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Experts disagree with jury verdict against woman in boy's drowning
Wednesday, October 05, 2005 By Paula Reed Ward, Pittsburgh Post-Gazette Standing along the bank of a rain-swollen creek, Susan Newkirk watched as the 2-year-old boy tumbled in and was swept away. She couldn't swim. Instead of diving into the raging waters after her friend's son, she yelled to his father for help. The little boy died. Certainly, her defense attorney argued during her trial for endangering the welfare of a child, his client had a moral obligation to try to save the boy. But, he continued, she did not have a legal one. The jurors judging Ms. Newkirk's case obviously disagreed when they convicted her in July. Last week, the Hollidaysburg woman was sentenced to up to 18 months in jail. But legal experts disagree with the verdict. Instead, they say Ms. Newkirk did not have a "duty of care" to the little boy because she had no special relationship with him. Her public defender, David Beyer, has vowed to appeal her conviction, arguing that she was not the child's parent or baby sitter, and therefore had no duty to protect him. On Sept. 18, 2004 -- the day after Hurricane Ivan brought torrential downpours across Western Pennsylvania -- Ms. Newkirk, 41, joined her friend, Thomas E. Reffner, and his 2-year-old son, Hunter Delasko, to do repairs to a trailer in Claysburg, Blair County. While Mr. Reffner worked on the trailer, Ms. Newkirk walked along South Poplar Run Creek. She told police that Hunter had been with her and almost fell in. At that point, Ms. Newkirk took the boy back to his father, telling Mr. Reffner that Hunter should not be by the water. A short time later, the toddler rejoined Ms. Newkirk. "The little boy walked down to her," Mr. Beyer said. As he was throwing sticks and stones into the water, Hunter fell in. "She had no legal duty to go in and save this child," Mr. Beyer said. "If a person is not a parent or guardian, then they owe no duty to that child." But Blair County District Attorney Dave Gorman said she was, at that moment, the child's guardian. "Common sense dictates someone in that close proximity to a child is obligated to do something," Mr. Gorman said. "I think anybody in their right mind would jump in." Both the defense and prosecution agree that Mr. Reffner never specifically asked Ms. Newkirk to watch his son. But the district attorney doesn't think that matters. "If she didn't believe she had a legal duty, then why did she pull the kid back the first time?" Mr. Gorman asked. Had Ms. Newkirk left the trailer after returning Hunter to his father, she would have fulfilled her obligation, and there would have been no charges, the prosecutor said. "It's not just the fact she didn't go in after the kid," Mr. Gorman said. Even having a child that close to a raging stream violates a duty to care, he continued. As for Ms. Newkirk's argument that she couldn't swim, Mr. Gorman didn't think it was relevant. Two passers-by went into the creek to try to save Hunter after he'd fallen in, and one of them also couldn't swim. One man was able to reach Hunter, but the boy slipped from his grasp before he could pull him to safety, Mr. Gorman said. David Herring, a professor of child welfare law at the University of Pittsburgh, said there is no Good Samaritan law in Pennsylvania. "You can't ask them to have to sacrifice their own lives," Mr. Herring said. "That's quite a stretch to impose that duty on her." He called the case against Ms. Newkirk an "aggressive prosecution." "The father's the one the law should be holding responsible," he said. Mr. Reffner was charged, but he pleaded guilty to a lesser charge -- reckless endangerment. He was offered probation to testify against Ms. Newkirk. The prosecution, however, never called Mr. Reffner to the stand. Mr. Gorman said his testimony wasn't necessary. As for the plea agreement, the district attorney said he wasn't sure a jury would have convicted him. "I'm not saying in any way, shape or form Mr. Reffner isn't culpable," the prosecutor said. "I think there was an issue as to whether a jury would have returned a guilty verdict on [him]." But Kirk Henderson, an assistant public defender for Allegheny County, said that's not a valid justification for the lesser charge. "A parent has the ultimate responsibility," he said. Under the current case law, charging Ms. Newkirk should have come down to whether she was aware of the duty to the child, Mr. Henderson said. He didn't buy the district attorney's argument that Ms. Newkirk recognized her duty when she returned Hunter to his father the first time. "I don't think that one time, telling a child what to do invests that person with responsibility," Mr. Henderson said. "People have their own choices they have to live with, but that doesn't make it criminal." Mr. Beyer agrees. "The jury wanted someone to pay for this little boy," he said. "I can understand from a moral perspective, we all think something different should have happened here. That doesn't mean she's guilty of a crime." (Paula Reed Ward can be reached at or 412-263-1601.) ------------------------------------------------- http://www.post-gazette.com/pg/05278/582741.stm |
