. This will take time and I never will be my old self again. So please just love me as I am today, and know, that with your love and support, the joy will slowly return to my life. But I will never forget – and there will always be times that I cry. · This is a reprint from a High school friend who lost her son years ago but had to let everyone know how grief affects those who lose someone close. It is a good primer on what not to say to those who grieve. My heart goes out to Nanette and hope she does find solice in knowing that we all care and understand! -- Best regards Han email address is invalid |
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Han wrote:
I'm a liberal. I am in favor of registration of firearms, and licensing people for the use of them. This lady did the right thing, and (I believe) has the 911 tapes to prove it. Because she had a baby, and was in her home, she had and has the right to defend herself against a perp like this. While it must be traumatic to know she killed a human being, that human being didn't live according to the rules. End of story. Kudos to the lady and I hope she can get on with her life as best she can as soon as she can. Then live with the fact that in some benighted (i.e., liberal) jurisdictions, she did NOT have the right to take a human life unless she was certain her life was in danger (and maybe not even then). She would not be allowed to presume an imminent threat to her life by the actions of the squint. Unless he said "I'm going to kill you," he could just as easily been inclined to merely rape her. She didn't know, hence she was guilty of at least manslaughter. What's been overlooked in this sorry episode is that she was on the 'phone to 911 for 21 minutes. I can't imagine any urban jurisdiction where it would take the cops more than five minutes to respond to a "home invasion in progress" call. I take that back. There have been several reports of UK ambulance drivers declining to respond to an emergency call because they were on break. |
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On Thu, 5 Jan 2012 14:28:56 -0600, "HeyBub"
I take that back. There have been several reports of UK ambulance drivers declining to respond to an emergency call because they were on break. That sounds close to an incident at a Niagara Falls hopital. An 82 year old women fell down and broke her leg in the hospital parking lot. As security guard went into the hospital to ask for help and was told to call an ambulance. http://www.ctv.ca/CTVNews/TopStories...ulance-111018/ |
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"HeyBub" wrote in
: Han wrote: I'm a liberal. I am in favor of registration of firearms, and licensing people for the use of them. This lady did the right thing, and (I believe) has the 911 tapes to prove it. Because she had a baby, and was in her home, she had and has the right to defend herself against a perp like this. While it must be traumatic to know she killed a human being, that human being didn't live according to the rules. End of story. Kudos to the lady and I hope she can get on with her life as best she can as soon as she can. Then live with the fact that in some benighted (i.e., liberal) jurisdictions, she did NOT have the right to take a human life unless she was certain her life was in danger (and maybe not even then). She would not be allowed to presume an imminent threat to her life by the actions of the squint. Unless he said "I'm going to kill you," he could just as easily been inclined to merely rape her. She didn't know, hence she was guilty of at least manslaughter. I must admit that I'm not sure whether she or her baby was indeed under real imminent threat of being harmed, and I did live in Mass. when there was a case of a woman fleeing into her basement during a home invasion, and killing the guy who ccame down after her. She was acquitted, I believe, because there was no secondary exit through which she could have fled. Had there been another exit from the basement, she should have used that. What's been overlooked in this sorry episode is that she was on the 'phone to 911 for 21 minutes. I can't imagine any urban jurisdiction where it would take the cops more than five minutes to respond to a "home invasion in progress" call. Not sure where she was in relation to emergency services, or how rural and diispersed the area is, but that seems indeed a bit strange. When I broke my arm on July 4th a few years back, police and ambulance were in my back yard in minutes. I take that back. There have been several reports of UK ambulance drivers declining to respond to an emergency call because they were on break. There have been strange things like that in NY City as well, I think (emphasis), but they are not really tolerated, nor should they. On the other hand, an acquaintance spend almost 24 hrs in a corridor in the ER area of New York Hospital after a suspected heart attack (wasn't a heart attack, but he still smokes). -- Best regards Han email address is invalid |
