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All work and no play, makes Jack a dull boy.
So, the bills got to be paid. The church tithes and offerings. The electric, rent, etc. But, that gets boring in a hurry. How much to spend on fun? Does anyone have a formula? Percentage, or what? -- Christopher A. Young Learn more about Jesus www.lds.org .. |
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Stormin Mormon wrote:
All work and no play, makes Jack a dull boy. So, the bills got to be paid. The church tithes and offerings. The electric, rent, etc. But, that gets boring in a hurry. How much to spend on fun? Does anyone have a formula? Percentage, or what? Fun can be a bike ride (assuming you already have the bike, of course). Then when you're done, you're too tired to spend any more money. Assuming you have food, of course. Jon |
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Stormin Mormon wrote:
All work and no play, makes Jack a dull boy. So, the bills got to be paid. The church tithes and offerings. The electric, rent, etc. But, that gets boring in a hurry. How much to spend on fun? Does anyone have a formula? Percentage, or what? Unless your church does actual real-world good works (funding mission trips doesn't count) with the tithe, I'd start with redirecting that. -- aem, trusting organized religion even less than organized government or organized crime, sends... |
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On Wed, 4 Aug 2010 23:03:20 -0400, "Stormin Mormon"
wrote: All work and no play, makes Jack a dull boy. So, the bills got to be paid. The church tithes and offerings. The electric, rent, etc. But, that gets boring in a hurry. How much to spend on fun? Does anyone have a formula? Percentage, or what? After all of the above, and savings, whatever is left. ;-) Put another way, as long as the obligations are taken care of, it's your money. |
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Stormin Mormon wrote:
All work and no play, makes Jack a dull boy. So, the bills got to be paid. The church tithes and offerings. The electric, rent, etc. But, that gets boring in a hurry. How much to spend on fun? Does anyone have a formula? Percentage, or what? All play and no retirement savings makes jack a frustrated old guy who's still working to keep ends met. Fun is not a percentage...it's a threshold that most people never meet. So they spend on fun anyway and hope for magic when they're old. People who are financially secure for the long term with an uncertain future don't have to ask what percentage. |
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All work and no play, makes Jack a dull boy. So, the bills got to be paid. The church tithes and offerings. The electric, rent, etc. But, that gets boring in a hurry. How much to spend on fun? Does anyone have a formula? Percentage, or what? When the bills are paid, then what is left over can go to fun. Simple as that! (I have a monthly budget in Excel spreadsheet, so I know on the 1st of the month how much money I have for what....) And when things are tight, I cut out optional stuff. Instead of eating out, eat at home, don't go to movies, etc. Fun might just be going for a short drive or something low cost. Same with work.... Work first in the morning, then fun after that. And the fun is more fun knowing my work/chores are all done! |
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On Aug 5, 4:03*am, "Stormin Mormon"
wrote: All work and no play, makes Jack a dull boy. So, the bills got to be paid. The church tithes and offerings. The electric, rent, etc. But, that gets boring in a hurry. How much to spend on fun? Does anyone have a formula? Percentage, or what? -- Christopher A. Young Learn more about Jesus *www.lds.org . Well, you could dispense with a few of your wives. Are you allowed to sell them? I understand mormons, like muslims, have many wives. If you need more interest in your life, you need to travel and see the world. Meet people from different cultures. I can recommend places if you like depending on your interests and vices. You can then speask with more authority on many world topics, unlike many Yanks who are totally ignorant. |
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On Aug 5, 6:13*am, mike wrote:
Stormin Mormon wrote: All work and no play, makes Jack a dull boy. So, the bills got to be paid. The church tithes and offerings. The electric, rent, etc. But, that gets boring in a hurry. How much to spend on fun? Does anyone have a formula? Percentage, or what? All play and no retirement savings makes jack a frustrated old guy who's still working to keep ends met. *Fun is not a percentage...it's a threshold that most people never meet. *So they spend on fun anyway and hope for magic when they're old. People who are financially secure for the long term with an uncertain future don't have to ask what percentage. You are quite right. The best way to achieve this is not to borrow money. |
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On Aug 4, 11:03*pm, "Stormin Mormon"
wrote: All work and no play, makes Jack a dull boy. So, the bills got to be paid. The church tithes and offerings. The electric, rent, etc. But, that gets boring in a hurry. How much to spend on fun? Does anyone have a formula? Percentage, or what? -- Christopher A. Young Learn more about Jesus *www.lds.org . Anything that's left, but church and charities are excluded, i.e. fun first |
