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O/T: Abby Sunderland
Leon wrote:
"J. Clarke" wrote in message ... Has anyone figured out what the differences in risks are between: A) Walking home from work in a large/medium/small/rural city. and B) Circumnavigating the globe at age 16? I don't believe the risks are so much the problem here as are how to get out of a problem should you get into one. Walk home, get mugged, get hit by a car, you have a reasonably good chance of being seen and taken to a hospital should you survive... Sail around the world, sink your boat in the middle of nowhere and then what? You trigger your EPIRB and wait for rescue of course. It's the 21st century you know. And how do you get rescued when you get nabbed by a pimp and shot full of drugs? Risk is not so much the problem as is correcting the damage should a problem happen. So how do you get rescued from being run over by a bus? I pity your kids. Apparently you don't have kids... Or maybe I just don't keep them bundled up in cotton so that when they turn 18 and they have to deal with the big bad drill sergeant they'll be ready. |
#122
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Abby Sunderland
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Abby is scheduled to leave tomorrow; however, we have a series of winter storms headed into SoCal which will put the winds on her nose and build the waves again on the nose. May have to wait until next week end. She at the mercy of mother nature. BTW: Murphy's third law: Mother Nature is a BITCH. Lew |
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O/T: Abby Sunderland
"Lew Hodgett" wrote in message ... "J. Clarke" wrote: What is your point? There is no AAA roadside service at sea. If you expect others to save your ass with a SAR mission, you may/will have a long wait. It's a big ocean out there. Prudent seamanship is your best chance of not needing outside assistance. Lew ahhh.. the voice of reason.... you have restored my faith Lew. Good on'ya |
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#126
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O/T: Abby Sunderland
"J. Clarke" wrote in message ... Leon wrote: I can't teach you every thing....that should have "your" parents responsibility. You don't have anything to teach a retarded bullfrog. You don't have anything to teach a retarded bullfrog. .............. I am speechless. You actually shot your self in the foot. |
#127
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"Lew Hodgett" wrote in message ... SFWIW: Abby is scheduled to leave tomorrow; however, we have a series of winter storms headed into SoCal which will put the winds on her nose and build the waves again on the nose. May have to wait until next week end. Ahhh, the voice of reason rings out again! She at the mercy of mother nature. Careful there Lew. There's a couple here that would consider that there comment, fight'n words. BTW: Murphy's third law: Mother Nature is a BITCH. Often an unforgiving Bitch. |
#128
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O/T: Abby Sunderland
"Leon" wrote:
ahhh.. the voice of reason.... you have restored my faith Lew. Good on'ya Single handing a 30 ft boat, on the Great Lakes, an average of 1,500 miles/year, for 10 years will do that to you. Lew |
#129
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O/T: Abby Sunderland
"Lew Hodgett" wrote in message ... "Leon" wrote: ahhh.. the voice of reason.... you have restored my faith Lew. Good on'ya Single handing a 30 ft boat, on the Great Lakes, an average of 1,500 miles/year, for 10 years will do that to you. Lew Kinda relates back to a few that believe that because they observe all the safety rules and are always paying attention will never have an accident in the shop... They just don't have enough experience to know that they don't know what they don't know. ;~) |
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O/T: Abby Sunderland
"J. Clarke" wrote in message ... Leon wrote: I pity your kids. Apparently you don't have kids... Or maybe I just don't keep them bundled up in cotton so that when they turn 18 and they have to deal with the big bad drill sergeant they'll be ready. Or maybe you don't have kids. |
#131
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O/T: Abby Sunderland
"Swingman" wrote in message
... On 1/15/2010 11:05 PM, Larry Jaques wrote: Aren't proper justifications fun? I just love 'em! A damn good incentive, IMO ... and a hellavu tradeoff, healthwise. Indeed! Well ... actually, that's not counting all the damn weight you can gain in 19 years by quitting smoking. I was hoping that stopped after a while. ) The good news for me is I now seem to be allergic to tobacco smoke. Somebody lights up or smokes anywhere near me and my nose starts running, I'm sneezing and start getting a headache. Congrats on your 19! |
#132
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O/T: Abby Sunderland
"J. Clarke" wrote in message
