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On Sunday, 8 September 2019 07:04:58 UTC+1, harry wrote:
On Saturday, 7 September 2019 12:47:32 UTC+1, Jim wrote: On Sat, 7 Sep 2019 12:32:11 +0100 ARW wrote: spend more time actually teaching subjects than putting up anti gay and anti bullying posters I might eventually find a school leaver that can wipe it's own arse. You might even find one that knows the difference between "it's" and "its". His use of it's was correct.(Possessive) It's you that's thick. https://www.bbc.co.uk/bitesize/articles/zx9ydxs The possessive form is 'its', 'it's' is the contraction of 'it is'. Jonathan |
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On 10/09/2019 14:47, Andy Bennet wrote:
On 08/09/2019 08:24, Steve Walker wrote: On 08/09/2019 07:04, harry wrote: On Saturday, 7 September 2019 12:47:32 UTC+1, JimÂ* wrote: On Sat, 7 Sep 2019 12:32:11 +0100 ARW wrote: spend more time actually teaching subjects than putting up anti gay and anti bullying posters I might eventually find a school leaver that can wipe it's own arse. You might even find one that knows the difference between "it's" and "its". His use of it's was correct.(Possessive) It's you that's thick. https://www.bbc.co.uk/bitesize/articles/zx9ydxs Except, of course that it *was* incorrect. People often get "its"/"it's" wrong. The possessive is "its" and "it's" is always a contraction of "it is" or "it has." "It's" works the same way as the contractions "wheres" or "theres" and "its" is a possessive just like "my" or "your." SteveW I'm fine with its and it's. I always have trouble with their, there, theres, theirs, there's and their's I dont think 'theres' exists You left out they're :-) -- Climate Change: Socialism wearing a lab coat. |
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On 08/09/2019 13:07, R D S wrote:
Well, I suspect in our day we'd get a bollocking at school and then another one at home from the parents for showing them up. Nowadays the parents would probably turn on the teacher. +1. My wife worked in a school until a few years back. One rated Excellent. Nothing like the old Grammar schools we both went to. Andy |
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On 08/09/2019 20:53, NY wrote:
My headmaster spoke in a bored-with-life upper-class drawl. He was obsessed with pushing as many boys to go to Oxbridge, and spoke disdainfully of "other universities". I remember he called the whole of the Lower Sixth to a meeting and said "I am now going to read out a list of names" - which he did - and then continued "Those of you whose names I have not read out are not considered Oxbridge Material and should leave this meeting now" which was a very tactless way of putting it and must have been offensive to those who were "only" considered suitable for red-brick universities. That's almost familiar. My school measured itself by how many boys got to Oxbridge, and how many to other universities. They'd rather you did Ancient Greek at Oxford than Engineering at UMIST. What do you mean, career? Andy |
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On 10/09/2019 14:22, NY wrote:
"whisky-dave" wrote in message ... You could buy it from the school shop or from one specific gents' outfitters in town. There was still a gradation of poor/rich, based on the grade of blazer that your parents bought you: a "cheap" felt-like material or "expensive" worsted barathea. It was still more or less the same style and cut, the same colour (bottle green), same "silver" buttons, and with the same school badge on the breast pocket, but the gradation of the type of material still sorted the sheep from the goats ;-) yes but the general idea was that everyone from that school looked pretty much the same. In other words, if you try to make everyone the same, they'll *still* find a way to look for differences and better/worse distinctions ;-) Yes but the school can claim everyone is treated the same. Yes, the school treated everyone the same and everyone looked more or less the same, barring attempts to "vary" the school uniform as much as they could get away with - because human nature seems to be that everyone wants to look as different from each other as they can manage while staying within the rules. The one situation where school uniform is a problem, is when it immediately identifies children from the "posh school" to the local kids from the council estate next door. We had a real problem with local "Pots Kids" (the district was unofficially called Potovens because of the smelting ovens in the area a long time ago) invading the school grounds, and attacking isolated boys who got separated from the rest while out on a cross-country run. We had a similar problem, but with another school - unfortunately for them, we had a sixth form and they didn't, so they tended to run off when challenged. SteveW |
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On Monday, 9 September 2019 14:30:23 UTC+1, Dave Plowman (News) wrote:
In article , tabbypurr wrote: On Monday, 9 September 2019 07:22:25 UTC+1, soup wrote: On 08/09/2019 23:38, tabbypurr wrote: On Sunday, 8 September 2019 12:59:36 UTC+1, Dave Plowman (News) wrote: Or you could let the boys wear skirts if they want to. ;-) There was a case where it happened en masse in response to some overly petty uniform rule changes. In Australia it was https://www.theguardian.com/educatio...uniform-policy Seems weird but OK, but then I am a Jock so the sight of a male in a 'skirt' is not so offensive in my eyes. :O) And as a modern human being I say let 'them' wear what they like as long as it is clean, in good repair, legal etc . I've never had much time for the whole uniform thing, seems petty & pointless. None of 'my' schools had uniforms & it was never a problem. One idea was it stopped kids being identified as coming from rich or poor families by what they wore. which is rather pointless And a uniform gives an identity to all. Would you allow an army to wear what they chose? very different situation. NT |