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in.local: The bothersome thing to me is the BATF killing a woman who was armed with a deadly six-poop baby, in an effort to enforce one of those paperwork laws that Han loves so much. What's BATF? What's a six-poop baby? I retired because I love paperwork so much that I refused to do anymore. -- Best regards Han email address is invalid |
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Han wrote:
"J. Clarke" wrote in in.local: The bothersome thing to me is the BATF killing a woman who was armed with a deadly six-poop baby, in an effort to enforce one of those paperwork laws that Han loves so much. What's BATF? Bureau of Alcohol, Tobacco, Firearms, and Explosives. Also known as the WACO (We Ain't Comin' Out) bandits. |
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Han wrote:
I must admit that I'm not sure whether she or her baby was indeed under real imminent threat of being harmed, and I did live in Mass. when there was a case of a woman fleeing into her basement during a home invasion, and killing the guy who ccame down after her. She was acquitted, I believe, because there was no secondary exit through which she could have fled. Had there been another exit from the basement, she should have used that. ## Yes, in some jurisdictions you MUST retreat. Many states, however, have recently passed laws implementing the "Castle Doctrine," which presumes an intruder means grievous bodily harm. Killing said intruder is not only justifiable homicide, but NO civil liability can attach. That is you cannot be sued by the asshole's relatives. Some states have gone farther (like mine) and implemented a "Stand Your Ground" standard. That is, you may respond with deadly force wherever you have a lawful right to be: in your bedroom, in your car, on the sidewalk, at the mall, wherever. What's been overlooked in this sorry episode is that she was on the 'phone to 911 for 21 minutes. I can't imagine any urban jurisdiction where it would take the cops more than five minutes to respond to a "home invasion in progress" call. Not sure where she was in relation to emergency services, or how rural and diispersed the area is, but that seems indeed a bit strange. When I broke my arm on July 4th a few years back, police and ambulance were in my back yard in minutes. Why would the police respond to a broken-leg / medical call? Did you inform the dispatcher that some stink-eye broke your leg and is roaming the neighborhood with a baseball bat? |
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On 1/5/2012 12:31 PM, Lee Michaels wrote:
"Swingman" wrote ... On 1/5/2012 8:21 AM, Bill Gill wrote: On 1/5/2012 7:33 AM, Leon wrote: http://gma.yahoo.com/video/news-2679...-27777235.html It doesn't sound good for mom to me. Granted she defended herself, but now she has killed somebody. The guy may have needed it, but I suspect that she is pretty much traumatized over it. She certainly didn't look very happy on the news last night. Horse****! Agreed. There is all kinds of trauma. Her husband had died a few days earlier. What kind of trauma would have happened to her and her babies if she did not shoot him? Also. what if some politically correct prosecutor came after her? Some self defense victims are ruined financially with having to defend their actions. That would certainly be traumatic. Also, she in no way did anything aggressive or reckless. She hid for 21 minutes, talking to 911 before she shot the guy. All the time protecting her child. How many times have we heard about some idiot who lost it and somebody died because they did not do the right thing and act in a manner that protected life. She did the exact right thing. And for that, she should be proud of herself. She was a mamma bear protecting her cub. I am certain that any other kind of response (or non response) would be terribly traumatic. Not only for her, but for every one who knew her. Again, she did the right thing. The other point that nobody wants to talk about is that she is a woman. I taught self defense classes to women over 40 years ago. Long before it became socially acceptable to do such things. There is tremendous pressure on women in general to be a victim. Don't fight back, don't make a scene, etc. Not only is this demeaning to women, but it is a green light to any kind of whacko or criminal to prey on "helpless" women. Like the bumper sticker says, "Nobody Ever Raped A .38". Having directly dealt with a large number of women who were assaulted, I can tell you that hurting somebody else is far preferable to being a victim. The women I worked with fell into two categories. Those who wanted to move on and were willing to do whatever to see that this sort of thing never occurred again. The other category was much