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I made a guy a cane this past week. His only spec was that it be unique in
all the world. He ended up with segmented tamarind / leopardwood with a piece of birdseye maple at the handle end. I had him over for a fitting today to check the length and to select which of two sizes of brass horse hanes he wanted for his handle. Although we hadn't discussed price, I figured it would come up eventually so I had gone shopping at Meijers for their top of the line cane. I was also prepared to simply give it to him ... we are both Jehovah's Witnesses .... so, when he asked the price I told him that he could choose whether to accept it as a gift from me or to pay the Meijers price. He chose to pay the Meijers price ... plus $20. I figure anytime someone is willing to give me more than I ask for a piece, it counts as a gloat. ;-) Okay ... now that that is off my chest, I'm off to the basem -- err, 'shop' to stain the tamarind and maple black per his request. Bill |
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Black stain on tamarind & maple? Wow, I didn't even know Norm needed a
cane! grin |
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You gave him a choice to accept it as a gift or to pay the Meijers price.
What a miserable SOB. Why couldn't you just say to the guy, I'd like to make it a gift to you, instead of putting him on the spot. You then have the gall to gloat that he gave you more than the retail price. Sounds as though your motive was monetary all the while & that you were hoping against hope that he would choose to pay. jamesy. "W Canaday" wrote in message news I made a guy a cane this past week. His only spec was that it be unique in all the world. He ended up with segmented tamarind / leopardwood with a piece of birdseye maple at the handle end. I had him over for a fitting today to check the length and to select which of two sizes of brass horse hanes he wanted for his handle. Although we hadn't discussed price, I figured it would come up eventually so I had gone shopping at Meijers for their top of the line cane. I was also prepared to simply give it to him ... we are both Jehovah's Witnesses ... so, when he asked the price I told him that he could choose whether to accept it as a gift from me or to pay the Meijers price. He chose to pay the Meijers price ... plus $20. I figure anytime someone is willing to give me more than I ask for a piece, it counts as a gloat. ;-) Okay ... now that that is off my chest, I'm off to the basem -- err, 'shop' to stain the tamarind and maple black per his request. Bill *** Free account sponsored by SecureIX.com *** *** Encrypt your Internet usage with a free VPN account from http://www.SecureIX.com *** |
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jamesy wrote:
You gave him a choice to accept it as a gift or to pay the Meijers price. What a miserable SOB. Why couldn't you just say to the guy, I'd like to make it a gift to you, instead of putting him on the spot. You then have the gall to gloat that he gave you more than the retail price. Sounds as though your motive was monetary all the while & that you were hoping against hope that he would choose to pay. jamesy. That's one way of looking at it. Another is that he valued his friend highly - enough to make him a very fine cane comparable to the best he knew of. Unless his friend had priced fine canes elsewhere he might not realize the value his friend had for him. Most people have no idea how much knowledge, skill and time is required to make something, anything, that is One Off - and fine - just for them. And the reverse may be true. Most amateur woodworkers are somewhat over critical of their pieces, being aware of anything that could've been done better, every shortcoming. Having someone, especially a friend, let you know that a piece is better than the best they knew of is nice to hear. Sounds like both parties benefitted from the exchange - and the friendship probably strengthened. The recipient has a beautiful, unique, made just for him, cane he can enjoy and brag about. "A good friend made it specfically for me - three different and beautiful woods put together nicely don't you think? Feels nice too!" The maker of the cane can gloat that his work is as good if not better than the best he's aware of - and has a good friend. You look at it your way. Me, I'll look at it as a win-win for two friends. charlie b |
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On Tue, 14 Mar 2006 19:27:58 -0000, "jamesy" wrote:
You gave him a choice to accept it as a gift or to pay the Meijers price. What a miserable SOB. Why couldn't you just say to the guy, I'd like to make it a gift to you, instead of putting him on the spot. You then have the gall to gloat that he gave you more than the retail price. Sounds as though your motive was monetary all the while & that you were hoping against hope that he would choose to pay. jamesy. Geez, Jamesy- You get up on the wrong side of the bed? As far as I can tell, it's just an alternate version of the standard Midwest money game. (That's where you help someone out not expecting any recompense, they give you money, you give it back, this happens a couple of times until one of you gives up- weird, but it's the way things are done here; your area may differ.) It's not a motive issue, just local custom and it's always nice to get something in return for your time and materials- offering it for free is a nice gesture, and that Meijer's joint looks like a Wal-Mart from what I could tell on their website, so it looks like he offered a low price anyhow. Just my 2 cents |
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charlie b wrote in
: jamesy wrote: You gave him a choice to accept it as a gift or to pay the Meijers price. What a miserable SOB. Why couldn't you just say to the guy, I'd like to make it a gift to you, instead of putting him on the spot. You then have the gall to gloat that he gave you more than the retail price. Sounds as though your motive was monetary all the while & that you were hoping against hope that he would choose to pay. jamesy. That's one way of looking at it. Another is that he valued his friend highly - enough to make him a very fine cane comparable to the best he knew of. Unless his friend had priced fine canes elsewhere he might not realize the value his friend had for him. Most people have no idea how much knowledge, skill and time is required to make something, anything, that is One Off - and fine - just for them. And the reverse may be true. Most amateur woodworkers are somewhat over critical of their pieces, being aware of anything that could've been done better, every shortcoming. Having someone, especially a friend, let you know that a piece is better than the best they knew of is nice to hear. Sounds like both parties benefitted from the exchange - and the friendship probably strengthened. The recipient has a beautiful, unique, made just for him, cane he can enjoy and brag about. "A good friend made it specfically for me - three different and beautiful woods put together nicely don't you think? Feels nice too!" The maker of the cane can gloat that his work is as good if not better than the best he's aware of - and has a good friend. You look at it your way. Me, I'll look at it as a win-win for two friends. charlie b Mr. B, Jamesy was way out of line because he doesn't understand Witnesses; you were less out of line for the same reason.To put it in a nutshell, it was a normal transaction. Both parties were Jehovah's Witnesses; Witnesses will offer each other aid, comfort, shelter, any need without recompense. The friend was not in need, so paid 'his friend' for the cane. I think the gloat was because of the 'tip' and the great cane. I'm not one of Jehovah's Witness, but my mother and sister are. Others could take a lesson or two from them. Hank , |
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On Tue, 14 Mar 2006 05:30:23 -0800, Devon Miller wrote:
Black stain on tamarind & maple? Wow, I didn't even know Norm needed a cane! grin Yeah ... it kinda rubbed my fur all wrong. But it's his cane and that makes it his call. See my other posting for how it all turned out. Guess I'm not Norm after all. Bill |
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On Wed, 15 Mar 2006 21:19:55 -0600, Henry St.Pierre wrote:
Mr. B, Jamesy was way out of line because he doesn't understand Witnesses; you were less out of line for the same reason.To put it in a nutshell, it was a normal transaction. Both parties were Jehovah's Witnesses; Witnesses will offer each other aid, comfort, shelter, any need without recompense. The friend was not in need, so paid 'his friend' for the cane. I think the gloat was because of the 'tip' and the great cane. I'm not one of Jehovah's Witness, but my mother and sister are. Others could take a lesson or two from them. Hank , I don't think James meant any harm ... but you are right, he doesn't understand. All it took to 'buy' that cane was a smile, a handshake and a sincere "Thank you". That really IS the full asking price. If I had wanted more, I would have said so --before-- making the cane. Here's the rest of the story. Last summer somebody sicced a rotweiler on this elderly couple for trying to preach from the Bible. In our territory, it will eventually happen again. "Not preaching" is not an option. (Mt 24:14; 28:18,19) So another answer needed to be found. I made him a strong cane with a heavy metal handle to at least hold off the dog until his wife can escape. Perhaps that will buy him enough time for more help to arrive. Bill |