... Leon wrote: "Larry Jaques" wrote in message ... Kids that age also totally believe that they are invincible. Suppose a hurricane blows through.... or pirates, they would have a ball with her....literally, that is my problem.. How is that different from a young couple, an old man, or a middle aged woman on the high seas? Most people on the ocean believe that and pirates take on all comers, regardless of age or gender. The older people should have a better understanding of the risks. How does "better understanding of the risks" remove the risks? And how old do you consider to be "old enough"? Hillary Clinton has a mighty ****load of life experience but if she was in the middle of the ocean in a boat and some gang of pirates decided to rape her exactly how would she use that experience to protect herself? She'd cut their nuts off! |
#133
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O/T: Abby Sunderland
"LDosser" wrote: The good news for me is I now seem to be allergic to tobacco smoke. Somebody lights up or smokes anywhere near me and my nose starts running, I'm sneezing and start getting a headache. It just keeps getting worse. Pretty soon you can smell a butt in an ash tray from 100 yards in a hurricane and you're upwindG. BTDT (01/1978) Lew |
#134
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O/T: Abby Sunderland
Leon wrote:
"J. Clarke" wrote in message ... Leon wrote: Noooo problem, I was simply agreeing that I thought the parents were nuts for letting a youngster go and do something that few with far more experienced and knowledgeable have done. So Robin Lee Graham and Tania Aebi were "far more experienced and knowledgeable"? Or would you have arrested them to save them from themselves? If you had been paying attention for the past 50 years you would know that solo circumnavigation is no longer something that "few with far more experienced and knowledgeable have done"--a lot of people have done it, some of whom had as their major qualifications "made a lot of money". huh? Then every one wanted to defend the childs maturity and knowledge. The child will probably do fine. But if something happened to my child I would blame myself forever for not being responsible as a parent. Well why don't you worry about your kids and let other peopld worry about their kids? That sound about right, coming from you. And how would you feel if after having read the kid the riot act and prevented her from doing this thing that you consider to be so horribly dangerous she died in an automobile crash while being kidnapped and raped by her English teacher? You can't protect your kids from everything you know. I would not consider 16 years from infantcy "forever".... Maybe that is so for you. It is only common sense, which seems to be lacking here, to try to protet your children. No, what is lacking is _your_ understanding that she is not _your_ child so what she does is none of YOUR GODDAMNED BUSINESS. Ohhhhh.... let's not get our panties in a wad now.... I am entitled to my openion and have meerly been answering the question that "your have asked". I am sorry if you for some reason feel you may have been jilted in your up bringing. If you hadn't been ranting about how horrible it is that these uncaring people have let their naive stupid innocent little baby go off on this incredibly dangerous trip there would have been no discussion. Yeah your child stands a much greater chance of being hurt on land because they are going to spend 99% of their lives on land but on land help can be given and you do have to live some where. Help can be given if someone is somewhere where there is help hanging around. There are plenty of places even in New England where one can die of exposure long before some stranger happens along and finds your corpse. Have you seen much help on the high seas in the middle of nowhere? As much as I've seen in the woods a half a mile from a marked trail. You have to pick your battles. Picking one where a child is alone for months on end performing a balancing act with mother nature would not be a wise one IMHO. But it's not your battle to pick, Mr. Busybody. You are soooooo naive.. Actually I'm ****ed off at professional do-gooders trying to tell everybody else how to live their lives. |
#135
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O/T: Abby Sunderland
Leon wrote:
wrote in message news On Sat, 16 Jan 2010 00:56:10 -0500, "J. Clarke" No, what is lacking is _your_ understanding that she is not _your_ child so what she does is none of YOUR GODDAMNED BUSINESS. If it's no one's business, then what are you doing here talking about it? Clarke, you're quite the hypocritical asshole, aren't you. For give him, he just needs attention, something that he probably missed out on in his childhood. He probably cannot help it. ROF,L. You're the one begging for attention by telling people how horrible is is that someone who very likely has more offshore experience than you're ever in your life going to get is doing wrong by going for a sail. |
#136
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O/T: Abby Sunderland
Lew Hodgett wrote:
"J. Clarke" wrote: What is your point? There is no AAA roadside service at sea. So what? If you expect others to save your ass with a SAR mission, you may/will have a long wait. Nobody expects to have their ship sunk. But the whole SAR system exists for a reason. It's a big ocean out there. Yes, it's a big ocean, but one doesn't have to search the entire ocean, one just has to locate a signal. Prudent seamanship is your best chance of not needing outside assistance. Nobody has said otherwise. But it you think that "prudent seamanship" guarantees that one will always be safe and you spend much time on the water you're going to get a big fat surprise one day. |
