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Why is it, that some people are more resilient to stress and keep
acting rationally, whereas some others, at the first trouble, break down completely, start getting hysterical, blame others instead of being constructive, etc? Think about people you would take with you to a recon mission, and those you would not. i |
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Ignoramus30509 wrote: Why is it, that some people are more resilient to stress and keep acting rationally, whereas some others, at the first trouble, break down completely, start getting hysterical, blame others instead of being constructive, etc? Think about people you would take with you to a recon mission, and those you would not. i Genetics. Contrary to the feel-good ideal of "all men created equal", the reality is that is anything but the truth. |
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Pete C. wrote:
Ignoramus30509 wrote: Why is it, that some people are more resilient to stress and keep acting rationally, whereas some others, at the first trouble, break down completely, start getting hysterical, blame others instead of being constructive, etc? Think about people you would take with you to a recon mission, and those you would not. i Genetics. Contrary to the feel-good ideal of "all men created equal", the reality is that is anything but the truth. I have to suggest that life experience (IE:how did your parents handle this sort of "occurence" ?) and training may play as big or bigger role than genetics . If Mom melted down because the centerpiece for her "big dinner" wasn't quite perfect , chances are that the kids will learn the same type of behavior . Parents who exhibit a "we can handle it" attitude are also likely to have children who do too ... Training can also play an important part of how we react . If your first reaction to hearing shots is to take cover , determine source and , decide whether to return fire - that's training . If you fall to the ground blubbering in fear ... My choices in recon teammates would likely have been Boy Scouts -Life or Eagle - because they've proven they will stick with it . Other factors would also apply , including training and having been under fire at some time . Ya don't know what man's gonna do until he's been in that situation . -- Snag Learning keeps you young ! |
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Snag wrote: Pete C. wrote: Ignoramus30509 wrote: Why is it, that some people are more resilient to stress and keep acting rationally, whereas some others, at the first trouble, break down completely, start getting hysterical, blame others instead of being constructive, etc? Think about people you would take with you to a recon mission, and those you would not. i Genetics. Contrary to the feel-good ideal of "all men created equal", the reality is that is anything but the truth. I have to suggest that life experience (IE:how did your parents handle this sort of "occurence" ?) and training may play as big or bigger role than genetics . If Mom melted down because the centerpiece for her "big dinner" wasn't quite perfect , chances are that the kids will learn the same type of behavior . Parents who exhibit a "we can handle it" attitude are also likely to have children who do too ... Training can also play an important part of how we react . If your first reaction to hearing shots is to take cover , determine source and , decide whether to return fire - that's training . If you fall to the ground blubbering in fear ... My choices in recon teammates would likely have been Boy Scouts -Life or Eagle - because they've proven they will stick with it . Other factors would also apply , including training and having been under fire at some time . Ya don't know what man's gonna do until he's been in that situation . -- Snag Learning keeps you young ! Certainly experience has some role, but we all have seen folks who are polar opposites of at least one of their parents. As for reaction to hearing shots, I'd suggest that the "fall to the ground blubbering in fear" is just as much a learned action as "taking cover, determining the source, and deciding whether to return fire". The instinctive reaction to an unexpected loud noise is to startle, what you do after that is learned. |
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On Thu, 06 Jan 2011 09:42:06 -0600, Ignoramus30509
wrote: Why is it, that some people are more resilient to stress and keep acting rationally, whereas some others, at the first trouble, break down completely, start getting hysterical, blame others instead of being constructive, etc? Think about people you would take with you to a recon mission, and those you would not. i Those I would take with me on a recon mission would have significant training, skills and applicable experience. Those who break easily would not have successfully completed such training. Those who handle stress well are usually those who are confident that they can even when they don't know exactly how they will. Training and comparable experience definitely develop confidence, but other life experiences do also. |
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On Jan 6, 10:42*am, Ignoramus30509 ignoramus30...@NOSPAM.