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On Aug 4, 11:03*pm, "Stormin Mormon"
wrote: All work and no play, makes Jack a dull boy. So, the bills got to be paid. The church tithes and offerings. The electric, rent, etc. But, that gets boring in a hurry. How much to spend on fun? Does anyone have a formula? Percentage, or what? -- Christopher A. Young Learn more about Jesus *www.lds.org . That reminds me of when I was in college. One year, I worked a summer job in a flat die forge shop. Discussing money during coffee break one day, one of the old black guys said that he split his check three ways; one for rent, one for groceries and one for Mr. Kessler. When I asked who Mr. Kessler was, he replied that it was his favorite brand of whiskey. Paul |
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On Aug 5, 9:16*am, Pavel314 wrote:
On Aug 4, 11:03*pm, "Stormin Mormon" wrote: All work and no play, makes Jack a dull boy. So, the bills got to be paid. The church tithes and offerings. The electric, rent, etc. But, that gets boring in a hurry. How much to spend on fun? Does anyone have a formula? Percentage, or what? Your answer all depends on whether flashlights and batteries are fun. |
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That's a secular point of view. Now that I'm living the various
covenants, I find that God keeps His end. When I pay an honest tithe, so many things work so much better. Reducing my tithe is false economy. -- Christopher A. Young Learn more about Jesus www.lds.org .. "aemeijers" wrote in message ... Unless your church does actual real-world good works (funding mission trips doesn't count) with the tithe, I'd start with redirecting that. -- aem, trusting organized religion even less than organized government or organized crime, sends... |
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Of course, you're right. There is a balance in the middle some where.
And, it's the balance I'm seeking. I'm not counting on Social Security to be there for me. Or, they will keep advancing the eligible age until it's about 125 years old to start collecting. I also expect the retirement and mutual funds to be raided for some "crisis" of the government's making. Still, I do need to keep saving as best possible. -- Christopher A. Young Learn more about Jesus www.lds.org .. "mike" wrote in message ... All play and no retirement savings makes jack a frustrated old guy who's still working to keep ends met. Fun is not a percentage...it's a threshold that most people never meet. So they spend on fun anyway and hope for magic when they're old. People who are financially secure for the long term with an uncertain future don't have to ask what percentage. |
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Sounds like that fellow was taking care of himself, as best he knew
how. I'm not a drinker, so my approach will be different. I respect others choices, even when they aren't the same as mine. -- Christopher A. Young Learn more about Jesus www.lds.org .. "Pavel314" wrote in message ... That reminds me of when I was in college. One year, I worked a summer job in a flat die forge shop. Discussing money during coffee break one day, one of the old black guys said that he split his check three ways; one for rent, one for groceries and one for Mr. Kessler. When I asked who Mr. Kessler was, he replied that it was his favorite brand of whiskey. Paul |
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I've been outed. My real secrets are now made public
on the message board. Well, I did it. Treated myself to a toy. Bought a 4C mag light to go with my 4 cell LED bulb. Going to make a mixed up frankenstein light. Built from parts. Not that I need a four c LED mag, but it sure looks like it is going to be fun to make. I was seeking absolution and forgiveness for buying yet another flashlight. -- Christopher A. Young Learn more about Jesus www.lds.org .. "Thomas" wrote in message ... Your answer all depends on whether flashlights and batteries are fun. |
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On Aug 5, 11:03*am, "Stormin Mormon"
wrote: That's a secular point of view. Now that I'm living the various covenants, I find that God keeps His end. When I pay an honest tithe, so many things work so much better. Reducing my tithe is false economy. If you're paying a tithe, having fun must be against your religion. It's in the handbook. |
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Strange, I missed that lesson. I musta been out, having fun? I'm in
trouble, now. -- Christopher A. Young Learn more about Jesus www.lds.org .. wrote in message ... If you're paying a tithe, having fun must be against your religion. It's in the handbook. |
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On Aug 5, 6:33*pm, wrote:
On Aug 5, 11:03*am, "Stormin Mormon" wrote: That's a secular point of view. Now that I'm living the various covenants, I find that God keeps His end. When I pay an honest tithe, so many things work so much better. Reducing my tithe is false economy. If you're paying a tithe, having fun must be against your religion. It's in the handbook. Nah. He's buying his way into heaven. USAians think money can buy you everything. |
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You people sure do a lot of stereotyping.