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Well said. Parents are responsible for their minor children, not
complete strangers. This conviction is just a result of the absurd "takes a village" mentality, and would be easily overturned on appeal. Her defense lawyer was wrong to claim she had any kind of responsibility, moral or otherwise to the kid. "Karen Preston" wrote in message ... Experts disagree with jury verdict against woman in boy's drowning Wednesday, October 05, 2005 By Paula Reed Ward, Pittsburgh Post-Gazette Standing along the bank of a rain-swollen creek, Susan Newkirk watched as the 2-year-old boy tumbled in and was swept away. She couldn't swim. Instead of diving into the raging waters after her friend's son, she yelled to his father for help. The little boy died. Certainly, her defense attorney argued during her trial for endangering the welfare of a child, his client had a moral obligation to try to save the boy. But, he continued, she did not have a legal one. The jurors judging Ms. Newkirk's case obviously disagreed when they convicted her in July. Last week, the Hollidaysburg woman was sentenced to up to 18 months in jail. But legal experts disagree with the verdict. Instead, they say Ms. Newkirk did not have a "duty of care" to the little boy because she had no special relationship with him. Her public defender, David Beyer, has vowed to appeal her conviction, arguing that she was not the child's parent or baby sitter, and therefore had no duty to protect him. On Sept. 18, 2004 -- the day after Hurricane Ivan brought torrential downpours across Western Pennsylvania -- Ms. Newkirk, 41, joined her friend, Thomas E. Reffner, and his 2-year-old son, Hunter Delasko, to do repairs to a trailer in Claysburg, Blair County. While Mr. Reffner worked on the trailer, Ms. Newkirk walked along South Poplar Run Creek. She told police that Hunter had been with her and almost fell in. At that point, Ms. Newkirk took the boy back to his father, telling Mr. Reffner that Hunter should not be by the water. A short time later, the toddler rejoined Ms. Newkirk. "The little boy walked down to her," Mr. Beyer said. As he was throwing sticks and stones into the water, Hunter fell in. "She had no legal duty to go in and save this child," Mr. Beyer said. "If a person is not a parent or guardian, then they owe no duty to that child." But Blair County District Attorney Dave Gorman said she was, at that moment, the child's guardian. "Common sense dictates someone in that close proximity to a child is obligated to do something," Mr. Gorman said. "I think anybody in their right mind would jump in." Both the defense and prosecution agree that Mr. Reffner never specifically asked Ms. Newkirk to watch his son. But the district attorney doesn't think that matters. "If she didn't believe she had a legal duty, then why did she pull the kid back the first time?" Mr. Gorman asked. Had Ms. Newkirk left the trailer after returning Hunter to his father, she would have fulfilled her obligation, and there would have been no charges, the prosecutor said. "It's not just the fact she didn't go in after the kid," Mr. Gorman said. Even having a child that close to a raging stream violates a duty to care, he continued. As for Ms. Newkirk's argument that she couldn't swim, Mr. Gorman didn't think it was relevant. Two passers-by went into the creek to try to save Hunter after he'd fallen in, and one of them also couldn't swim. One man was able to reach Hunter, but the boy slipped from his grasp before he could pull him to safety, Mr. Gorman said. David Herring, a professor of child welfare law at the University of Pittsburgh, said there is no Good Samaritan law in Pennsylvania. "You can't ask them to have to sacrifice their own lives," Mr. Herring said. "That's quite a stretch to impose that duty on her." He called the case against Ms. Newkirk an "aggressive prosecution." "The father's the one the law should be holding responsible," he said. Mr. Reffner was charged, but he pleaded guilty to a lesser charge -- reckless endangerment. He was offered probation to testify against Ms. Newkirk. The prosecution, however, never called Mr. Reffner to the stand. Mr. Gorman said his testimony wasn't necessary. As for the plea agreement, the district attorney said he wasn't sure a jury would have convicted him. "I'm not saying in any way, shape or form Mr. Reffner isn't culpable," the prosecutor said. "I think there was an issue as to whether a jury would have returned a guilty