more tragic. These poor women basically crawled into a paranoid hole and never came out again. They became recluses, depressed, etc. I think today, there would be more support for them. But the fact is that a large number of victims never live normal lives again. Whatever trauma occurs as a result of defending yourself, it simply does not compare to the alternative. And I know that it is a cornerstone of liberal philosophy to create more victims and disarm the populace. Apparently creating safe working conditions for criminals has a higher social purpose. This woman did exactly the right thing. She should be commended and rewarded in some fashion. Certainly she should be given some support of some kind. If more women were like her, there would be less problems in this country. And as for the poor misunderstood home invaders, that is simple. Just use them for target practice. It is like those morons who hang a sign outside of their house, "gun free zone". They get robbed pretty quickly. They take the sign down. Criminal are safety conscious. It would be better for every one to created DANGEROUS working conditions for criminals. End of rant. You are right, but it is still a tragedy for her. She just lost her husband and has had no time to even start recovering from that, and now she has the knowledge that she has killed a man on top of that. She did the right thing, but it is still a big tragedy to have that piled on top of her already huge load. Bill |
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"HeyBub" wrote in message m... Han wrote: I must admit that I'm not sure whether she or her baby was indeed under real imminent threat of being harmed, and I did live in Mass. when there was a case of a woman fleeing into her basement during a home invasion, and killing the guy who ccame down after her. She was acquitted, I believe, because there was no secondary exit through which she could have fled. Had there been another exit from the basement, she should have used that. ## Yes, in some jurisdictions you MUST retreat. Many states, however, have recently passed laws implementing the "Castle Doctrine," which presumes an intruder means grievous bodily harm. Killing said intruder is not only justifiable homicide, but NO civil liability can attach. That is you cannot be sued by the asshole's relatives. Some states have gone farther (like mine) and implemented a "Stand Your Ground" standard. That is, you may respond with deadly force wherever you have a lawful right to be: in your bedroom, in your car, on the sidewalk, at the mall, wherever. What's been overlooked in this sorry episode is that she was on the 'phone to 911 for 21 minutes. I can't imagine any urban jurisdiction where it would take the cops more than five minutes to respond to a "home invasion in progress" call. Not sure where she was in relation to emergency services, or how rural and diispersed the area is, but that seems indeed a bit strange. When I broke my arm on July 4th a few years back, police and ambulance were in my back yard in minutes. Why would the police respond to a broken-leg / medical call? Did you inform the dispatcher that some stink-eye broke your leg and is roaming the neighborhood with a baseball bat? ================================================== ================== The last time (only time) I broke my leg, the police were first on the scene. Of course, I was laying in the middle of an intersection. |
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m: Bureau of Alcohol, Tobacco, Firearms, and Explosives. Also known as the WACO (We Ain't Comin' Out) bandits. Waco was a very bad job, but that bunch seemed quite nuts to me. YMMV. Anyway, to me it didn't seem necessary to kill them at that time. -- Best regards Han email address is invalid |
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On 1/5/2012 7:36 PM, Han wrote:
wrote in m: Bureau of Alcohol, Tobacco, Firearms, and Explosives. Also known as the WACO (We Ain't Comin' Out) bandits. Waco was a very bad job, but that bunch seemed quite nuts to me. YMMV. Anyway, to me it didn't seem necessary to kill them at that time. What other time would have been better? g, d & r -- www.eWoodShop.com Last update: 4/15/2010 KarlCaillouet@ (the obvious) http://gplus.to/eWoodShop |
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"CW" wrote in