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On Monday, 9 September 2019 14:30:23 UTC+1, Dave Plowman (News) wrote:
In article , tabbypurr wrote: On Sunday, 8 September 2019 15:39:16 UTC+1, Dave Plowman (News) wrote: In article , But of course to make a profit you dont have hundreds of demarcated staff do you? And the important thing with education is to make a profit from it. Says it all, really. What kind of fool thinks money doesn't matter? What kind of fool thinks it is paramount with education? If so, easy to save money. Simply don't educate the masses. People that think financial decisions don't determine many choices in education are true fools. |
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On Monday, 9 September 2019 16:02:47 UTC+1, NY wrote:
"Steve Walker" wrote in message ... One idea was it stopped kids being identified as coming from rich or poor families by what they wore. And a uniform gives an identity to all. I went to a school with a uniform. Most things were fairly anonymous and you could buy them anywhere. The only thing that was unique was the blazer. You could buy it from the school shop or from one specific gents' outfitters in town. There was still a gradation of poor/rich, based on the grade of blazer that your parents bought you: a "cheap" felt-like material or "expensive" worsted barathea. It was still more or less the same style and cut, the same colour (bottle green), same "silver" buttons, and with the same school badge on the breast pocket, but the gradation of the type of material still sorted the sheep from the goats ;-) In other words, if you try to make everyone the same, they'll *still* find a way to look for differences and better/worse distinctions ;-) My blazer suffered a slight "accident" when someone held a lit Bunsen burner under the elbow during Chemistry. My mum got special permission from school to put on leather elbow patches (still a matching shade of green) to hide the singe mark. Kids aren't so clueless that they can't work out who is poor & who isn't, uniform or not. NT |
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On Tuesday, 10 September 2019 21:53:19 UTC+1, Vir Campestris wrote:
On 09/09/2019 09:56, tabbypurr wrote: I've never had much time for the whole uniform thing, seems petty & pointless. None of 'my' schools had uniforms & it was never a problem. The advantage is it stops them competing with Gucci and the like. Andy not really a problem for the school NT |
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On 10/09/2019 15:50, Chris Hogg wrote:
On Tue, 10 Sep 2019 07:39:39 -0700 (PDT), Jonathan wrote: On Sunday, 8 September 2019 07:04:58 UTC+1, harry wrote: On Saturday, 7 September 2019 12:47:32 UTC+1, Jim wrote: On Sat, 7 Sep 2019 12:32:11 +0100 ARW wrote: spend more time actually teaching subjects than putting up anti gay and anti bullying posters I might eventually find a school leaver that can wipe it's own arse. You might even find one that knows the difference between "it's" and "its". His use of it's was correct.(Possessive) It's you that's thick. https://www.bbc.co.uk/bitesize/articles/zx9ydxs The possessive form is 'its', 'it's' is the contraction of 'it is'. Jonathan +1, although quite why I'm bothering, I don't know, since it was Harry linking to that BBC article, and he's guaranteed to always get it wrong. It's his house; it's her house; it's its house The third being gender confused? |
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On 11/09/2019 06:25, Richard wrote:
On 10/09/2019 15:50, Chris Hogg wrote: On Tue, 10 Sep 2019 07:39:39 -0700 (PDT), Jonathan wrote: On Sunday, 8 September 2019 07:04:58 UTC+1, harryÂ* wrote: On Saturday, 7 September 2019 12:47:32 UTC+1, JimÂ* wrote: On Sat, 7 Sep 2019 12:32:11 +0100 ARW wrote: spend more time actually teaching subjects than putting up anti gay and anti bullying posters I might eventually find a school leaver that can wipe it's own arse. You might even find one that knows the difference between "it's" and "its". His use of it's was correct.(Possessive) It's you that's thick. https://www.bbc.co.uk/bitesize/articles/zx9ydxs The possessive form is 'its', 'it's' is the contraction of 'it is'. Jonathan +1, although quite why I'm bothering, I don't know, since it was Harry linking to that BBC article, and he's guaranteed to always get it wrong. It's his house; it's her house; it's its house The third being gender confused? No, a bank - or other corporate entity. -- "Anyone who believes that the laws of physics are mere social conventions is invited to try transgressing those conventions from the windows of my apartment. (I live on the twenty-first floor.) " Alan Sokal |
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On Tuesday, 10 September 2019 21:53:19 UTC+1, Vir Campestris wrote: On 09/09/2019 09:56, tabbypurr wrote: I've never had much time for the whole uniform thing, seems petty & pointless. None of 'my' schools had uniforms & it was never a problem. The advantage is it stops them competing with Gucci and the like. Andy not really a problem for the school Im afraid it is. I trained in an all girls school where the girls were required to wear a uniform. Besides the (inevitable) individual problems when girls turned up with something which didnt comply - skirt too short was the most common, make up of course, the €˜hot potato was, believe or no, carrier bags. There was a pecking order based on the designer carrier bag you carried your books in. Yes, the kind of bag you (well perhaps your daughter) might get if she shopped in a flash London shop. Not only did the name count to establish the pecking order, so did the size, the smaller the better. I dont think for one minute the girls concerned actually shopped in these places, they may have walked by them, it was all teenage nonsense. Not only did this create problems when bags got damaged, got lost, etc, some of these bags were tiny and the pupils were turning up to lessons without books claiming they couldnt fit them in their bag. Yes, it was dealt with etc but it took time and effort which could have been more usefully used in other ways. On the wider subject of uniforms, they help instil a sense of self respect etc if the rules are enforced. |