30509.invalid wrote: Why is it, that some people are more resilient to stress and keep acting rationally, whereas some others, at the first trouble, break down completely, start getting hysterical, blame others instead of being constructive, etc? Think about people you would take with you to a recon mission, and those you would not. i Maturity? Which is independent of intelligence. |
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Jim Wilkins wrote:
On Jan 6, 10:42 am, Ignoramus30509ignoramus30...@NOSPAM. 30509.invalid wrote: Why is it, that some people are more resilient to stress and keep acting rationally, whereas some others, at the first trouble, break down completely, start getting hysterical, blame others instead of being constructive, etc? Think about people you would take with you to a recon mission, and those you would not. i Maturity? Which is independent of intelligence. "Life Is like a Box of Chocolates. You Never Know What You're Gonna Get." -- Winston Gump |
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On Jan 6, 12:21*pm, Don Foreman wrote:
... Those I would take with me on a recon mission would have significant training, skills and applicable experience. *Those who break easily would not have successfully completed such training. * I've been surprised by who jumps in to help me in a sudden emergency, and who stands by with a blank stare. One such was a former Navy diver who had told everyone what a hero he was. Some women including my ex respond very well in a crisis despite having no training. In general I'd pick former submarine crew who are fairly plentiful in high tech, unlike SpecOps vets. jsw |
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"Ignoramus30509" wrote in message ... Why is it, that some people are more resilient to stress and keep acting rationally, whereas some others, at the first trouble, break down completely, start getting hysterical, blame others instead of being constructive, etc? Think about people you would take with you to a recon mission, and those you would not. i It's getting hard enough to just find someone with whom you can have an intelligent conversation. After that, it is refreshing to start a new friendship. Steve |
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On Thu, 06 Jan 2011 10:00:34 -0600, "Pete C."
wrote: Ignoramus30509 wrote: Why is it, that some people are more resilient to stress and keep acting rationally, whereas some others, at the first trouble, break down completely, start getting hysterical, blame others instead of being constructive, etc? Think about people you would take with you to a recon mission, and those you would not. i Genetics. You don't think that upbringing has anything to do with that? If so, I strongly disagree. Both count heavily. Contrary to the feel-good ideal of "all men created equal", the reality is that is anything but the truth. C'mon, Pete. That concept is supposed to be about freedom, not brain comparison. It means that all people should be given the same chances, not that anyone in the world can teach a quantum dynamic course at college or engineer a new version of space shuttle. -- A smile is the shortest distance between two people. -- Victor Borge |
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Pete C. wrote:
Snag wrote: Certainly experience has some role, but we all have seen folks who are polar opposites of at least one of their parents. And even siblings that are opposite in that regard also. But remember only half the DNA is form one parent and then there is the "dominant vs recesive" characteristics. etc. So it's still a big guessing game. ...lew... |
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Steve B wrote:
It's getting hard enough to just find someone with whom you can have an intelligent conversation. Steve Boy is that ever the truth, especially on the internet. :-) ...lew... |
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Ignoramus30509 wrote:
Why is it, that some people are more resilient to stress and keep acting rationally, whereas some others, at the first trouble, break down completely, start getting hysterical, blame others instead of being constructive, etc? Some people are barely getting though life. They cover it by hystericsa and finger pointing. This is magnified by personal feelings of insecurity. Think about people you would take with you to a recon mission, and those you would not. Very few and those would tend to be game hunters. Wes -- "Additionally as a security officer, I carry a gun to protect government officials but my life isn't worth protecting at home in their eyes." Dick Anthony Heller |
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I think that this resilience can be improved by training.
Ergo, if one can be taught that it is possible to jump through fire, then other things also seem doable. But it has to be something beyond just being exposed to stress, as some people break down every time they have a stress. I think that the key is to have stress and win over something. Myself, I do not freak out in emergencies, ever, but some people I know, do. i |
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On 2011-01-06, Wes wrote:
Think about people you would take with you to a recon mission, and those you would not. Very few and those would tend to be game hunters. Oddly enough, the friend who I had in mind as someone I would go to a recon mission, happens to be a game hunter. Interesting observation Wes. i |