verdict on [him]." But Kirk Henderson, an assistant public defender for Allegheny County, said that's not a valid justification for the lesser charge. "A parent has the ultimate responsibility," he said. Under the current case law, charging Ms. Newkirk should have come down to whether she was aware of the duty to the child, Mr. Henderson said. He didn't buy the district attorney's argument that Ms. Newkirk recognized her duty when she returned Hunter to his father the first time. "I don't think that one time, telling a child what to do invests that person with responsibility," Mr. Henderson said. "People have their own choices they have to live with, but that doesn't make it criminal." Mr. Beyer agrees. "The jury wanted someone to pay for this little boy," he said. "I can understand from a moral perspective, we all think something different should have happened here. That doesn't mean she's guilty of a crime." (Paula Reed Ward can be reached at or 412-263-1601.) ------------------------------------------------- http://www.post-gazette.com/pg/05278/582741.stm |
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![]() Mike Foss wrote: Well said. Parents are responsible for their minor children, not complete strangers. This conviction is just a result of the absurd "takes a village" mentality, and would be easily overturned on appeal. Her defense lawyer was wrong to claim she had any kind of responsibility, moral or otherwise to the kid. I'll disagree that she had no responsibility. She recognized the danger and returned the kid to daddy. Kid returned and she saw him again by the water. She knew it was dangerous and should have returned him to daddy again. I agree that after the kid fell in she had no obligation to jump in herself. There is nothing in law that requires a person to sacrifice their own life. That someone else did jump in and didn't die has has nothing to do with it. The jury here is both right and wrong. Right that she had an obligation to protect the kid. Wrong that she should have jumped in if indeed they did rule that way. Harry K |
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"Harry K" wrote in message oups.com...
Mike Foss wrote: Well said. Parents are responsible for their minor children, not complete strangers. This conviction is just a result of the absurd "takes a village" mentality, and would be easily overturned on appeal. Her defense lawyer was wrong to claim she had any kind of responsibility, moral or otherwise to the kid. I'll disagree that she had no responsibility. She recognized the danger and returned the kid to daddy. Kid returned and she saw him again by the water. She knew it was dangerous and should have returned him to daddy again. I agree that after the kid fell in she had no obligation to jump in herself. There is nothing in law that requires a person to sacrifice their own life. That someone else did jump in and didn't die has has nothing to do with it. The jury here is both right and wrong. Right that she had an obligation to protect the kid. As mentioned in the article, the state in which this happened has no "good samaritan" law. She was not obligated to protect anyone. |
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I'll disagree that she had no responsibility. She recognized the
danger and returned the kid to daddy. Kid returned and she saw him again by the water. She knew it was dangerous and should have returned him to daddy again. At the point she returned the child to Dad the first time, she had already gone above and beyond any requirement to protect the child. The fact that the Dad let the child return to the dangerous situation puts the blame squarely on his shoulders. |
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In article , Abe says...
I'll disagree that she had no responsibility. She recognized the danger and returned the kid to daddy. Kid returned and she saw him again by the water. She knew it was dangerous and should have returned him to daddy again. At the point she returned the child to Dad the first time, she had already gone above and beyond any requirement to protect the child. The fact that the Dad let the child return to the dangerous situation puts the blame squarely on his shoulders. The (somewhat ironically named) Good Samaritan principal in law holds that individuals are *not* obliged to help others, unless there is a special relationship, such as parent to child and spouse to spouse. (This is different from Good Samaritan Laws, which hold that a person who does volunteer to help is protected from legal action should there be a problem, as long as the volunteer does not go beyond their training and usually there is a 'reasonable person' standard.) Most probably this will be overturned on appeal. Banty |
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"I think anybody in their right mind would jump in."