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On Wednesday, 11 September 2019 07:45:23 UTC+1, Brian Reay wrote:
tabbypurr wrote: On Tuesday, 10 September 2019 21:53:19 UTC+1, Vir Campestris wrote: On 09/09/2019 09:56, tabbypurr wrote: I've never had much time for the whole uniform thing, seems petty & pointless. None of 'my' schools had uniforms & it was never a problem.. The advantage is it stops them competing with Gucci and the like. Andy not really a problem for the school Im afraid it is. I trained in an all girls school where the girls were required to wear a uniform. Besides the (inevitable) individual problems when girls turned up with something which didnt comply - skirt too short was the most common, make up of course, the €˜hot potato was, believe or no, carrier bags. There was a pecking order based on the designer carrier bag you carried your books in. Yes, the kind of bag you (well perhaps your daughter) might get if she shopped in a flash London shop. Not only did the name count to establish the pecking order, so did the size, the smaller the better. I dont think for one minute the girls concerned actually shopped in these places, they may have walked by them, it was all teenage nonsense. there is always pecking order nonsense. Requiring uniforms does not eliminate it. Not only did this create problems when bags got damaged, got lost, etc, some of these bags were tiny and the pupils were turning up to lessons without books claiming they couldnt fit them in their bag. Yes, it was dealt with etc but it took time and effort which could have been more usefully used in other ways. warning/ punishment for not bringing books is nothing out of the ordinary On the wider subject of uniforms, they help instil a sense of self respect etc if the rules are enforced. lol |
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Vir Campestris wrote: On 08/09/2019 20:53, NY wrote: My headmaster spoke in a bored-with-life upper-class drawl. He was obsessed with pushing as many boys to go to Oxbridge, and spoke disdainfully of "other universities". I remember he called the whole of the Lower Sixth to a meeting and said "I am now going to read out a list of names" - which he did - and then continued "Those of you whose names I have not read out are not considered Oxbridge Material and should leave this meeting now" which was a very tactless way of putting it and must have been offensive to those who were "only" considered suitable for red-brick universities. That's almost familiar. My school measured itself by how many boys got to Oxbridge, and how many to other universities. They'd rather you did Ancient Greek at Oxford than Engineering at UMIST. What do you mean, career? I have a friend with a Classics degree - she went into computer programming - a very good career. -- from KT24 in Surrey, England "I'd rather die of exhaustion than die of boredom" Thomas Carlyle |
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wrote: On Monday, 9 September 2019 16:02:47 UTC+1, NY wrote: "Steve Walker" wrote in message ... One idea was it stopped kids being identified as coming from rich or poor families by what they wore. And a uniform gives an identity to all. I went to a school with a uniform. Most things were fairly anonymous and you could buy them anywhere. The only thing that was unique was the blazer. You could buy it from the school shop or from one specific gents' outfitters in town. There was still a gradation of poor/rich, based on the grade of blazer that your parents bought you: a "cheap" felt-like material or "expensive" worsted barathea. It was still more or less the same style and cut, the same colour (bottle green), same "silver" buttons, and with the same school badge on the breast pocket, but the gradation of the type of material still sorted the sheep from the goats ;-) In other words, if you try to make everyone the same, they'll *still* find a way to look for differences and better/worse distinctions ;-) My blazer suffered a slight "accident" when someone held a lit Bunsen burner under the elbow during Chemistry. My mum got special permission from school to put on leather elbow patches (still a matching shade of green) to hide the singe mark. Kids aren't so clueless that they can't work out who is poor & who isn't, uniform or not. At boarding school, one of my contemporaries parents stayed in a caravan - rather than an hotel - when the came to visit. Everyone assumed family poverty. Totally untrue - they just liked caravanning. -- from KT24 in Surrey, England "I'd rather die of exhaustion than die of boredom" Thomas Carlyle |
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On 11/09/2019 06:26, The Natural Philosopher wrote:
On 11/09/2019 06:25, Richard wrote: On 10/09/2019 15:50, Chris Hogg wrote: On Tue, 10 Sep 2019 07:39:39 -0700 (PDT), Jonathan wrote: On Sunday, 8 September 2019 07:04:58 UTC+1, harryÂ* wrote: On Saturday, 7 September 2019 12:47:32 UTC+1, JimÂ* wrote: You might even find one that knows the difference between "it's" and "its". His use of it's was correct.(Possessive) It's you that's thick. https://www.bbc.co.uk/bitesize/articles/zx9ydxs The possessive form is 'its', 'it's' is the contraction of 'it is'. Jonathan +1, although quite why I'm bothering, I don't know, since it was Harry linking to that BBC article, and he's guaranteed to always get it wrong. It's his house; it's her house; it's its house The third being gender confused? No, a bank -Â* or other corporate entity. Do banks live in houses? -- Max Demian |
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On 11/09/2019 10:52, Max Demian wrote:
On 11/09/2019 06:26, The Natural Philosopher wrote: On 11/09/2019 06:25, Richard wrote: On 10/09/2019 15:50, Chris Hogg wrote: On Tue, 10 Sep 2019 07:39:39 -0700 (PDT), Jonathan wrote: On Sunday, 8 September 2019 07:04:58 UTC+1, harryÂ* wrote: On Saturday, 7 September 2019 12:47:32 UTC+1, JimÂ* wrote: You might even find one that knows the difference between "it's" and "its". His use of it's was correct.(Possessive) It's you that's thick. https://www.bbc.co.uk/bitesize/articles/zx9ydxs The possessive form is 'its', 'it's' is the contraction of 'it is'. Jonathan +1, although quite why I'm bothering, I don't know, since it was Harry linking to that BBC article, and he's guaranteed to always get it wrong. It's his house; it's her house; it's its house The third being gender confused? No, a bank -Â* or other corporate entity. Do banks live in houses? Possesion is not occupation -- Renewable energy: Expensive solutions that don't work to a problem that doesn't exist instituted by self legalising protection rackets that don't protect, masquerading as public servants who don't serve the public. |
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On Tuesday, 10 September 2019 14:22:35 UTC+1, NY wrote:
"whisky-dave" wrote in message ... You could buy it from the school shop or from one specific gents' outfitters in town. There was still a gradation of poor/rich, based on the grade of blazer that your parents bought you: a "cheap" felt-like material or "expensive" worsted barathea. It was still more or less the same style and cut, the same colour (bottle green), same "silver" buttons, and with the same school badge on the breast pocket, but the gradation of the type of material still sorted the sheep from the goats ;-) yes but the general idea was that everyone from that school looked pretty much the same. In other words, if you try to make everyone the same, they'll *still* find a way to look for differences and better/worse distinctions ;-) Yes but the school can claim everyone is treated the same. Yes, the school treated everyone the same and everyone looked more or less the same, barring attempts to "vary" the school uniform as much as they could get away with - because human nature seems to be that everyone wants to look as different from each other as they can manage while staying within the rules. That depends on the culture this wasn't true in china. It is still isn't true in the authodox religions such as judaism, have yuo been to stamford hill ? The one situation where school uniform is a problem, is when it immediately identifies children from the "posh school" to the local kids from the council estate next door. We had a real problem with local "Pots Kids" (the district was unofficially called Potovens because of the smelting ovens in the area a long time ago) invading the school grounds, and attacking isolated boys who got separated from the rest while out on a cross-country run. Standard practice if you look differnt and it's not only a human trait it happens with animals too. When I was at school it was the closest school that happened to be catholic school that were the enemy I rememer one day one year someone saw a knife. But I had to walk almost past that school withing a few 100 metres but was never attacked they looked at us we looked at them. A few thugs might get involved in somne fights but the vast majoroty just got on with life. My mum said that in her day, the girls from the High School and the boys from the Grammar School were not allowed to be seen together while wearing school uniform (this was a High School rule - the Grammar School were not as paranoid) which was a problem when brothers and sisters travelled home on the same bus or train. Some girls took plain clothes in a holdall and changed into them in the loos just outside the school gate so they could meet brothers or boyfriends without being penalised. The school knew it happened and condoned this way of avoiding the rule: apparently it was not the fact that *"their* girls met boys, but the fact that they were seen to be High School girls doing it. The school had a very strange attitude: they allowed junior boys from the Grammar School to use the pool - obviously when girls were nowhere near - but they imposed a cur-off age of 12 because they thought that older boys, post-puberty, would "pollute" the water. Maybe they genuinely thought that their girls could become pregnant through swimming in water that virile boys had just swum in ;-) Sounds reasonable. But boys from boys schools and girls from girls schools were always kept apart when close to the schools, nothing new about that. |
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On Tuesday, 10 September 2019 14:47:18 UTC+1, Andy Bennet wrote:
On 08/09/2019 08:24, Steve Walker wrote: On 08/09/2019 07:04, harry wrote: On Saturday, 7 September 2019 12:47:32 UTC+1, JimÂ* wrote: On Sat, 7 Sep 2019 12:32:11 +0100 ARW wrote: spend more time actually teaching subjects than putting up anti gay and anti bullying posters I might eventually find a school leaver that can wipe it's own arse. You might even find one that knows the difference between "it's" and "its". His use of it's was correct.(Possessive) It's you that's thick. https://www.bbc.co.uk/bitesize/articles/zx9ydxs Except, of course that it *was* incorrect. People often get "its"/"it's" wrong. The possessive is "its" and "it's" is always a contraction of "it is" or "it has." "It's" works the same way as the contractions "wheres" or "theres" and "its" is a possessive just like "my" or "your." SteveW I'm fine with its and it's. I always have trouble with their, there, theres, theirs, there's and their's That's the thing about inteligent people thay can work it out by analising the context, thick ****s can't. |