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"Ignoramus30509" wrote in message ... I think that this resilience can be improved by training. Ergo, if one can be taught that it is possible to jump through fire, then other things also seem doable. But it has to be something beyond just being exposed to stress, as some people break down every time they have a stress. I think that the key is to have stress and win over something. Myself, I do not freak out in emergencies, ever, but some people I know, do. i Here's my nomination for an answer to this mental thing.... Zen and the Art of Motorcycle Maintenance by Robert M. Pirsig |
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On 01/06/2011 07:42 AM, Ignoramus30509 wrote:
Why is it, that some people are more resilient to stress and keep acting rationally, whereas some others, at the first trouble, break down completely, start getting hysterical, blame others instead of being constructive, etc? I do that eventually, but not at the _first_ sign of trouble. Think about people you would take with you to a recon mission, and those you would not. Given how inexperienced I am (and the chances of my knees giving out), I wouldn't want to take anyone unless the situation were dire. Tag along behind someone who knows their s**t, even if they're 20 years younger than me, yes. Lead, well, things would have to be pretty well down the tubes before it made sense. -- Tim Wescott Wescott Design Services http://www.wescottdesign.com Do you need to implement control loops in software? "Applied Control Theory for Embedded Systems" was written for you. See details at http://www.wescottdesign.com/actfes/actfes.html |
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"Ignoramus30509" wrote in message ... I think that this resilience can be improved by training. Ergo, if one can be taught that it is possible to jump through fire, then other things also seem doable. But it has to be something beyond just being exposed to stress, as some people break down every time they have a stress. I think that the key is to have stress and win over something. Myself, I do not freak out in emergencies, ever, but some people I know, do. i I went to commercial diver's training. My instructor was an ex-Navy SEAL. His name was Bob Mackey. He pushed me until I found out that I had more inside of me than I knew was there. It would serve me well in the next six years of commercial diving, and all the thrills and spills and adventures involved with that. And many times I called on that knowledge that I had a lot inside when I was up against it. And sometimes, people who would pull you out of a fire crack under the every day stress of a relationship. It's hard to know which way anyone is going to fly on any particular day. Or incident. Steve |
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On 2011-01-06, Snag wrote:
[ ... ] Training can also play an important part of how we react . If your first reaction to hearing shots is to take cover , determine source and , decide whether to return fire - that's training . If you fall to the ground blubbering in fear ... Of course, if you don't *have* the means for returning fire, just taking cover may help. And -- if there is no cover (flat terrain) and there are other people (targets) around, falling flat may suggest that you have already been hit, and that others are beter targets. :-) The blugbering, of course, does no good. :-) Enjoy, DoN. -- Remove oil spill source from e-mail Email: | Voice (all times): (703) 938-4564 (too) near Washington D.C. | http://www.d-and-d.com/dnichols/DoN.html --- Black Holes are where God is dividing by zero --- |
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On Thu, 6 Jan 2011 10:29:32 -0800 (PST), Jim Wilkins
wrote: On Jan 6, 12:21*pm, Don Foreman wrote: ... Those I would take with me on a recon mission would have significant training, skills and applicable experience. *Those who break easily would not have successfully completed such training. * I've been surprised by who jumps in to help me in a sudden emergency, and who stands by with a blank stare. One such was a former Navy diver who had told everyone what a hero he was. Some women including my ex respond very well in a crisis despite having no training. In general I'd pick former submarine crew who are fairly plentiful in high tech, unlike SpecOps vets. jsw I mentioned skills and training because Ig specifically mentioned a recon mission. Some women are indeed very good under stress. My neighbor Nikki is a ICU nurse and has worked in the ER. She is absolutely unflappable. |
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DoN. Nichols wrote:
On 2011-01-06, Snag wrote: [ ... ] Training can also play an important part of how we react . If your first reaction to hearing shots is to take cover , determine source and , decide whether to return fire - that's training . If you fall to the ground blubbering in fear ... Of course, if you don't *have* the means for returning fire, just taking cover may help. And -- if there is no cover (flat terrain) and there are other people (targets) around, falling flat may suggest that you have already been hit, and that others are beter targets. :-) The blugbering, of course, does no good. :-) Enjoy, DoN. All good points ! I dunno , the way our world is changing I'm becoming more and more into the survivalist mindset . And giving thought to who I want around me if/when a collapse occurs . And I've come to realize just how much we depend on the utility infrastructure . Cut off the gas and 'lectrons , and lots of people ain't gonna know what to do . -- Snag Learning keeps you young ! |