Certainly this DA is a complete moron, as is anyone who expects someone who can't even swim to jump into a rain swollen creek to try to save someone. This lady can be faulted for not doing the right thing by taking the child back to his father the second time, or at least keeping him away from the creek. However, I don't see where legally she did anything wrong. She was not in charge of the kid, the father was. I would almost guarantee this conviction will be overturned on appeal. But it just shows you what hell some ass of a DA can put you through, using public money. By the time it's over, you will be broke and have your reputation ruined. |
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![]() Banty wrote: In article , Abe says... I'll disagree that she had no responsibility. She recognized the danger and returned the kid to daddy. Kid returned and she saw him again by the water. She knew it was dangerous and should have returned him to daddy again. At the point she returned the child to Dad the first time, she had already gone above and beyond any requirement to protect the child. The fact that the Dad let the child return to the dangerous situation puts the blame squarely on his shoulders. The (somewhat ironically named) Good Samaritan principal in law holds that individuals are *not* obliged to help others, unless there is a special relationship, such as parent to child and spouse to spouse. (This is different from Good Samaritan Laws, which hold that a person who does volunteer to help is protected from legal action should there be a problem, as long as the volunteer does not go beyond their training and usually there is a 'reasonable person' standard.) Most probably this will be overturned on appeal. The thing that I don't get about this case is that everything I've ever learned about rescue is that you *don't* put yourself into a situation where you could be fatally harmed in addition to the original victim, because you're just making more trouble for professional rescuers. Until this case happened, I would have been surprised if even a parent was penalized for not jumping in to save a child when the parent couldn't swim and the stream was in flood stage, making it extremely likely that the parent would be killed along with the child. I could see charges against the parent for letting the child fall in in the first place, but not for not jumping in to render a probably futile and potentially fatal attempt at assistance. I mean, I'd do it if it were my child without thought, but I'm not even sure it's the rational thing to do, just the only thing I could do emotionally. I can't see how having the adult die along with the child would improve matters. Beth |
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On Wed, 12 Oct 2005 19:21:08 -0400, someone wrote:
Standing along the bank of a rain-swollen creek, Susan Newkirk watched as the 2-year-old boy tumbled in and was swept away. She couldn't swim. Instead of diving into the raging waters after her friend's son, she yelled to his father for help. The little boy died. If she had gone in, there would probably have been two dead. A guy just died here, diving in after a 7 year old. The kid died too. Usually the rescuer can't get the kid, and can't save his/her own life either. There should not be any duty for a third party to sacrifice their own life like that. Reply to NG only - this e.mail address goes to a kill file. |
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![]() Banty wrote: I don't know what specifics would be decided - but a parent would be required to take whatever steps they could. Parents do have affirmative responsibilites to their children. I'm not arguing that, they clearly do. However, I'd think there'd be some limits to what the law would require even of a parent. If rescue attempt is extremely likely to be fatal to the parent and extremely unlikely to offer benefit to the child, i.e. the child's life is most likely not preservable, I'd think it wrong for the law to require the parent to act. I don't know what the law does think though. In point of fact most of us who have kids would do it anyway, becase a) we'd be moving before all of this logical cost/benefit analysis could take place and b) the emotional burden of having let a child perish while staying inactive would be crushing, even if it was the logical decision. I'd just think it would be wrong for a failure to do so to be prosecutable (again, in the situation I described where the rescue attempt is probably both futile and extremely dangerous, not in normal situations). As described, child in raging flood waters and adult who can't swim, I'd say a requirement for even a parent to act would be overboard. Leaving the whole question of the unrelated woman aside (that will be overturned), for the parent, it's an awful situation where one doesn't know what would create the optimal outcome. Other than that it's a fairly good guideline that professional help should be sent for first. And to be grateful that in our society any particular individual would only rarely have to make those decisions. For sure. Beth |