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wrote: On Monday, 9 September 2019 14:30:23 UTC+1, Dave Plowman (News) wrote: In article , tabbypurr wrote: On Sunday, 8 September 2019 15:39:16 UTC+1, Dave Plowman (News) wrote: In article , But of course to make a profit you dont have hundreds of demarcated staff do you? And the important thing with education is to make a profit from it. Says it all, really. What kind of fool thinks money doesn't matter? What kind of fool thinks it is paramount with education? If so, easy to save money. Simply don't educate the masses. People that think financial decisions don't determine many choices in education are true fools. Very different matter to making a profit from it. -- *'Progress' and 'Change' are not synonyms. Dave Plowman London SW To e-mail, change noise into sound. |
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... But boys from boys schools and girls from girls schools were always kept apart when close to the schools, nothing new about that. What was odd about my mum's experience was that it was being seen together *in school uniform* that was the cardinal sin; being seen together out of recognisable uniform was a more venial sin, and no sin at all if it was brothers and sisters. I'm not sure what the protocol was about travelling home on the same buses, trams or trains - whether there was "a boys' section" and "a girls' section". Where I went, the boys' grammar school and the girls' high school were on opposite sides of a fairly quiet road. The pavements and road between one boundary fence and the other were "neutral ground" where it was commonly accepted that boys and girls would meet. The high school didn't have a swimming pool and they used ours. The girls were closely shepherded as they made their way though our grounds, and a sign was posted on the outside door of the swimming pool so no boys had any excuse for straying in "by accident". It's surprising how many invented excuses along the lines of "I think I've left something in there - can I look for it". ;-) But there was no thought of "the girls may pollute the boys' water" or "we're not swimming in there because the boys may have polluted it". A few 6th form general-studies lessons were shared between the two schools, and school plays had a shared cast, though the stage hands were exclusively made up of grammar school boys (when the plays were staged there) or high school girls (when the plays were staged there). The plays were usually Gilbert and Sullivan operas or plays such as "Brothers in Law" - I helped with lighting on those. I'm not sure what the changing room arrangements were, but I imagine there were attempts by both sides to sneak someone in ;-) |
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"whisky-dave" wrote in message ... But boys from boys schools and girls from girls schools were always kept apart when close to the schools, nothing new about that. What was odd about my mum's experience was that it was being seen together *in school uniform* that was the cardinal sin; being seen together out of recognisable uniform was a more venial sin, and no sin at all if it was brothers and sisters. I'm not sure what the protocol was about travelling home on the same buses, trams or trains - whether there was "a boys' section" and "a girls' section". Where I went, the boys' grammar school and the girls' high school were on opposite sides of a fairly quiet road. The pavements and road between one boundary fence and the other were "neutral ground" where it was commonly accepted that boys and girls would meet. In Guildford, the girls' High School is close to the boys' Grammar School and it is quite common for the two to meet at lunch time. A few years ago, I was walking past one such gathering when one of the girls left the group with "I wouldn't sleep with you" and getting half across the road, continued "even if you paid me!". Well brought-up young ladies? -- from KT24 in Surrey, England "I'd rather die of exhaustion than die of boredom" Thomas Carlyle |
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charles wrote: Where I went, the boys' grammar school and the girls' high school were on opposite sides of a fairly quiet road. The pavements and road between one boundary fence and the other were "neutral ground" where it was commonly accepted that boys and girls would meet. In Guildford, the girls' High School is close to the boys' Grammar School and it is quite common for the two to meet at lunch time. A few years ago, I was walking past one such gathering when one of the girls left the group with "I wouldn't sleep with you" and getting half across the road, continued "even if you paid me!". Well brought-up young ladies? In my day, it was common for a boy and girl to swap blazers once outside of school when meeting up. To say to others they were a couple. Perhaps that explains why Scotland doesn't seem quite so fixated on LBGTQIA issues as other parts of the land. ;-) -- *Experience is something you don't get until just after you need it * Dave Plowman London SW To e-mail, change noise into sound. |