: "HeyBub" wrote in message m... Han wrote: I must admit that I'm not sure whether she or her baby was indeed under real imminent threat of being harmed, and I did live in Mass. when there was a case of a woman fleeing into her basement during a home invasion, and killing the guy who ccame down after her. She was acquitted, I believe, because there was no secondary exit through which she could have fled. Had there been another exit from the basement, she should have used that. ## Yes, in some jurisdictions you MUST retreat. Many states, however, have recently passed laws implementing the "Castle Doctrine," which presumes an intruder means grievous bodily harm. Killing said intruder is not only justifiable homicide, but NO civil liability can attach. That is you cannot be sued by the asshole's relatives. Some states have gone farther (like mine) and implemented a "Stand Your Ground" standard. That is, you may respond with deadly force wherever you have a lawful right to be: in your bedroom, in your car, on the sidewalk, at the mall, wherever. What's been overlooked in this sorry episode is that she was on the 'phone to 911 for 21 minutes. I can't imagine any urban jurisdiction where it would take the cops more than five minutes to respond to a "home invasion in progress" call. Not sure where she was in relation to emergency services, or how rural and diispersed the area is, but that seems indeed a bit strange. When I broke my arm on July 4th a few years back, police and ambulance were in my back yard in minutes. Why would the police respond to a broken-leg / medical call? Did you inform the dispatcher that some stink-eye broke your leg and is roaming the neighborhood with a baseball bat? ================================================== ================== The last time (only time) I broke my leg, the police were first on the scene. Of course, I was laying in the middle of an intersection. It is usual here (Bergen county, NJ) that police (municipal in my case) get to the scene first, since they are patrolling on duty. Ambulance and fire are volunteers (doing a GREAT job!!), but with a longer response time. I made a mistake cutting a low branch off a dogwood, and fell off a ladder, backwards. Very stupid, and very lucky it wasn't worse. -- Best regards Han email address is invalid |
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Swingman wrote in
: On 1/5/2012 7:36 PM, Han wrote: wrote in m: Bureau of Alcohol, Tobacco, Firearms, and Explosives. Also known as the WACO (We Ain't Comin' Out) bandits. Waco was a very bad job, but that bunch seemed quite nuts to me. YMMV. Anyway, to me it didn't seem necessary to kill them at that time. What other time would have been better? g, d & r He's dovetailing it out of here g -- Best regards Han email address is invalid |
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HeyBub wrote the following:
Han wrote: I must admit that I'm not sure whether she or her baby was indeed under real imminent threat of being harmed, and I did live in Mass. when there was a case of a woman fleeing into her basement during a home invasion, and killing the guy who ccame down after her. She was acquitted, I believe, because there was no secondary exit through which she could have fled. Had there been another exit from the basement, she should have used that. ## Yes, in some jurisdictions you MUST retreat. Many states, however, have recently passed laws implementing the "Castle Doctrine," which presumes an intruder means grievous bodily harm. Killing said intruder is not only justifiable homicide, but NO civil liability can attach. That is you cannot be sued by the asshole's relatives. Some states have gone farther (like mine) and implemented a "Stand Your Ground" standard. That is, you may respond with deadly force wherever you have a lawful right to be: in your bedroom, in your car, on the sidewalk, at the mall, wherever. What's been overlooked in this sorry episode is that she was on the 'phone to 911 for 21 minutes. I can't imagine any urban jurisdiction where it would take the cops more than five minutes to respond to a "home invasion in progress" call. Not sure where she was in relation to emergency services, or how rural and diispersed the area is, but that seems indeed a bit strange. When I broke my arm on July 4th a few years back, police and ambulance were in my back yard in minutes. Why would the police respond to a broken-leg / medical call? Did you inform the dispatcher that some stink-eye broke your leg and is roaming the neighborhood with a baseball bat? 911 calls usually go to the police or sheriff's office in areas where the fire department and EMT are volunteer services. The police are usually the first to respond followed by EMT. It has nothing to do with a crime occuring. -- Bill In Hamptonburgh, NY In the original Orange County. Est. 1683 To email, remove the double zeros after @ |
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On Thu, 05 Jan 2012 10:25:10 -0600, Swingman wrote:
On 1/5/2012 8:21 AM, Bill Gill wrote: On 1/5/2012 7:33 AM, Leon wrote: http://gma.yahoo.com/video/news-2679...-27777235.html It doesn't sound good for mom to me. Granted she defended herself, but now she has killed somebody. The guy may have needed it, but I suspect that she is pretty much traumatized over it. She certainly didn't look very happy on the news last night. Horse****! 1,000:1 odds that Bill does -not- own a gun? -- It takes as much energy to wish as to plan. --Eleanor Roosevelt |