-- Christopher A. Young Learn more about Jesus www.lds.org .. "harry" wrote in message ... If you're paying a tithe, having fun must be against your religion. It's in the handbook. Nah. He's buying his way into heaven. USAians think money can buy you everything. |
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On Aug 6, 6:27*am, "Stormin Mormon"
wrote: You people sure do a lot of stereotyping. That's the way they are. ;-) |
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On 8/6/2010 6:27 AM, Stormin Mormon wrote:
You people sure do a lot of stereotyping. I have a lot of trouble just monotyping. TDD |
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You monotypers live such boring lives.
-- Christopher A. Young Learn more about Jesus www.lds.org .. "The Daring Dufas" wrote in message ... On 8/6/2010 6:27 AM, Stormin Mormon wrote: You people sure do a lot of stereotyping. I have a lot of trouble just monotyping. TDD |
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Stormin Mormon wrote:
Sounds like that fellow was taking care of himself, as best he knew how. I'm not a drinker, so my approach will be different. I respect others choices, even when they aren't the same as mine. What do Mormons do for fun? Whatever it is after you have a year's supply of food stashed away, then go do it with whatever you have left? I met a Mormon gal in a bar one time, well she had been a Mormon. A very nice lady. My favorite flashlights are the double AA size two batteries with a decent reflector and krypton bulb, and the million candles rechargeable 12 volt spot light. That thing lights up the night. |
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On Aug 6, 7:22*pm, FatterDumber& Happier Moe
wrote: Stormin Mormon wrote: Sounds like that fellow was taking care of himself, as best he knew how. I'm not a drinker, so my approach will be different. I respect others choices, even when they aren't the same as mine. * What do Mormons do for fun? *Whatever it is after you have a year's supply of food stashed away, then go do it with whatever you have left? * I met a Mormon gal in a bar one time, well she had been a Mormon. *A very nice lady. * My favorite flashlights are the double AA size two batteries with a decent reflector and krypton bulb, and the million candles rechargeable 12 volt spot light. *That thing lights up the night. I think they collect names on big computer in Salt Lake City. When they've got everyone's name the world will end. Or when the hard drive's full. I forget which. Boom. |
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On Aug 5, 4:03*pm, "Stormin Mormon"
wrote: That's a secular point of view. Now that I'm living the various covenants, I find that God keeps His end. When I pay an honest tithe, so many things work so much better. Reducing my tithe is false economy. -- Christopher A. Young Learn more about Jesus *www.lds.org . "aemeijers" wrote in message ... Unless your church does actual real-world good works (funding mission trips doesn't count) with the tithe, I'd start with redirecting that. -- aem, trusting organized religion even less than organized government or organized crime, sends... Covenants???? |
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harry wrote:
On Aug 6, 7:22 pm, FatterDumber& Happier Moe wrote: Stormin Mormon wrote: Sounds like that fellow was taking care of himself, as best he knew how. I'm not a drinker, so my approach will be different. I respect others choices, even when they aren't the same as mine. What do Mormons do for fun? Whatever it is after you have a year's supply of food stashed away, then go do it with whatever you have left? I met a Mormon gal in a bar one time, well she had been a Mormon. A very nice lady. My favorite flashlights are the double AA size two batteries with a decent reflector and krypton bulb, and the million candles rechargeable 12 volt spot light. That thing lights up the night. I think they collect names on big computer in Salt Lake City. When they've got everyone's name the world will end. Or when the hard drive's full. I forget which. Boom. The Mormon genealogy library always reminded me of that old science fiction story 'The Nine Billion Names of God'. A lot of good research come out of that database, even though it wasn't what the church elders saw as the prime function. A lot of folks that follow other flavors of religion get mighty ticked off about the posthumous conversions thing, though. -- aem sends... |