#137
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O/T: Abby Sunderland
Leon wrote:
"Lew Hodgett" wrote in message ... "J. Clarke" wrote: What is your point? There is no AAA roadside service at sea. If you expect others to save your ass with a SAR mission, you may/will have a long wait. It's a big ocean out there. Prudent seamanship is your best chance of not needing outside assistance. Lew ahhh.. the voice of reason.... you have restored my faith Lew. Good on'ya And you might want to note that he is not whining about how thoughtless Abby's parents are for letting her do something that they believe to be well within her abilities. |
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O/T: Abby Sunderland
Leon wrote:
"J. Clarke" wrote in message ... Leon wrote: I pity your kids. Apparently you don't have kids... Or maybe I just don't keep them bundled up in cotton so that when they turn 18 and they have to deal with the big bad drill sergeant they'll be ready. Or maybe you don't have kids. By your logic the Sunderlands don't have kids. |
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O/T: Abby Sunderland
On 1/15/2010 11:05 PM, J. Clarke wrote:
I pity your kids. Most of us will only ever wish we had a kid as mature and successful ... -- www.e-woodshop.net Last update: 10/22/08 KarlC@ (the obvious) |
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O/T: Abby Sunderland
Leon wrote:
"J. Clarke" wrote in message ... Leon wrote: I can't teach you every thing....that should have "your" parents responsibility. You don't have anything to teach a retarded bullfrog. You don't have anything to teach a retarded bullfrog. ............. I am speechless. You actually shot your self in the foot. Since you spoke in response to that one it didn't leave you speechless. I note that an earlier post _did_ leave you speechless. |
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O/T: Abby Sunderland
Leon wrote:
"J. Clarke" wrote in message ... Leon wrote: I answered your question and am not going to go farther since you are insisting in staying this loop. See Robatoy's answer to you,, he sum's it pretty nicely. On the odd chance that he said something worth hearing I googled that post. My response is to quote a favorite expression of a man who served 28 years in the Navy, several years in the Coast Guard before that, and I don't know how long as a merchant seaman before that, and who until it got lost in a move had in his possession a hand-carved model of the Gertrude L. Thebaud, presented to him by the crew on the occasion of his being transferred to the Pacific after serving aboard her on the Mid Atlantic Submarine Patrol. "Go pee up a rope". Or, to make robatoy happy, I will amend that. _He_ should go pee up a _line_. |
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On Sat, 16 Jan 2010 01:12:23 -0500, "J. Clarke"
So how old should one be before being allowed to "walk alone in a seedy part of town"? And would it make a difference if they were boys instead of girls? And how would being 18 make them safer? Why don't we put this into terms that your limited intellect can understand? You're going on a dangerous and life threatening trip. You will be taking one person with you that is experienced in this type of trip. You haven't met either one of them before. All you know is that one of them has five years experience and the other has twenty years experience in this type of trip. Which one are you going to ask to accompany you? Pick one and explain your reasoning for that choice. |
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O/T: Abby Sunderland
wrote in message ... On Sat, 16 Jan 2010 01:12:23 -0500, "J. Clarke" So how old should one be before being allowed to "walk alone in a seedy part of town"? And would it make a difference if they were boys instead of girls? And how would being 18 make them safer? Why don't we put this into terms that your limited intellect can understand? You're going on a dangerous and life threatening trip. You will be taking one person with you that is experienced in this type of trip. You haven't met either one of them before. All you know is that one of them has five years experience and the other has twenty years experience in this type of trip. Which one are you going to ask to accompany you? Pick one and explain your reasoning for that choice. I can tell you right now that there are too many variables for him to decide or he will not understand the question at all. Because he very seldom has anything to really contribute to the group I did it to him again, saves space. |
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On Fri, 15 Jan 2010 23:01:36 -0600, "Leon"