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On Wed, 15 Mar 2006 17:25:43 -0600, Prometheus
wrote: Geez, Jamesy- You get up on the wrong side of the bed? No, he's a troll. -- Chuck *#:^) chaz3913(AT)yahoo(DOT)com Anti-spam sig: please remove "NO SPAM" from e-mail address to reply. September 11, 2001 - Never Forget ----== Posted via Newsfeeds.Com - Unlimited-Unrestricted-Secure Usenet News==---- http://www.newsfeeds.com The #1 Newsgroup Service in the World! 120,000+ Newsgroups ----= East and West-Coast Server Farms - Total Privacy via Encryption =---- |
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W Canaday wrote in
news On Wed, 15 Mar 2006 21:19:55 -0600, Henry St.Pierre wrote: Mr. B, Jamesy was way out of line because he doesn't understand Witnesses; you were less out of line for the same reason.To put it in a nutshell, it was a normal transaction. Both parties were Jehovah's Witnesses; Witnesses will offer each other aid, comfort, shelter, any need without recompense. The friend was not in need, so paid 'his friend' for the cane. I think the gloat was because of the 'tip' and the great cane. I'm not one of Jehovah's Witness, but my mother and sister are. Others could take a lesson or two from them. Hank , I don't think James meant any harm ... but you are right, he doesn't understand. All it took to 'buy' that cane was a smile, a handshake and a sincere "Thank you". That really IS the full asking price. If I had wanted more, I would have said so --before-- making the cane. Here's the rest of the story. Last summer somebody sicced a rotweiler on this elderly couple for trying to preach from the Bible. In our territory, it will eventually happen again. "Not preaching" is not an option. (Mt 24:14; 28:18,19) So another answer needed to be found. I made him a strong cane with a heavy metal handle to at least hold off the dog until his wife can escape. Perhaps that will buy him enough time for more help to arrive. Bill Bill, Like I said, "I'm not a Witness". If anyone was to sic a dog on my mother (age 88), or my sister (age 61), or any other person not doing them harm and I became aware of it; a cane would be the least of their worries. Hank |
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What has this to do with woodturning?
I really will never understand Americans! |
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Tony the Turner wrote in
: What has this to do with woodturning? I really will never understand Americans! No Tony, you never really will. Keep turning or spinning with my fondest regards, Hank |
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On Fri, 17 Mar 2006 09:21:27 +0000, Tony the Turner
wrote: What has this to do with woodturning? I really will never understand Americans! Well Tony, what do your comments on what this has to do with turning, or your inability to understand Americans have to do with turning, either? Better check your eyes for beams. -- Chuck *#:^) chaz3913(AT)yahoo(DOT)com Anti-spam sig: please remove "NO SPAM" from e-mail address to reply. September 11, 2001 - Never Forget ----== Posted via Newsfeeds.Com - Unlimited-Unrestricted-Secure Usenet News==---- http://www.newsfeeds.com The #1 Newsgroup Service in the World! 120,000+ Newsgroups ----= East and West-Coast Server Farms - Total Privacy via Encryption =---- |
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On Thu, 16 Mar 2006 22:04:31 -0600, Henry St.Pierre wrote:
Bill, Like I said, "I'm not a Witness". If anyone was to sic a dog on my mother (age 88), or my sister (age 61), or any other person not doing them harm and I became aware of it; a cane would be the least of their worries. Hank AT this point in time, all that is left is revenge and, for us, revenge isn't an option. Self-defense, however, is another matter entirely. And just to keep Tony happy, the stick is made up of laminated wood and was the object of a finishing question in a separate thread. "Defense" and 'show' are the reasons for the cane .. but wood is its material and turning is (the bulk of) its method. I think that is sufficient to establish the relevancy of this thread to this newsgroup. I am certain I've seen less relevant threads go unquestioned. Bill |
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