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Rather than "we" speak of her being traumatized (and hence, giving her
the sense or idea that she should be), the general populace should be speaking of her (and, hence, giving to her the sense of) being proud of herself and be emotionally elevated, in the best way (exactlty the opposite of traumatized), that she did what she did. Lets not just offer her a dollar reward (material gain), but give her a mental gain, also, ie., it's the right thing to do, so be glad. Screw the trauma idea, in every way. Sonny |
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On 05 Jan 2012 19:44:36 GMT, Han wrote:
"Lee Michaels" leemichaels*nadaspam* at comcast dot net wrote in eb.com: "Swingman" wrote ... On 1/5/2012 8:21 AM, Bill Gill wrote: On 1/5/2012 7:33 AM, Leon wrote: http://gma.yahoo.com/video/news-2679...er-18-kills-in truder-breaking-into-her-home-while-on-phone-with-911-27777235.html It doesn't sound good for mom to me. Granted she defended herself, but now she has killed somebody. The guy may have needed it, but I suspect that she is pretty much traumatized over it. She certainly didn't look very happy on the news last night. Horse****! Agreed. There is all kinds of trauma. Her husband had died a few days earlier. What kind of trauma would have happened to her and her babies if she did not shoot him? Also. what if some politically correct prosecutor came after her? Some self defense victims are ruined financially with having to defend their actions. That would certainly be traumatic. Also, she in no way did anything aggressive or reckless. She hid for 21 minutes, talking to 911 before she shot the guy. All the time protecting her child. How many times have we heard about some idiot who lost it and somebody died because they did not do the right thing and act in a manner that protected life. She did the exact right thing. And for that, she should be proud of herself. She was a mamma bear protecting her cub. I am certain that any other kind of response (or non response) would be terribly traumatic. Not only for her, but for every one who knew her. Again, she did the right thing. The other point that nobody wants to talk about is that she is a woman. I taught self defense classes to women over 40 years ago. Long before it became socially acceptable to do such things. There is tremendous pressure on women in general to be a victim. Don't fight back, don't make a scene, etc. Not only is this demeaning to women, but it is a green light to any kind of whacko or criminal to prey on "helpless" women. Like the bumper sticker says, "Nobody Ever Raped A .38". Having directly dealt with a large number of women who were assaulted, I can tell you that hurting somebody else is far preferable to being a victim. The women I worked with fell into two categories. Those who wanted to move on and were willing to do whatever to see that this sort of thing never occurred again. The other category was much more tragic. These poor women basically crawled into a paranoid hole and never came out again. They became recluses, depressed, etc. I think today, there would be more support for them. But the fact is that a large number of victims never live normal lives again. Whatever trauma occurs as a result of defending yourself, it simply does not compare to the alternative. And I know that it is a cornerstone of liberal philosophy to create more victims and disarm the populace. Apparently creating safe working conditions for criminals has a higher social purpose. This woman did exactly the right thing. She should be commended and rewarded in some fashion. Certainly she should be given some support of some kind. If more women were like her, there would be less problems in this country. And as for the poor misunderstood home invaders, that is simple. Just use them for target practice. It is like those morons who hang a sign outside of their house, "gun free zone". They get robbed pretty quickly. They take the sign down. Criminal are safety conscious. It would be better for every one to created DANGEROUS working conditions for criminals. End of rant. Nice one, Lee. Kudos. I'm a liberal. I am in favor of registration of firearms, and licensing people for the use of them. Does that hold for just us law abiding citizens, or the criminals, too, Han? This lady did the right thing, and (I believe) has the 911 tapes to prove it. Because she had a baby, and was in her home, she had and has the right to defend herself against a perp like this. While it must be traumatic to know she killed a human being, that human being didn't live according to the rules. End of story. Kudos to the lady and I hope she can get on with her life as best she can as soon as she can. Ditto. -- It takes as much energy to wish as to plan. --Eleanor Roosevelt |
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On 05 Jan 2012 22:31:46 GMT, Han wrote:
"HeyBub" wrote in : Han wrote: I'm a liberal. I am in favor of registration of firearms, and licensing people for the use of them. This lady did the right thing, and (I believe) has the 911 tapes to prove it. Because she had a baby, and was in her home, she had and has the right to defend herself against a perp like this. While it must be traumatic to know she killed a human being, that human being didn't live according to the rules. End of story. Kudos to the lady and I hope she can get on with her life as best she can as soon as she can. Then live with the fact that in some benighted (i.e., liberal) jurisdictions, she did NOT have the right to take a human life unless she was certain her life was in danger (and maybe not even then). She would not be allowed to presume an imminent threat to her life by the actions of the squint. Unless he said "I'm going to kill you," he could just as easily been inclined to merely rape her. She didn't know, hence she was guilty of at least manslaughter. I must admit that I'm not sure whether she or her baby was indeed under real imminent threat of being harmed, Didn't you listen to what she said in the video? Several large men, one wielding a 12" knife, who broke her door down to get at her isn't imminent threat of being harmed? Jesus, Han. Please buy a _clue_! and I did live in Mass. when there was a case of a woman fleeing into her basement during a home invasion, and killing the guy who ccame down after her. She was acquitted, I believe, because there was no secondary exit through which she could have fled. Had there been another exit from the basement, she should have used that. So his (possible) accomplice could have caught her instead? Right. -- It takes as much energy to wish as to plan. --Eleanor Roosevelt |
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On Thu, 05 Jan 2012 17:30:46 -0600, Bill Gill
wrote: On 1/5/2012 12:31 PM, Lee Michaels wrote: --snip of fine rant-- You are right, but it is still a tragedy for her. She just lost her husband and has had no time to even start recovering from that, and now she has the knowledge that she has killed a man on top of that. She did the right thing, but it is still a big tragedy to have that piled on top of her already huge load. Bill, I think it may have been a good thing, a freak chance, to have happen to her. It sure ripped her out of her mourning for her husband. It probably kick started her life again, too, weighing the value of everything left in her life. She'll likely be an even better mother as a result. (How's that for a positive spin on it?) -- It takes as much energy to wish as to plan. --Eleanor Roosevelt |
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On Thu, 05 Jan 2012 13:26:23 -0600, Leon lcb11211@swbelldotnet
wrote: On 1/5/2012 8:21 AM, Bill Gill wrote: On 1/5/2012 7:33 AM, Leon wrote: http://gma.yahoo.com/video/news-2679...-27777235.html It doesn't sound good for mom to me. Granted she defended herself, but now she has killed somebody. The guy may have needed it, but I suspect that she is pretty much traumatized over it. She certainly didn't look very happy on the news last night. Bill It is sad but probably the best out come whether she realizes it now or not. Ayup. Both guys (dead and jailed) probably won't be ruining anyone else's lives in the near future. And she proved to herself that she can stand up to anything life presents to her, even without her husband. It was a rough lesson, but a good one. -- It takes as much energy to wish as to plan. --Eleanor Roosevelt |
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"Larry Jaques" wrote in message ... On Thu, 05 Jan 2012 10:25:10 -0600, Swingman wrote: On 1/5/2012 8:21 AM, Bill Gill wrote: On 1/5/2012 7:33 AM, Leon wrote: http://gma.yahoo.com/video/news-2679...-27777235.html It doesn't sound good for mom to me. Granted she defended herself, but now she has killed somebody. The guy may have needed it, but I suspect that she is pretty much traumatized over it. She certainly didn't look very happy on the news last night. Horse****! 1,000:1 odds that Bill does -not- own a gun? There are other possibilities... One is that he decided he couldn't or wouldn't be able to defend himself with a gun and he projects that personal decision on others. Freedom of choice... that's fine. Making it policy is another issue. Alternatively, he may not have ever been in a position that led him to really ponder the situation. Sort of along the lines of the old joke about a Conservative being a Liberal who was mugged... though a strong argument has been made by some of my associates that Liberals are Conservatives who have had to deal with the police. I can appreciate that the use of force is not for everyone. I know too many women who were forcibly raped, one of them twice, and despite that most of them would never be able to shoot someone. That