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... In article , NY wrote: "whisky-dave" wrote in message ... But boys from boys schools and girls from girls schools were always kept apart when close to the schools, nothing new about that. What was odd about my mum's experience was that it was being seen together *in school uniform* that was the cardinal sin; being seen together out of recognisable uniform was a more venial sin, and no sin at all if it was brothers and sisters. I'm not sure what the protocol was about travelling home on the same buses, trams or trains - whether there was "a boys' section" and "a girls' section". Where I went, the boys' grammar school and the girls' high school were on opposite sides of a fairly quiet road. The pavements and road between one boundary fence and the other were "neutral ground" where it was commonly accepted that boys and girls would meet. In Guildford, the girls' High School is close to the boys' Grammar School and it is quite common for the two to meet at lunch time. A few years ago, I was walking past one such gathering when one of the girls left the group with "I wouldn't sleep with you" and getting half across the road, continued "even if you paid me!". Well brought-up young ladies? LOL. The first house I ever lived in backed onto the playing fields of a secondary school, and my mum's mum was paranoid that I'd learn some "naughty words" from the "big boys and girls". That was when I was just a few months old, in the early 60s, when I was lying in my pram in the back garden. According to my mum, some of the language was "all 4-letter words" and she was forever finding used "thingies" (I presume she meant condoms!) stuck in the wire fence between the school and our garden. |
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On Wednesday, 11 September 2019 14:57:26 UTC+1, NY wrote:
LOL. The first house I ever lived in backed onto the playing fields of a secondary school, and my mum's mum was paranoid that I'd learn some "naughty words" from the "big boys and girls". My mother came home to find my father had taught me the words to "wash me in the water where you washed your dirty daughter" which wasn't quite the nursery rhyme she had expected me to have learned that day. Owain |
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On Wednesday, 11 September 2019 13:43:38 UTC+1, Dave Plowman (News) wrote:
In article , wrote: On Monday, 9 September 2019 14:30:23 UTC+1, Dave Plowman (News) wrote: In article , tabbypurr wrote: On Sunday, 8 September 2019 15:39:16 UTC+1, Dave Plowman (News) wrote: In article , But of course to make a profit you dont have hundreds of demarcated staff do you? And the important thing with education is to make a profit from it. Says it all, really. What kind of fool thinks money doesn't matter? What kind of fool thinks it is paramount with education? If so, easy to save money. Simply don't educate the masses. People that think financial decisions don't determine many choices in education are true fools. Very different matter to making a profit from it. Depends what you call profit doesn't it, there's more to life than money. I know usually profit is about money, but as I've said here if yuo get a day off working from home, so you have a 4 day week instead of a 5 day is that profitable to the individual concenred. |
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On Wednesday, 11 September 2019 14:54:07 UTC+1, Dave Plowman (News) wrote:
In article , charles wrote: Where I went, the boys' grammar school and the girls' high school were on opposite sides of a fairly quiet road. The pavements and road between one boundary fence and the other were "neutral ground" where it was commonly accepted that boys and girls would meet. In Guildford, the girls' High School is close to the boys' Grammar School and it is quite common for the two to meet at lunch time. A few years ago, I was walking past one such gathering when one of the girls left the group with "I wouldn't sleep with you" and getting half across the road, continued "even if you paid me!". Well brought-up young ladies? In my day, it was common for a boy and girl to swap blazers once outside of school when meeting up. To say to others they were a couple. Perhaps that explains why Scotland doesn't seem quite so fixated on LBGTQIA issues as other parts of the land. ;-) Ah so you started cross-dressing at an early age then ![]() |
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whisky-dave wrote: In my day, it was common for a boy and girl to swap blazers once outside of school when meeting up. To say to others they were a couple. Perhaps that explains why Scotland doesn't seem quite so fixated on LBGTQIA issues as other parts of the land. ;-) Ah so you started cross-dressing at an early age then ![]() No need since we already had the kilt. Ideal for fornication and diarrhoea. But preferably not both at the same time. -- *7up is good for you, signed snow white* Dave Plowman London SW To e-mail, change noise into sound. |
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On 11/09/2019 13:30, whisky-dave wrote:
On Tuesday, 10 September 2019 14:22:35 UTC+1, NY wrote: "whisky-dave" wrote in message ... You could buy it from the school shop or from one specific gents' outfitters in town. There was still a gradation of poor/rich, based on the grade of blazer that your parents bought you: a "cheap" felt-like material or "expensive" worsted barathea. It was still more or less the same style and cut, the same colour (bottle green), same "silver" buttons, and with the same school badge on the breast pocket, but the gradation of the type of material still sorted the sheep from the goats ;-) yes but the general idea was that everyone from that school looked pretty much the same. In other words, if you try to make everyone the same, they'll *still* find a way to look for differences and better/worse distinctions ;-) Yes but the school can claim everyone is treated the same. Yes, the school treated everyone the same and everyone looked more or less the same, barring attempts to "vary" the school uniform as much as they could get away with - because human nature seems to be that everyone wants to look as different from each other as they can manage while staying within the rules. That depends on the culture this wasn't true in china. It is still isn't true in the authodox religions such as judaism, have yuo been to stamford hill ? The one situation where school uniform is a problem, is when it immediately identifies children from the "posh school" to the local kids from the council estate next door. We had a real problem with local "Pots Kids" (the district was unofficially called Potovens because of the smelting ovens in the area a long time ago) invading the school grounds, and attacking isolated boys who got separated from the rest while out on a cross-country run. Standard practice if you look differnt and it's not only a human trait it happens with animals too. When I was at school it was the closest school that happened to be catholic school that were the enemy I rememer one day one year someone saw a knife. But I had to walk almost past that school withing a few 100 metres but was never attacked they looked at us we looked at them. A few thugs might get involved in somne fights but the vast majoroty just got on with life. My mum said that in her day, the girls from the High School and the boys from the Grammar School were not allowed to be seen together while wearing school uniform (this was a High School rule - the Grammar School were not as paranoid) which was a problem when brothers and sisters travelled home on the same bus or train. Some girls took plain clothes in a holdall and changed into them in the loos just outside the school gate so they could meet brothers or boyfriends without being penalised. The school knew it happened and condoned this way of avoiding the rule: apparently it was not the fact that *"their* girls met boys, but the fact that they were seen to be High School girls doing it. The school had a very strange attitude: they allowed junior boys from the Grammar School to use the pool - obviously when girls were nowhere near - but they imposed a cur-off age of 12 because they thought that older boys, post-puberty, would "pollute" the water. Maybe they genuinely thought that their girls could become pregnant through swimming in water that virile boys had just swum in ;-) Sounds reasonable. But boys from boys schools and girls from girls schools were always kept apart when close to the schools, nothing new about that. Were they? Many boys from my boys only Grammar school spent most lunchtimes over at the girl's Grammar. SteveW |
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On 11/09/2019 21:01, Steve Walker wrote:
On 11/09/2019 13:30, whisky-dave wrote: On Tuesday, 10 September 2019 14:22:35 UTC+1, NYÂ* wrote: "whisky-dave" wrote in message ... You could buy it from the school shop or from one specific gents' outfitters in town. There was still a gradation of poor/rich, based on the grade of blazer that your parents bought you: a "cheap" felt-like material or "expensive" worsted barathea. It was still more or less the same style and cut, the same colour (bottle green), same "silver" buttons, and with the same school badge on the breast pocket, but the gradation of the type of material still sorted the sheep from the goats ;-) yes but the general idea was that everyone from that school looked pretty much the same. In other words, if you try to make everyone the same, they'll *still* find a way to look for differences and better/worse distinctions ;-) Yes but the school can claim everyone is treated the same. Yes, the school treated everyone the same and everyone looked more or less the same, barring attempts to "vary" the school uniform as much as they could get away with - because human nature seems to be that everyone wants to look as different from each other as they can manage while staying within the rules. That depends on the culture this wasn't true in china. It is still isn't true in the authodox religions such as judaism, have yuo been to stamford hill ? The one situation where school uniform is a problem, is when it immediately identifies children from the "posh school" to the local kids from the council estate next door. We had a real problem with local "Pots Kids" (the district was unofficially called Potovens because of the smelting ovens in the area a long time ago) invading the school grounds, and attacking isolated boys who got separated from the rest while out on a cross-country run. Standard practice if you look differnt and it's not only a human trait it happens with animals too. When I was at school it was the closest school that happened to be catholic school that were the enemy I rememer one day one year someone saw a knife. But I had to walk almost past that school withing a few 100 metres but was never attacked they looked at us we looked at them. A few thugs might get involved in somne fights but the vast majoroty just got on with life. My mum said that in her day, the girls from the High School and the boys from the Grammar School were not allowed to be seen together while wearing school uniform (this was a High School rule - the Grammar School were not as paranoid) which was a problem when brothers and sisters travelled home on the same bus or train. Some girls took plain clothes in a holdall and changed into them in the loos just outside the school gate so they could meet brothers or boyfriends without being penalised. The school knew it happened and condoned this way of avoiding the rule: apparently it was not the fact that *"their* girls met boys, but the fact that they were seen to be High School girls doing it. The school had a very strange attitude: they allowed junior boys from the Grammar School to use the pool - obviously when girls were nowhere near - but they imposed a cur-off age of 12 because they thought that older boys, post-puberty, would "pollute" the water. Maybe they genuinely thought that their girls could become pregnant through swimming in water that virile boys had just swum in ;-) Sounds reasonable. But boys from boys schools and girls from girls schools were always kept apart when close to the schools, nothing new about that. Were they? Many boys from my boys only Grammar school spent most lunchtimes over at the girl's Grammar. SteveW And I just noticed that my grammar went all wrong there and put the apostrophe in the wrong place! ![]() SteveW |