wrote: "Larry Jaques" wrote in message .. . A 16 year old's knowledge of the potential dangers is not as developed as one with longer life experiences. True, but knowledge doesn't necessarily mean the older person will know WTF to do when something strange happens. A crafty young person might well do better than a sedate old fart. She should at least be old enough to have a decent understanding of how her life would change should any harm come to her. Tell ya what: You do that with your kid and let these fine folks raise their own the way they (and she) see fit. Deal? Good. Noooo problem, I was simply agreeing that I thought the parents were nuts for letting a youngster go and do something that few with far more experienced and knowledgeable have done. Then every one wanted to defend the childs maturity and knowledge. The child will probably do fine. But if something happened to my child I would blame myself forever for not being responsible as a parent. It is only common sense, which seems to be lacking here, to try to protet your children. Yeah your child stands a much greater chance of being hurt on land because they are going to spend 99% of their lives on land but on land help can be given and you do have to live some where. You have to pick your battles. Picking one where a child is alone for months on end performing a balancing act with mother nature would not be a wise one IMHO. The Sunderlands firmly believe that all they need is prayer to solve all their problems. |
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O/T: Abby Sunderland
"J. Clarke" wrote in message ... The Sunderlands, who know a mighty ****load more about teenaged circumnavigation than you are ever going to know, disagree with you. Hmmmmmmm... John... a "mighty ****load", huh? I kinda like that. I presume that's volumetrically greater - much greater, than a simple ****load. I'm sticking this one in my back pocket. To think - all these years I've been settling for a simple ****load. Man - you can really pick up some cool stuff here. -- -Mike- |
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O/T: Abby Sunderland
On Sat, 16 Jan 2010 00:12:21 -0500, "J. Clarke"
wrote: dadiOH wrote: J. Clarke wrote: dadiOH wrote: J. Clarke wrote: As for "systems failing in a storm", the "systems" in question are ropes and pulleys--it's an effing _sailboat_ for God's sake, technology that was old when Alexander was leading his armies at her age. And winches, Pulley with a crank and a ratchec. stays, Just ropes. *Wire* ropes. With turnbuckles. So what? They can be replaced in an emergency with dacron, Kevlar, or many other textiles, with knots. ___________ tangs, screws, bolts...all manner of things. Just fancy substitutes for knots. Fine, let's see you make a knot in 7x19 wire rope. I really should put a video of that up on Youtube just to **** you off. The point is that if your fancy wire rope breaks, so ****ING WHAT? You replace it with a spare, clamp on a patch, or replace it with something else. You act like replacing or repairing a goddamned piece of rope takes the entire resources of NASA or something. When that fancy wire rope breaks, it often is accompanied by the whole rig buckling, and coming down... In pieces. |
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J. Clarke wrote:
If you had been paying attention for the past 50 years you would know that solo circumnavigation is no longer something that "few with far more experienced and knowledgeable have done"--a lot of people have done it, some of whom had as their major qualifications "made a lot of money". You can even climb Mt Everest today with a little experience and $60,000. Not at all like it was when Hillary did it. www.himex.com for details. |
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On Sat, 16 Jan 2010 10:18:45 -0500, "Mike Marlow"
Hmmmmmmm... John... a "mighty ****load", huh? I kinda like that. I presume that's volumetrically greater - much greater, than a simple ****load. I'm sticking this one in my back pocket. To think - all these years I've been settling for a simple ****load. Man - you can really pick up some cool stuff here. Thanks Mike. I just had myself a mighty ****load of a good laugh. |
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On Sat, 16 Jan 2010 01:37:13 -0600, "Leon"
wrote: "J. Clarke" wrote in message ... Leon wrote: I can't teach you every thing....that should have "your" parents responsibility. You don't have anything to teach a retarded bullfrog. You don't have anything to teach a retarded bullfrog. ............. I am speechless. You actually shot your self in the foot. LOL! |
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On Sat, 16 Jan 2010 08:42:03 -0500, "J. Clarke"
wrote: Leon wrote: "J. Clarke" wrote in message ... Leon wrote: I can't teach you every thing....that should have "your" parents responsibility. You don't have anything to teach a retarded bullfrog. You don't have anything to teach a retarded bullfrog. ............. I am speechless. You actually shot your self in the foot. Since you spoke in response to that one it didn't leave you speechless. I note that an earlier post _did_ leave you speechless. So says the self-acknowleged "retarded bullfrog". |
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O/T: Abby Sunderland
On 1/16/2010 9:27 AM, wrote:
On Sat, 16 Jan 2010 10:18:45 -0500, "Mike Marlow" Hmmmmmmm... John... a "mighty ****load", huh? I kinda like that. I presume that's volumetrically greater - much greater, than a simple ****load. I'm sticking this one in my back pocket. To think - all these years I've been settling for a simple ****load. Man - you can really pick up some cool stuff here. Thanks Mike. I just had myself a mighty ****load of a good laugh. Ditto ... coffee missed the laptop, but damn, what a nasal experience. -- www.e-woodshop.net Last update: 10/22/08 KarlC@ (the obvious) |