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![]() wrote in message oups.com... Banty wrote: In article , Abe says... I'll disagree that she had no responsibility. She recognized the danger and returned the kid to daddy. Kid returned and she saw him again by the water. She knew it was dangerous and should have returned him to daddy again. At the point she returned the child to Dad the first time, she had already gone above and beyond any requirement to protect the child. The fact that the Dad let the child return to the dangerous situation puts the blame squarely on his shoulders. The (somewhat ironically named) Good Samaritan principal in law holds that individuals are *not* obliged to help others, unless there is a special relationship, such as parent to child and spouse to spouse. (This is different from Good Samaritan Laws, which hold that a person who does volunteer to help is protected from legal action should there be a problem, as long as the volunteer does not go beyond their training and usually there is a 'reasonable person' standard.) Most probably this will be overturned on appeal. The thing that I don't get about this case is that everything I've ever learned about rescue is that you *don't* put yourself into a situation where you could be fatally harmed in addition to the original victim, because you're just making more trouble for professional rescuers. That's certainly what the American Red Cross teaches. Until this case happened, I would have been surprised if even a parent was penalized for not jumping in to save a child when the parent couldn't swim and the stream was in flood stage, making it extremely likely that the parent would be killed along with the child. I could see charges against the parent for letting the child fall in in the first place, but not for not jumping in to render a probably futile and potentially fatal attempt at assistance. I mean, I'd do it if it were my child without thought, but I'm not even sure it's the rational thing to do, just the only thing I could do emotionally. I can't see how having the adult die along with the child would improve matters. Beth |
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![]() wrote in message ups.com... "I think anybody in their right mind would jump in." Certainly this DA is a complete moron, as is anyone who expects someone who can't even swim to jump into a rain swollen creek to try to save someone. This lady can be faulted for not doing the right thing by taking the child back to his father the second time, or at least keeping him away from the creek. However, I don't see where legally she did anything wrong. She was not in charge of the kid, the father was. I would almost guarantee this conviction will be overturned on appeal. But it just shows you what hell some ass of a DA can put you through, using public money. By the time it's over, you will be broke and have your reputation ruined. or you sue. |
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![]() Mike Foss wrote: Well said. Parents are responsible for their minor children, not complete strangers. This conviction is just a result of the absurd "takes a village" mentality, and would be easily overturned on appeal. Her defense lawyer was wrong to claim she had any kind of responsibility, moral or otherwise to the kid. "Karen Preston" wrote in message ... Experts disagree with jury verdict against woman in boy's drowning Wednesday, October 05, 2005 By Paula Reed Ward, Pittsburgh Post-Gazette Standing along the bank of a rain-swollen creek, Susan Newkirk watched as the 2-year-old boy tumbled in and was swept away. She couldn't swim. Instead of diving into the raging waters after her friend's son, she yelled to his father for help. The little boy died. (snip) On Sept. 18, 2004 -- the day after Hurricane Ivan brought torrential downpours across Western Pennsylvania -- Ms. Newkirk, 41, joined her friend, Thomas E. Reffner, and his 2-year-old son, Hunter Delasko, to do repairs to a trailer in Claysburg, Blair County. (snip) I don't want to get into a debate, but I did want to point out that according to the news article Ms. Newkirk was a friend of the boy's father, so she was not a complete stranger. Perhaps the father saw his son rejoin Ms. Newkirk and expected she would either watch him or bring him back. annette |
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wrote in message oups.com...
I don't want to get into a debate, but I did want to point out that according to the news article Ms. Newkirk was a friend of the boy's father, so she was not a complete stranger. Perhaps the father saw his son rejoin Ms. Newkirk and expected she would either watch him or bring him back. She had ALREADY brought the kid back to his father once, and had ALREADY warned him of the dangerous water. Keep tabs on this case, her conviction will be overturned on appeal. You can count on CourtTV/Fox News/MSNBC jumping on her like some kind of monster. |
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Keep tabs on this case, her conviction will be overturned on
appeal. You can count on CourtTV/Fox News/MSNBC jumping on her like some kind of monster. Yeah, Nancy DISGrace will call for her hanging, I'm sure. |
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And the USA is not responsible to bring "democracy" to Iraq.
Don't complain about the splinter in your neighbor's eye when there is a log in your own eye. |
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"And the USA is not responsible to bring "democracy" to Iraq. "
I think, like just about everybody else, I fail to see the connection here. |
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Then perhaps you should look closer. Or, think about it a bit more.