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... On Wed, 4 Aug 2010 23:03:20 -0400, "Stormin Mormon" wrote: All work and no play, makes Jack a dull boy. So, the bills got to be paid. The church tithes and offerings. The electric, rent, etc. But, that gets boring in a hurry. How much to spend on fun? Does anyone have a formula? Percentage, or what? After all of the above, and savings, whatever is left. ;-) Put another way, as long as the obligations are taken care of, it's your money. Yabbut. How much money is reasonable to keep in a fast access, rainy day fund? I could only really start enjoying myself knowing that if something truly bad happened, I'd have some resources to deal with it. That makes the calculation a bit messy. They say you should have at least 3X the mortgage payment tucked away, but trouble often hits much harder than that. I think 30X the mortgage payment is probably where you can start to feel comfortable enough to plan a Disney cruise with the kiddies. From what I've seen lately, people have 30X the monthly mortgage payment in DEBTS, not savings!! I guess the advantage there is that you can file for bankruptcy and make your fellow citizens eat the losses in higher prices. )-: Fortunately, US savings levels, which were at all time lows are starting to creep back up as people realize how long they might have to fend for themselves if the breadwinner gets fired and can't find a new job. -- Bobby G. |
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On Aug 7, 6:17*am, "Robert Green" wrote:
wrote in message ... On Wed, 4 Aug 2010 23:03:20 -0400, "Stormin Mormon" wrote: All work and no play, makes Jack a dull boy. So, the bills got to be paid. The church tithes and offerings. The electric, rent, etc. But, that gets boring in a hurry. How much to spend on fun? Does anyone have a formula? Percentage, or what? After all of the above, and savings, whatever is left. *;-) *Put another way, as long as the obligations are taken care of, it's your money. Yabbut. How much money is reasonable to keep in a fast access, rainy day fund? * I could only really start enjoying myself knowing that if something truly bad happened, I'd have some resources to deal with it. *That makes the calculation a bit messy. They say you should have at least 3X the mortgage payment tucked away, but trouble often hits much harder than that. *I think 30X the mortgage payment is probably where you can start to feel comfortable enough to plan a Disney cruise with the kiddies. *From what I've seen lately, people have 30X the monthly mortgage payment in DEBTS, not savings!! *I guess the advantage there is that you can file for bankruptcy and make your fellow citizens eat the losses in higher prices. *)-: Fortunately, US savings levels, which were at all time lows are starting to creep back up as people realize how long they might have to fend for themselves if the breadwinner gets fired and can't find a new job. -- Bobby G. Yep. Exactly so. It's the same here in the UK. I think the consequenses of getting fired are not as serious here. You certainly seem to be in the **** in America if it happens. Personally I have never borrowed money for any purpose & I'm not going to start now. I think if you had 30X your mortgage repayment in the bank you'd be better to pay off some of that mortgage. Obviously keep some back. |
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Robert Green wrote:
wrote in message ... On Wed, 4 Aug 2010 23:03:20 -0400, "Stormin Mormon" wrote: All work and no play, makes Jack a dull boy. So, the bills got to be paid. The church tithes and offerings. The electric, rent, etc. But, that gets boring in a hurry. How much to spend on fun? Does anyone have a formula? Percentage, or what? After all of the above, and savings, whatever is left. ;-) Put another way, as long as the obligations are taken care of, it's your money. Yabbut. How much money is reasonable to keep in a fast access, rainy day fund? I could only really start enjoying myself knowing that if something truly bad happened, I'd have some resources to deal with it. That makes the calculation a bit messy. They say you should have at least 3X the mortgage payment tucked away, but trouble often hits much harder than that. I think 30X the mortgage payment is probably where you can start to feel comfortable enough to plan a Disney cruise with the kiddies. From what I've seen lately, people have 30X the monthly mortgage payment in DEBTS, not savings!! I guess the advantage there is that you can file for bankruptcy and make your fellow citizens eat the losses in higher prices. )-: Fortunately, US savings levels, which were at all time lows are starting to creep back up as people realize how long they might have to fend for themselves if the breadwinner gets fired and can't find a new job. -- Bobby G. Amen, brother. I've been poor, as used to be traditional during and shortly thereafter college. Didn't care for it, gonna try like hell never to do it again. There were family financial dry spells growing up as a kid, although we always had a roof and food. Several siblings have been broke on and off over the years. Net effect of all this is that I have turned into a bit of a cheap SOB over the years. I'll never be rich (too much of a mouth to ever play the corporate game successfully), but I have managed to hold on to a decent paying job for 30 years. I have enough in the bank to pay the mortgage for several years (small house, half of what they approved me for), as well as buy food, plus enough seed money to start over elsewhere if I had to, at a modest level. Never made a monthly car payment in my life, and buy my toys off the trailing edge. There are people with non-working spouses and rug rats that get by (and save regularly) on less than I do, and I have great respect for that, but the 1/3 pay cut I would take if I retire as soon as I am eligible scares me to death. If I could find a job that I actually enjoyed that would make up part of the difference, it would make the decision to go a lot easier. -- aem sends... |