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Larry Jaques wrote:
What I was saying is that kids grow up/mature a whole lot earlier today than they did when we were kids. Many are _much_ more mature. You can accept that or not. I'm not so sure. Kids are exposted to many more situation than we were as kids, but being around a lot of technology and perhaps more experiences does not always make them more mature. Typical teenager has more possisions than we had, may have been to Disney World, has a cellphone, has a Facebook page, but that does not make them any better equipped to make serious decisions about their life. |
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Leon wrote:
wrote in message ... On Sat, 16 Jan 2010 01:12:23 -0500, "J. Clarke" So how old should one be before being allowed to "walk alone in a seedy part of town"? And would it make a difference if they were boys instead of girls? And how would being 18 make them safer? Why don't we put this into terms that your limited intellect can understand? You're going on a dangerous and life threatening trip. You will be taking one person with you that is experienced in this type of trip. You haven't met either one of them before. All you know is that one of them has five years experience and the other has twenty years experience in this type of trip. Which one are you going to ask to accompany you? Pick one and explain your reasoning for that choice. I can tell you right now that there are too many variables for him to decide or he will not understand the question at all. Because he very seldom has anything to really contribute to the group I did it to him again, saves space. The question is irrelevant. We aren't talking about choice of companions for a trip, we're talking about how much experience one should have before undertaking the trip at all. |
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O/T: Abby Sunderland
Ed Pawlowski wrote:
J. Clarke wrote: If you had been paying attention for the past 50 years you would know that solo circumnavigation is no longer something that "few with far more experienced and knowledgeable have done"--a lot of people have done it, some of whom had as their major qualifications "made a lot of money". You can even climb Mt Everest today with a little experience and $60,000. Not at all like it was when Hillary did it. www.himex.com for details. Yup. |
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On Sat, 16 Jan 2010 11:07:17 -0500, "J. Clarke"
The question is irrelevant. We aren't talking about choice of companions for a trip, we're talking about how much experience one should have before undertaking the trip at all. And as usual, you tap dance (very poorly I might add) around the fact that age always gives one experience. A teenager is not fully grown, not fully mature and simply enough, not as experienced as she or he might be with a few years of adulthood under their belt. Besides practical experience which you seem to be focused on, there's emotional and life experience. Both these things contribute to the practical decisions that are made. There's your problem and what you are failing to admit. *That's* what you're refusing to acknowledge and it's exactly that fact that shoots down any premise that you can offer for this girl to be fully competent on this lark of a voyage. |
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O/T: Abby Sunderland
J. Clarke wrote:
The point is that if your fancy wire rope breaks, so ****ING WHAT? You replace it with a spare, clamp on a patch, or replace it with something else. You act like replacing or repairing a goddamned piece of rope takes the entire resources of NASA or something. Try this, oh experienced and clever one... storm 50-60 kph wind BIG waves forestay tang pops off the (probably) aluminum mast Let's see *you* replace the goddamned piece of "rope" _____________ If he had any experience and the sense that god gave geese he would have known that you can sail downhill most anywhere in the world and hit land. And the relevance of this is? What I said...experience and common sense count. -- dadiOH ____________________________ dadiOH's dandies v3.06... ....a help file of info about MP3s, recording from LP/cassette and tips & tricks on this and that. Get it at http://mysite.verizon.net/xico |
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O/T: Abby Sunderland
On Sat, 16 Jan 2010 11:13:57 -0500, "Ed Pawlowski"
wrote: I'd flip a coin. What the one person has done in five years may be far superior to the person that has been exposed to this type of trip for 20 years. The more years experience "usually" translates into being better equipped in a tough situation, but sometimes youth and agility work better than wisdom and creaky joints. Too many variables here to pick a clear advantage. Flip a coin eh? Bull****! Your life is going to be on the line. As well, you're adding variables to change the equation. Nice attempt, making the 35 person sound weak and incapable, but that's just you changing the equation. IF it helps you, both are in excellent health and the 35 year old has much more accumulated experience. Which are you going to pick now? |
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