is a reality that many may not understand but maybe they should accept... There is widespread misinformation about the use of force and deadly physical force. If you carry or otherwise maintain a gun for self defense it would behoove you to take a comprehensive course on those issues. In NY it would revolve around P.L. article 35. Google "Grossbohlin Chan" for articles my associates and I wrote, and articles I critiqued as early drafts, on these issues many years ago. Gary Kleck, Don Kates and John Lott have good summary books/articles and Ed Suter caused quite a stir with his article on the anti-gun articles in the medical literature. As I recall I have Gary's summary of his seminal book Point Blank on Jeff Chan's site. I'm sure Ed's article is there. It's a complex issue... bumper stickers don't cover it! John |
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Larry Jaques wrote in
: On 05 Jan 2012 22:31:46 GMT, Han wrote: "HeyBub" wrote in : Han wrote: I'm a liberal. I am in favor of registration of firearms, and licensing people for the use of them. This lady did the right thing, and (I believe) has the 911 tapes to prove it. Because she had a baby, and was in her home, she had and has the right to defend herself against a perp like this. While it must be traumatic to know she killed a human being, that human being didn't live according to the rules. End of story. Kudos to the lady and I hope she can get on with her life as best she can as soon as she can. Then live with the fact that in some benighted (i.e., liberal) jurisdictions, she did NOT have the right to take a human life unless she was certain her life was in danger (and maybe not even then). She would not be allowed to presume an imminent threat to her life by the actions of the squint. Unless he said "I'm going to kill you," he could just as easily been inclined to merely rape her. She didn't know, hence she was guilty of at least manslaughter. I must admit that I'm not sure whether she or her baby was indeed under real imminent threat of being harmed, Didn't you listen to what she said in the video? Several large men, one wielding a 12" knife, who broke her door down to get at her isn't imminent threat of being harmed? Jesus, Han. Please buy a _clue_! I indeed didn't listen to the whole story. I got the message almost right away. I am not a lawyer who has to look at all sides. I believe that indeed as you stated she was in imminent danger. And I am definitely NOT saying she did wrong, liberal as I am grin. and I did live in Mass. when there was a case of a woman fleeing into her basement during a home invasion, and killing the guy who ccame down after her. She was acquitted, I believe, because there was no secondary exit through which she could have fled. Had there been another exit from the basement, she should have used that. So his (possible) accomplice could have caught her instead? Right. I lived in Mass in the early 70's - a long time ago, and my memory is fading. If you want to research the details, go ahead. Not sure there was or could have been an accomplice in this case. -- Best regards Han email address is invalid |
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"-MIKE-" wrote in message ... Taking a human life is a horrible -MIKE- Uh........................Not always. Max, 1st Cavalry Division, Korea, Aug. 1950 - Aug. 1951. |
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On 1/5/12 10:07 PM, Max wrote:
"-MIKE-" wrote in message ... Taking a human life is a horrible -MIKE- Uh........................Not always. Max, 1st Cavalry Division, Korea, Aug. 1950 - Aug. 1951. No Max, it's always horrible. Even though it is often justified, valiant, heroic, and wise, anytime man is forced to play God in deciding when another life shall end, it is also tragic. I truly thank you for your service, but I'm certain you don't look upon what you had to honorably do with folly. -- -MIKE- "Playing is not something I do at night, it's my function in life" --Elvin Jones (1927-2004) -- http://mikedrums.com ---remove "DOT" ^^^^ to reply |
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"Max" wrote in message b.com... "-MIKE-" wrote in message ... Taking a human life is a horrible -MIKE- Uh........................Not always. Max, 1st Cavalry Division, Korea, Aug. 1950 - Aug. 1951. ================================================== ========= Go Cav! |
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On 1/5/2012 6:39 PM, Swingman wrote:
On 1/5/2012 7:36 PM, Han wrote: wrote in m: Bureau of Alcohol, Tobacco, Firearms, and Explosives. Also known as the WACO (We Ain't Comin' Out) bandits. Waco was a very bad job, but that bunch seemed quite nuts to me. YMMV. Anyway, to me it didn't seem necessary to kill them at that time. What other time would have been better? Never. Never would have been better. |
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