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On 2011-01-07, Snag wrote:
I dunno , the way our world is changing I'm becoming more and more into the survivalist mindset . And giving thought to who I want around me if/when a collapse occurs . And I've come to realize just how much we depend on the utility infrastructure . Cut off the gas and 'lectrons , and lots of people ain't gonna know what to do . Snag, look into history. These kinds of disruptions happened many times, and nothing major happened. No massive die offs, people recovered and life moved on. I am still into survivalist mindset, but mostly because I like guns, tools and generators.I did realize, though, that survivalist fears are overdone. i |
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On Thu, 06 Jan 2011 09:42:06 -0600, Ignoramus30509
wrote: Why is it, that some people are more resilient to stress and keep acting rationally, whereas some others, at the first trouble, break down completely, start getting hysterical, blame others instead of being constructive, etc? Think about people you would take with you to a recon mission, and those you would not. i Just this week a physician told Mary he'd never had a patient with issues like she has that was quite as upbeat as she is. Unlike recon missions which eventually end, there's no safe return from an incurable disease. It's a less urgent form of stress, but perhaps more telling because it is relentlessly ever-present -- and it does get urgent now and then as when BP drops to levels that should not support consciousness but she flat refuses to give in and faint. I have great respect for our spec ops warriors, force recon marines and LRRP soldiers having known a few, but they ain't the only exemplars of courage. We did a down-and-back-same-day run to Mayo today for a triple chemo session. Mar was cheering up the others around her with her plucky attitude. The road we see ahead is a low crawl up a hill of sharp rocks, but eventual improvement and abatement is possible and an objective. Her team of professionals at Mayo are committed to maximizing her quality of life. We are far from done enjoying life and each other. Mayo is not treating her this way because we're rich or elite. We're seniors on medicare with good supplementary insurance, responsible but ordinary people. Mayo is far from elitist. The folks next to Mary today were from Fort Dodge, Iowa, nice folks and clean-cut. A discussion about wigs revealed value-consciousness. Her wig was very becoming (faked us out), we got a good tip there. We're going to Mayo because they are world-class in understanding how to manage Mary's very rare (8 per million) incurable disease. Doctors learn how to treat disease by treating disease. We all eventually die, mercifully so I think, but it's worthwhile to make whatever contributions we can to prolong good lives for our collective progeny. |
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On Thu, 06 Jan 2011 10:00:34 -0600, "Pete C."
wrote: Ignoramus30509 wrote: Why is it, that some people are more resilient to stress and keep acting rationally, whereas some others, at the first trouble, break down completely, start getting hysterical, blame others instead of being constructive, etc? Think about people you would take with you to a recon mission, and those you would not. i Genetics. Contrary to the feel-good ideal of "all men created equal", the reality is that is anything but the truth. Genetics..and/or training. Ive found that teaching people who have never had Real Stress before..subjecting them to increasing amounts of it...and they suddenly find "themselves" and the ability to either shut off the stress component or simply tuck it away for later. The younger you can teach them..the better of course. Ive seen 18 yr old kids snap all the rubber bands in their skulls..and old farts and fartesses simply keep on doing whatever the task takes..and oddly enough..vise versa in about equal numbers. But Ive found few people that couldnt handle far far more stress than they believed possible, if you prime them, train them properly. Gunner -- "You can have peace. Or you can have freedom. Don't ever count on having both at once." Robert A. Heinlein |
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Ignoramus30509 wrote:
Why is it, that some people are more resilient to stress and keep acting rationally, whereas some others, at the first trouble, break down completely, start getting hysterical, blame others instead of being constructive, etc? Think about people you would take with you to a recon mission, and those you would not. I'd rather ally myself with those who aren't addicted to war, making "recon missions" moot. Thanks, Rich |
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On Fri, 7 Jan 2011 07:49:08 -0600, "Snag" wrote:
DoN. Nichols wrote: On 2011-01-06, Snag wrote: [ ... ] Training can also play an important part of how we react . If your first reaction to hearing shots is to take cover , determine source and , decide whether to return fire - that's training . If you fall to the ground blubbering in fear ... Of course, if you don't *have* the means for returning fire, just taking cover may help. And -- if there is no cover (flat terrain) and there are other people (targets) around, falling flat may suggest that you have already been hit, and that others are beter targets. :-) The blugbering, of course, does no good. :-) Enjoy, DoN. All good points ! I dunno , the way our world is changing I'm becoming more and more into the survivalist mindset . And giving thought to who I want around me if/when a collapse occurs . And I've come to realize just how much we depend on the utility infrastructure . Cut off the gas and 'lectrons , and lots of people ain't gonna know what to do . As a one time child of Unca Sam, and a street cop..and a survivalist for 35 yrs...its not a bad life safety art to be learned..and one keeps on learning until life goes away. There are two mindsets among survivalists..the "loner" and the "crew". The loner believes that he/she will survive bad stuff better if he is alone, able to hide better, skulk around, sneak in and out..then does a crowd. And there certainly is some truth to that. And its a good technique that really should be learned for lifes little emergencies of shor duration. But as I get older..Ive found that "crew" is better for most things other than sneak and peek military tasks. You gotta sleep sometime..best to have someone standing watch while you are snotted off. Someone to stitch up a wound, put bug spray on your back and help do the laundry. Which is why the smallest norma military formation is a squad..up to 12 people all able to watch each others backs, and do tasks in tandum. If only one person can read a compass..and he gets hurt..suddenly yall are lost. Ancient family/clan groups found this out thousands of years ago. 12 can sneak around nearly as well as 1..and there is far greater safety in numbers than going it alone, and so forth. However...you cant simply pull 12 off the street of Belaire California and expect to have a team, yet you might very well do that in Alpine Texas and have it run sucessfully. What I and MOST survivalists do..is plan on a group of up to 25 or so. Everyone learns 2 basic skills above personal survival..and works, plays and trains together as often as possible. I believe that the least number of able bodied souls that will work good as a team is 5...under no combat situations. 2-3 in task specific functions. Id be happy to expound on request..shrug..but I believe that you understand what Im roughing out. Gunner -- "You can have peace. Or you can have freedom. Don't ever count on having both at once." Robert A. Heinlein |
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On Fri, 07 Jan 2011 08:07:14 -0600, Ignoramus29524
wrote: On 2011-01-07, Snag wrote: I dunno , the way our world is changing I'm becoming more and more into the survivalist mindset . And giving thought to who I want around me if/when a collapse occurs . And I've come to realize just how much we depend on the utility infrastructure . Cut off the gas and 'lectrons , and lots of people ain't gonna know what to do . Snag, look into history. These kinds of disruptions happened many times, and nothing major happened. No massive die offs, people recovered and life moved on. I am still into survivalist mindset, but mostly because I like guns, tools and generators.I did realize, though, that survivalist fears are overdone. i Blink blink...Iggy..I strongly suggest you review history before the 1990s inside the US. Its a very big and very nasty world outside our borders. Gunner -- "You can have peace. Or you can have freedom. Don't ever count on having both at once." Robert A. Heinlein |
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On Sat, 08 Jan 2011 03:56:37 -0800, Rich Grise
wrote: Ignoramus30509 wrote: Why is it, that some people are more resilient to stress and keep acting rationally, whereas some others, at the first trouble, break down completely, start getting hysterical, blame others instead of being constructive, etc? Think about people you would take with you to a recon mission, and those you would not. I'd rather ally myself with those who aren't addicted to war, making "recon missions" moot. Thanks, Rich Then you agree we have to kill those addicted to war? Gunner -- "You can have peace. Or you can have freedom. Don't ever count on having both at once." Robert A. Heinlein |
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wrote: Snag, look into history. These kinds of disruptions happened many times, and nothing major happened. No massive die offs, people recovered and life moved on. I am still into survivalist mindset, but mostly because I like guns, tools and generators.I did realize, though, that survivalist fears are overdone. i Have you ever heard of cognitive dissonance? That is where there is a huge threat, and the minds of the general public simply cannot handle it, so they just go off and play Nintendo or go get laid or high or get their nails done or whatever. We're coming up to some pretty drastic things in the way of fuel prices, shortage of good water, failure of money and the financial system, moral decay, camel jockeys getting nukes, and several other areas. It's good to be a Boy Scout. Steve |
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On Sat, 08 Jan 2011 03:56:37 -0800, Rich Grise
wrote: Ignoramus30509 wrote: Why is it, that some people are more resilient to stress and keep acting rationally, whereas some others, at the first trouble, break down completely, start getting hysterical, blame others instead of being constructive, etc? Think about people you would take with you to a recon mission, and those you would not. I'd rather ally myself with those who aren't addicted to war, making "recon missions" moot. The Democrap party wants YOU! I'd much rather know sharp-end people. -- If you're looking for the key to the Universe, I've got some good news and some bad news. The bad news: There is no key to the Universe. The good news: It was never locked. --Swami Beyondananda |