wrote in message ups.com... "And the USA is not responsible to bring "democracy" to Iraq. " I think, like just about everybody else, I fail to see the connection here. |
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"She had no legal duty to go in and save this child," Mr. Beyer
said. "If a person is not a parent or guardian, then they owe no duty to that child." But Blair County District Attorney Dave Gorman said she was, at that moment, the child's guardian. "Common sense dictates someone in that close proximity to a child is obligated to do something," Mr. Gorman said. "I think anybody in their right mind would jump in." Both the defense and prosecution agree that Mr. Reffner never specifically asked Ms. Newkirk to watch his son. But the district attorney doesn't think that matters. "If she didn't believe she had a legal duty, then why did she pull the kid back the first time?" Mr. Gorman asked. Does Mr. Gorman truly believe that the ONLY reason a person would help another human being is that she thought she had a LEGAL DUTY to do so? Sheesh, what a sad world Mr. Gorman lives in. I believe it was proper for Ms. Newkirk to pull the boy away from the water. If she chose not to risk her own life saving the little boy later when he fell in, that reasonable decision should not be a criminal matter. This decision sets a dangerous precedence. If any child dies anywhere, there had better not be any adults within a 200 mile radius of them when it happens. If so, ALL those adults are going to jail!!! -Dave |
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![]() As mentioned in the article, the state in which this happened has no "good samaritan" law. She was not obligated to protect anyone. As I understand the "good samaritan" law, it is mainly to protect "good samaritans". That is, the law is worded to the effect that if you reasonably act to try to save someone's life, the person you tried to save (or their relatives) can't sue you later. She was not obligated to protect anyone, but that has nothing to do with any good samaritan law, or lack thereof. -Dave |
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The thing that I don't get about this case is that everything I've ever
learned about rescue is that you *don't* put yourself into a situation where you could be fatally harmed in addition to the original victim, because you're just making more trouble for professional rescuers. BINGO! If you don't know how to swim, don't jump in the water to try to save somebody. -Dave |
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![]() "Robert J." wrote in message news:ggT3f.247667$084.7642@attbi_s22... Then perhaps you should look closer. Or, think about it a bit more. Robert does have a good point. If we hadn't invaded Iraq, could the Iraqi people have sued us for not invading? Even worse, could the whole country (USA) have gone to jail for failure to act? -Dave |
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"Then perhaps you should look closer. Or, think about it a bit more. "
Yeah, thanks for explaining your well thought out reasoning. I get it now. Your one of those guys, where if a child dies and someone is wrongly prosecuted, it;s linked to Iraq. If the price of oil goes up, it's linked to Iraq. If it rains tomorrow, it's linked to Iraq. wrote in message |
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In article ws.net,
Mike T. wrote: As mentioned in the article, the state in which this happened has no "good samaritan" law. She was not obligated to protect anyone. As I understand the "good samaritan" law, it is mainly to protect "good samaritans". That is, the law is worded to the effect that if you reasonably act to try to save someone's life, the person you tried to save (or their relatives) can't sue you later. She was not obligated to protect anyone, but that has nothing to do with any good samaritan law, or lack thereof. -Dave For years most places had "good samaritan" laws which protect people who attempt to give aid in an emergency; ie you shouldn't be punished for trying to be a good samaritan, even if things don't work out. Much more recently some places have enacted laws which compel bystanders to provide aid to crime/accident victims if they can safely do so; ie you can be punished for not being a good samaritan. The final Seinfeld arc was based on these laws. Many of these laws sprung from a 1997 case in Nevada when David Cash walked in on a sexual assault of a 9 year old girl and just walked right back out, choosing to not get involved. Unfortunately, the second type of laws are usually also referred to as "good samaritan" laws so now the phrase is ambiguous. The initial article seems to be using it to refer to the new laws. -- Jim Prescott - Computing and Networking Group School of Engineering and Applied Sciences, University of Rochester, NY |
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I believe if I were in that situation, I would have sacrificed my life if
it had to be that way to save the child. If I did not know how to swim, and I knew that I could perhaps jump in and throw the child up on the bank even if I knew beforehand that I would die, I would have done it. Then maybe the child would have been shocked enough to cry loudly and attract attention or crawl and climb away. A childs life is worth so much more than an adults. A lot of adults today are self-centered, vain, all about myself type people that would watch the little baby drown and say; I might die if I try to save the child, so I will just let the baby die. Deep down it is not self preservation, it is cowardice. A childs existence on this earth is delicate at best in many circumstances and they rely on us to protect and save them from the hazards that await them. We know the dangers, but they do not. We should step up and do what many of them want us to do as their little lives are slipping away and they do not understand the pain and sudden, unexpected horror that is overtaking them. We should sacrifice ourselves if need be. Whether or not the child is yours that is dying should not matter. Every child is precious, they all belong to someone. Just because their parents may not should have ever had children and put them in danger or the situation they find themselves in happens to be a true, unavoidable accident is not the childs fault. What I am trying to say is, don't worry about your own life when a little precious, innocent, life is slipping away. Do what needs to be done and if both of you die in the process, it was worth it to try. The baby wanted you to try. Alt |