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"Robert Green" wrote: They say you should have at least 3X the mortgage payment tucked away, but trouble often hits much harder than that. I think 30X the mortgage payment is probably where you can start to feel comfortable enough to plan a Disney cruise with the kiddies. The general discussions on TV and in the books is a minimum of 3 months expenses (ALL expenses) and 6 is better. -- I want to find a voracious, small-minded predator and name it after the IRS. Robert Bakker, paleontologist |
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It's hard to explain. But, after quitting drinking 20 + years ago, all
the little things I barely noticed brought pleasure. A job well done, being kind to others, finding wisdom in the scriptures. It was as though my senses had sharpened or something. Or maybe I'd stopped dulling my senses. At the moment, my work horse flash light is a Mini-Mag with the one watt Teralux conversion. Gets used many times a day. Those chargable spot lights are fun, too. The internal lead acid batteries go dead after a while. -- Christopher A. Young Learn more about Jesus www.lds.org .. "FatterDumber& Happier Moe" wrote in message ... What do Mormons do for fun? Whatever it is after you have a year's supply of food stashed away, then go do it with whatever you have left? I met a Mormon gal in a bar one time, well she had been a Mormon. A very nice lady. My favorite flashlights are the double AA size two batteries with a decent reflector and krypton bulb, and the million candles rechargeable 12 volt spot light. That thing lights up the night. |
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And now, you can help out by providing information online.
-- Christopher A. Young Learn more about Jesus www.lds.org .. "harry" wrote in message ... I think they collect names on big computer in Salt Lake City. When they've got everyone's name the world will end. Or when the hard drive's full. I forget which. Boom. |
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That's part of my worries. I'm not sure but what the world economy is
about to collapse. Due in large part to irresponsible spending in Washingmachine DC. -- Christopher A. Young Learn more about Jesus www.lds.org .. "Robert Green" wrote in message ... Yabbut. How much money is reasonable to keep in a fast access, rainy day fund? I could only really start enjoying myself knowing that if something truly bad happened, I'd have some resources to deal with it. That makes the calculation a bit messy. They say you should have at least 3X the mortgage payment tucked away, but trouble often hits much harder than that. I think 30X the mortgage payment is probably where you can start to feel comfortable enough to plan a Disney cruise with the kiddies. From what I've seen lately, people have 30X the monthly mortgage payment in DEBTS, not savings!! I guess the advantage there is that you can file for bankruptcy and make your fellow citizens eat the losses in higher prices. )-: Fortunately, US savings levels, which were at all time lows are starting to creep back up as people realize how long they might have to fend for themselves if the breadwinner gets fired and can't find a new job. -- Bobby G. |
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Net effect of all this is that I have turned into a bit of a cheap SOB over the years. I'll never be rich (too much of a mouth to ever play the corporate game successfully), but I have managed to hold on to a decent paying job for 30 years. Start your own business. Many years ago, I decided that if was doomed to work for a fool, it might as well be me. Never looked back. |
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aemeijers wrote: Net effect of all this is that I have turned into a bit of a cheap SOB over the years. I'll never be rich (too much of a mouth to ever play the corporate game successfully), but I have managed to hold on to a decent paying job for 30 years. Start your own business. Many years ago, I decided that if was doomed to work for a fool, it might as well be me. Never looked back. You missed the line where I said I have 'too much of a mouth?' Running your own business means dealing with the public, including the idiots. I already have blood pressure problems. I'm also a soft touch- people who are good at BS stories prey on people like me. Not saying running your own business is bad, and I admire people who do. But with age comes wisdom, and I have learned that my skills (such as they are) lie elsewhere. -- aem sends... |