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On 2011-01-08, Steve B wrote:
wrote: Snag, look into history. These kinds of disruptions happened many times, and nothing major happened. No massive die offs, people recovered and life moved on. I am still into survivalist mindset, but mostly because I like guns, tools and generators.I did realize, though, that survivalist fears are overdone. i Have you ever heard of cognitive dissonance? That is where there is a huge threat, and the minds of the general public simply cannot handle it, so they just go off and play Nintendo or go get laid or high or get their nails done or whatever. We're coming up to some pretty drastic things in the way of fuel prices, shortage of good water, failure of money and the financial system, moral decay, camel jockeys getting nukes, and several other areas. It's good to be a Boy Scout. Steve, think about New Orleans. It was rather bad in many ways, flood, bad evacuation, looting, racial issues, etc, but only 1,500 people died out of 336,000 people. i |
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"Ignoramus12953" wrote in message ... On 2011-01-08, Steve B wrote: wrote: Snag, look into history. These kinds of disruptions happened many times, and nothing major happened. No massive die offs, people recovered and life moved on. I am still into survivalist mindset, but mostly because I like guns, tools and generators.I did realize, though, that survivalist fears are overdone. i Have you ever heard of cognitive dissonance? That is where there is a huge threat, and the minds of the general public simply cannot handle it, so they just go off and play Nintendo or go get laid or high or get their nails done or whatever. We're coming up to some pretty drastic things in the way of fuel prices, shortage of good water, failure of money and the financial system, moral decay, camel jockeys getting nukes, and several other areas. It's good to be a Boy Scout. Steve, think about New Orleans. It was rather bad in many ways, flood, bad evacuation, looting, racial issues, etc, but only 1,500 people died out of 336,000 people. i Yes, and contrary to rumors, there was little long term harm. Right? Steve |
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Ignoramus12953 wrote: On 2011-01-08, Steve B wrote: wrote: Snag, look into history. These kinds of disruptions happened many times, and nothing major happened. No massive die offs, people recovered and life moved on. I am still into survivalist mindset, but mostly because I like guns, tools and generators.I did realize, though, that survivalist fears are overdone. i Have you ever heard of cognitive dissonance? That is where there is a huge threat, and the minds of the general public simply cannot handle it, so they just go off and play Nintendo or go get laid or high or get their nails done or whatever. We're coming up to some pretty drastic things in the way of fuel prices, shortage of good water, failure of money and the financial system, moral decay, camel jockeys getting nukes, and several other areas. It's good to be a Boy Scout. Steve, think about New Orleans. It was rather bad in many ways, flood, bad evacuation, looting, racial issues, etc, but only 1,500 people died out of 336,000 people. i Only 1,500 people died out of 336,000 people, however this was due to the very localized nature of the incident and the fact that the other 334,500 people were able to evacuate a relatively short distance to areas where infrastructure was intact. Had this not been the case, the bulk of those 334,500 other people would not have survived. I don't think any real collapse of civilization is likely in any of our lifetimes, however I do think that the Great Global Tidy Bowl Swirl (tm) is going to continue and overall conditions will continue to deteriorate. I'm not so much into the "survivalist" thing, but I do think it is a reasonable goal to become as self reliant and self sufficient as practical so as to minimize the impact of the continued decline on yourself and your family. |
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On Jan 8, 6:56*am, Rich Grise wrote:
... I'd rather ally myself with those who aren't addicted to war, making "recon missions" moot. Rich Keep thinking those comfortable thoughts and learn to say YESSIR! |
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Pete C. wrote:
Ignoramus30509 wrote: Why is it, that some people are more resilient to stress and keep acting rationally, whereas some others, at the first trouble, break down completely, start getting hysterical, blame others instead of being constructive, etc? Think about people you would take with you to a recon mission, and those you would not. Genetics. Contrary to the feel-good ideal of "all men created equal", the reality is that is anything but the truth. Oh, were _created_ equal. What you do with that from that point on is up to you. Hope This Helps! Rich |
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Gunner Asch wrote:
On Sat, 08 Jan 2011 03:56:37 -0800, Rich Grise Ignoramus30509 wrote: Why is it, that some people are more resilient to stress and keep acting rationally, whereas some others, at the first trouble, break down completely, start getting hysterical, blame others instead of being constructive, etc? Think about people you would take with you to a recon mission, and those you would not. I'd rather ally myself with those who aren't addicted to war, making "recon missions" moot. Then you agree we have to kill those addicted to war? No, just stop electing them; maybe get the country into rehab. Say, where's that computer you were going to donate? I've lost your phone #, but you can email me at , but without the "ard." (i.e., just concatenate "rich" and "grise".) Is it safe to post a phone # here? Thanks, Rich |