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![]() "Alt-Ctrl-Del" AltCtrlDel@äää.òÕÿÿÿÿÞ wrote in message ink.net... I believe if I were in that situation, I would have sacrificed my life if it had to be that way to save the child. If I did not know how to swim, and I knew that I could perhaps jump in and throw the child up on the bank even if I knew beforehand that I would die, I would have done it. Then maybe the child would have been shocked enough to cry loudly and attract attention or crawl and climb away. A child's life is worth so much more than an adults. A lot of adults today are self-centered, vain, all about myself type people that would watch the little baby drown and say; I might die if I try to save the child, so I will just let the baby die. Deep down it is not self preservation, it is cowardice. A child's existence on this earth is delicate at best in many circumstances and they rely on us to protect and save them from the hazards that await them. We know the dangers, but they do not. We should step up and do what many of them want us to do as their little lives are slipping away and they do not understand the pain and sudden, unexpected horror that is overtaking them. We should sacrifice ourselves if need be. Whether or not the child is yours that is dying should not matter. Every child is precious, they all belong to someone. Just because their parents may not should have ever had children and put them in danger or the situation they find themselves in happens to be a true, unavoidable accident is not the child's fault. What I am trying to say is, don't worry about your own life when a little precious, innocent, life is slipping away. Do what needs to be done and if both of you die in the process, it was worth it to try. The baby wanted you to try. Alt Well, Altie, that sounds like conventional wisdom and probably would have occurred decades ago without a thought, a camera, a news story or a lawsuit, but today we live in the MTV generation where babies are such horrendous inconveniences that they must be disposed of at the earliest possible time, preferably before they even get to experience any life. Daily this occurs by the thousands and to those much more helpless than a two year old; and it is such a big business that people fight and argue over the right to dispose of them. So what's the big deal about a two year old? He got to live longer than millions do and for that you should be grateful. I'm inclined to believe that all the talk about valuing children is nothing but a big lie, and the evidence for that is amply demonstrated by the millions of lives that are thoughtlessly snuffed out and the little kids that are abused daily. Five years ago the stats were 1:4 for little girls and 1:5 for little boys. That's a huge majority of American children that are abused daily! Every three minutes in the USA, some child is being abused. Perhaps this case is simply another little boy saved from a live of abuse? To most people, children are merely things to be used and abused at will. There was a time in this country when your neighbor would discipline your children in your absence and then inform you. Today you would be sued and deprived of your family and home if you look cross-eyed at some one else's child. It used to be that teachers could discipline misbehaving children, now they cannot. It used to be ... a semi-civil society, now it's the culture of death and you must conduct an international meeting before you can correct a child. It's the result of the "if it feels good, do it" philosophy. It's the result of what passes for "choice", it's the result of selfishness and hatred for children. Children are supposed to do whatever they want, when they want, how they want because that absence of control over them allows them to flourish and grow...and sometimes fall in the river and drown. No biggie. They're just animals, aren't they? Animals are worth more than children and so don't worry about a slip-and-fall case where the slip is into a raging river. |
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"Helen" wrote in message ...
"Alt-Ctrl-Del" AltCtrlDel@äää.òÕÿÿÿÿÞ wrote in message ink.net... I believe if I were in that situation, I would have sacrificed my life Hey it's a free country. Natural selection hard at work. |
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The Iraq war has EVERYTHING to do with oil.
On the one hand, some people think this woman was not obliged to help the child. The same people, however, think going to the other side of the world to start a war against a country that never attacked us, is just dandy. Hypocritical. Hope that clears it up for you. wrote in message oups.com... "Then perhaps you should look closer. Or, think about it a bit more. " Yeah, thanks for explaining your well thought out reasoning. I get it now. Your one of those guys, where if a child dies and someone is wrongly prosecuted, it;s linked to Iraq. If the price of oil goes up, it's linked to Iraq. If it rains tomorrow, it's linked to Iraq. wrote in message |
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Precisely.