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"aemeijers" wrote , but the 1/3 pay cut I would take if I retire as soon as I am eligible scares me to death. If I could find a job that I actually enjoyed that would make up part of the difference, it would make the decision to go a lot easier. The key is finding a job you like. I have no plans to retire as long as I have my health and my brains functions normally. I may cut back my hours in a couple of years though. I guess I'm in a small minority of people that actually like what they do, enjoy the people I work with. I have no stress at work. I can come and go as I please. Things like oil changes, doctor visits, trips to the post office are all done during the work day. Vacation time? "Take whatever time you want" When I arrive in the morning, my tea is brewed and waiting. I start my computer, then have my cup of tea while chatting with Sue for about a half hour. Then I head out to the shop to see what is going on, stop to greet every employee along the way. Some people enjoy a difficult crossword puzzle or Sudoku, but I'd rather put together a challenging production schedule. If I was working on an assembly line putting knobs on the passing toasters or lug nuts on the cars, I'd want to bail out as soon as possible. For me, going to my job is not work. |
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aemeijers wrote: You missed the line where I said I have 'too much of a mouth?' Running your own business means dealing with the public, including the idiots. I already have blood pressure problems. I'm also a soft touch- people who are good at BS stories prey on people like me. Not saying running your own business is bad, and I admire people who do. But with age comes wisdom, and I have learned that my skills (such as they are) lie elsewhere. Depend, too, on the business. I am a freelance writer and 99% of my time is spent with myself. Most of the rest of the time, the interactions with clients last maybe 10 minutes tops and I can usually control myself for that amount of time. Perfect job for surly SOB such as myself (grin). -- I want to find a voracious, small-minded predator and name it after the IRS. Robert Bakker, paleontologist |
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On 8/7/2010 7:37 AM, HeyBub wrote:
aemeijers wrote: Net effect of all this is that I have turned into a bit of a cheap SOB over the years. I'll never be rich (too much of a mouth to ever play the corporate game successfully), but I have managed to hold on to a decent paying job for 30 years. Start your own business. Many years ago, I decided that if was doomed to work for a fool, it might as well be me. Never looked back. Like me, you can fire customers. Some people are impossible to deal with. I'm always polite when I say, "I'm sorry, I can't do business with you anymore. Perhaps some other service company would be a much better match for you." I've had some real ding dongs as customers and when they open their mouths to me the wrong way, I'll bid them farewell and I'm suddenly no longer available. TDD |
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On 8/7/2010 7:14 AM, Stormin Mormon wrote:
It's hard to explain. But, after quitting drinking 20 + years ago, all the little things I barely noticed brought pleasure. A job well done, being kind to others, finding wisdom in the scriptures. It was as though my senses had sharpened or something. Or maybe I'd stopped dulling my senses. At the moment, my work horse flash light is a Mini-Mag with the one watt Teralux conversion. Gets used many times a day. Those chargable spot lights are fun, too. The internal lead acid batteries go dead after a while. I'm glad your faith worked for you. It doesn't work for some people and there are those who think you're trying to proselytize and push your religion just because of your little sig which I don't think of as obnoxious. My Protestant cousins can be so pushy at times that I want to track down my first grade teacher, Sister Godzilla, the nun from Hell and turn her loose on them. She might be 100 years old by now but she could still grab them by the ear or worse. 8-) TDD |
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OT - Toy Money
Being the owner is a whole different skill set. One friend of mine is
out of work, and has been for a couple months. He is a great worker, but doesn't know how to manage, advertise, and so on. If you can start and run a business, that's great. Some folks can't. With your own business, each customer you serve is your boss, for a period of time. -- Christopher A. Young Learn more about Jesus www.lds.org .. "HeyBub" wrote in message m... Start your own business. Many years ago, I decided that if was doomed to work for a fool, it might as well be me. Never looked back. |
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