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On 2011-01-08, Steve B wrote:
"Ignoramus12953" wrote in message ... On 2011-01-08, Steve B wrote: wrote: Snag, look into history. These kinds of disruptions happened many times, and nothing major happened. No massive die offs, people recovered and life moved on. I am still into survivalist mindset, but mostly because I like guns, tools and generators.I did realize, though, that survivalist fears are overdone. i Have you ever heard of cognitive dissonance? That is where there is a huge threat, and the minds of the general public simply cannot handle it, so they just go off and play Nintendo or go get laid or high or get their nails done or whatever. We're coming up to some pretty drastic things in the way of fuel prices, shortage of good water, failure of money and the financial system, moral decay, camel jockeys getting nukes, and several other areas. It's good to be a Boy Scout. Steve, think about New Orleans. It was rather bad in many ways, flood, bad evacuation, looting, racial issues, etc, but only 1,500 people died out of 336,000 people. i Yes, and contrary to rumors, there was little long term harm. Right? There was a lot of harm, as far as I could tell. i |
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On Sat, 08 Jan 2011 09:51:26 -0800, Rich Grise
wrote: Gunner Asch wrote: On Sat, 08 Jan 2011 03:56:37 -0800, Rich Grise Ignoramus30509 wrote: Why is it, that some people are more resilient to stress and keep acting rationally, whereas some others, at the first trouble, break down completely, start getting hysterical, blame others instead of being constructive, etc? Think about people you would take with you to a recon mission, and those you would not. I'd rather ally myself with those who aren't addicted to war, making "recon missions" moot. Then you agree we have to kill those addicted to war? No, just stop electing them; maybe get the country into rehab. Say, where's that computer you were going to donate? I've lost your phone #, but you can email me at , but without the "ard." (i.e., just concatenate "rich" and "grise".) Is it safe to post a phone # here? Thanks, Rich Im working on that. I just got a call from a buddy down in Redondo Beach...asking for help to clean out his Dads home so they can be back in Arizona Monday morning. Now Ive got to get in the shower, dress, fuel up the ****ing truck and go right back down to LA for a day or two and help him. Shrug. Ill get your puter when I get the time. Gunner -- "You can have peace. Or you can have freedom. Don't ever count on having both at once." Robert A. Heinlein |
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On Sat, 08 Jan 2011 11:22:01 -0600, "Pete C."
wrote: Only 1,500 people died out of 336,000 people, however this was due to the very localized nature of the incident and the fact that the other 334,500 people were able to evacuate a relatively short distance to areas where infrastructure was intact. Had this not been the case, the bulk of those 334,500 other people would not have survived. I don't think any real collapse of civilization is likely in any of our lifetimes, however I do think that the Great Global Tidy Bowl Swirl (tm) is going to continue and overall conditions will continue to deteriorate. I'm not so much into the "survivalist" thing, but I do think it is a reasonable goal to become as self reliant and self sufficient as practical so as to minimize the impact of the continued decline on yourself and your family. What amazes me is that the insurance company and gov't both allowed them to rebuild in the same sinkhole after it dried out. Amazing. Head-up-their-asses Dumb, too. -- You and I have a rendezvous with destiny. We will preserve for our children this, the last best hope of man on Earth, or we will sentence them to take the last step into a thousand years of darkness.? -- Ronald Reagan |
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Gunner Asch wrote:
On Sat, 08 Jan 2011 09:51:26 -0800, Rich Grise Gunner Asch wrote: On Sat, 08 Jan 2011 03:56:37 -0800, Rich Grise Ignoramus30509 wrote: Why is it, that some people are more resilient to stress and keep acting rationally, whereas some others, at the first trouble, break down completely, start getting hysterical, blame others instead of being constructive, etc? Think about people you would take with you to a recon mission, and those you would not. I'd rather ally myself with those who aren't addicted to war, making "recon missions" moot. Then you agree we have to kill those addicted to war? No, just stop electing them; maybe get the country into rehab. Say, where's that computer you were going to donate? I've lost your phone #, but you can email me at , but without the "ard." (i.e., just concatenate "rich" and "grise".) Is it safe to post a phone # here? Im working on that. I just got a call from a buddy down in Redondo Beach...asking for help to clean out his Dads home so they can be back in Arizona Monday morning. Now Ive got to get in the shower, dress, fuel up the ****ing truck and go right back down to LA for a day or two and help him. Shrug. Ill get your puter when I get the time. Thanks! Sorry for being all "gimme gimme gimme" - beggars can't be choosers, after all. :-) Thanks! Rich |
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