During the Raygun-Bosch years they almost built enough jails for that! We have more people locked up than Stalin did. "Mike T." wrote in message eenews.net... "Robert J." wrote in message news:ggT3f.247667$084.7642@attbi_s22... Then perhaps you should look closer. Or, think about it a bit more. Robert does have a good point. If we hadn't invaded Iraq, could the Iraqi people have sued us for not invading? Even worse, could the whole country (USA) have gone to jail for failure to act? -Dave |
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I have to believe this story is either false, or mis-reported.
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"Robert J." wrote:
I have to believe this story is either false, or mis-reported. I have heard through another group that the father was underneath a car working on it at the time. grandma Rosalie |
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"What I am trying to say is, don't worry about your own life when a
little precious, innocent, life is slipping away. Do what needs to be done and if both of you die in the process, it was worth it to try. The baby wanted you to try. " Are you for real? Maybe YOU want to throw away your life in a futile attempt to save a child. But most reasonable people would not. The track record of people unskilled in rescue jumping into deep water to save someone else is not a very poor one. Many times both wind up drowning. And here you have a lady that could not even swim, and you think she should have jumped into a rain swollen creek and just thrown the child to shore? How realistic is that? Have you ever seen a rain swollen creek, how fast the current moves and how chaotic it is? Like most people, if I have a shot at saving a person, with reasonable risk to myself, I would do it. But I don't make a big distinction because it's a child. Nor would I knowingly sacrifice my own life in a foolish rescue attempt which is only likely to result in two people winding up dead or perhaps putting even more lives in jeopardy as rescue workers now have to try to save two people, instead on one. |
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You are assuming that your life or my life have no purpose or value
and that the child's life is more valuable. I do not feel that my life is less important that a child's life (except my own child of course). If I am a parent and die while trying to rescue a child, who will there be now to take care of my children? Are my children not just as important as a non-related child that I should selfishly sacrifice my life (possibly in vain)? "Alt-Ctrl-Del" AltCtrlDel@äää.òÕÿÿÿÿÞ wrote: I believe if I were in that situation, I would have sacrificed my life if it had to be that way to save the child. If I did not know how to swim, and I knew that I could perhaps jump in and throw the child up on the bank even if I knew beforehand that I would die, I would have done it. Then maybe the child would have been shocked enough to cry loudly and attract attention or crawl and climb away. A childs life is worth so much more than an adults. A lot of adults today are self-centered, vain, all about myself type people that would watch the little baby drown and say; I might die if I try to save the child, so I will just let the baby die. Deep down it is not self preservation, it is cowardice. A childs existence on this earth is delicate at best in many circumstances and they rely on us to protect and save them from the hazards that await them. We know the dangers, but they do not. We should step up and do what many of them want us to do as their little lives are slipping away and they do not understand the pain and sudden, unexpected horror that is overtaking them. We should sacrifice ourselves if need be. Whether or not the child is yours that is dying should not matter. Every child is precious, they all belong to someone. Just because their parents may not should have ever had children and put them in danger or the situation they find themselves in happens to be a true, unavoidable accident is not the childs fault. What I am trying to say is, don't worry about your own life when a little precious, innocent, life is slipping away. Do what needs to be done and if both of you die in the process, it was worth it to try. The baby wanted you to try. Alt grandma Rosalie |
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Well, it MAY be true, but I've found that when something sounds this absurd,
it ain't. Robert J. D. Rossett, M.D., Ph.D., D.D.R, P.E., Esq. "Rosalie B." wrote in message ... "Robert J." wrote: I have to believe this story is either false, or mis-reported. I have heard through another group that the father was underneath a car working on it at the time. grandma Rosalie |
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In article , Rosalie B. says...
"Robert J." wrote: I have to believe this story is either false, or mis-reported. I have heard through another group that the father was underneath a car working on it at the time. grandma Rosalie Sounds like a case of - if more than one person is watching a child, *no one* is really watching the child. Because each tends to assume the other is. Also, it may be a case of the unspoken presumption that, because a person of the non-dangling genetalia type is present, automatically said person becomes the local childminder. If ya know what I mean. He may have assumed she'd watch the child closely, without acutally making any such arrangement. Banty |
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