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On Wednesday, 11 September 2019 21:01:19 UTC+1, Steve Walker wrote:
On 11/09/2019 13:30, whisky-dave wrote: On Tuesday, 10 September 2019 14:22:35 UTC+1, NY wrote: "whisky-dave" wrote in message ... You could buy it from the school shop or from one specific gents' outfitters in town. There was still a gradation of poor/rich, based on the grade of blazer that your parents bought you: a "cheap" felt-like material or "expensive" worsted barathea. It was still more or less the same style and cut, the same colour (bottle green), same "silver" buttons, and with the same school badge on the breast pocket, but the gradation of the type of material still sorted the sheep from the goats ;-) yes but the general idea was that everyone from that school looked pretty much the same. In other words, if you try to make everyone the same, they'll *still* find a way to look for differences and better/worse distinctions ;-) Yes but the school can claim everyone is treated the same. Yes, the school treated everyone the same and everyone looked more or less the same, barring attempts to "vary" the school uniform as much as they could get away with - because human nature seems to be that everyone wants to look as different from each other as they can manage while staying within the rules. That depends on the culture this wasn't true in china. It is still isn't true in the authodox religions such as judaism, have yuo been to stamford hill ? The one situation where school uniform is a problem, is when it immediately identifies children from the "posh school" to the local kids from the council estate next door. We had a real problem with local "Pots Kids" (the district was unofficially called Potovens because of the smelting ovens in the area a long time ago) invading the school grounds, and attacking isolated boys who got separated from the rest while out on a cross-country run. Standard practice if you look differnt and it's not only a human trait it happens with animals too. When I was at school it was the closest school that happened to be catholic school that were the enemy I rememer one day one year someone saw a knife. But I had to walk almost past that school withing a few 100 metres but was never attacked they looked at us we looked at them. A few thugs might get involved in somne fights but the vast majoroty just got on with life. My mum said that in her day, the girls from the High School and the boys from the Grammar School were not allowed to be seen together while wearing school uniform (this was a High School rule - the Grammar School were not as paranoid) which was a problem when brothers and sisters travelled home on the same bus or train. Some girls took plain clothes in a holdall and changed into them in the loos just outside the school gate so they could meet brothers or boyfriends without being penalised. The school knew it happened and condoned this way of avoiding the rule: apparently it was not the fact that *"their* girls met boys, but the fact that they were seen to be High School girls doing it. The school had a very strange attitude: they allowed junior boys from the Grammar School to use the pool - obviously when girls were nowhere near - but they imposed a cur-off age of 12 because they thought that older boys, post-puberty, would "pollute" the water. Maybe they genuinely thought that their girls could become pregnant through swimming in water that virile boys had just swum in ;-) Sounds reasonable. But boys from boys schools and girls from girls schools were always kept apart when close to the schools, nothing new about that. Were they? Many boys from my boys only Grammar school spent most lunchtimes over at the girl's Grammar. I was talking offically, not what atually happened. And I very much doubt gay male students spent much time in the girls scools. unless it was an attempt to cover up their sexual preference. |
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On 11/09/2019 13:32, whisky-dave wrote:
That's the thing about inteligent people thay can work it out by analising the context, thick ****s can't. Analising? You stick the words up your ****? -- Cue Skitt... |
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On 12/09/2019 10:44, whisky-dave wrote:
On Wednesday, 11 September 2019 21:01:19 UTC+1, Steve Walker wrote: On 11/09/2019 13:30, whisky-dave wrote: On Tuesday, 10 September 2019 14:22:35 UTC+1, NY wrote: "whisky-dave" wrote in message ... You could buy it from the school shop or from one specific gents' outfitters in town. There was still a gradation of poor/rich, based on the grade of blazer that your parents bought you: a "cheap" felt-like material or "expensive" worsted barathea. It was still more or less the same style and cut, the same colour (bottle green), same "silver" buttons, and with the same school badge on the breast pocket, but the gradation of the type of material still sorted the sheep from the goats ;-) yes but the general idea was that everyone from that school looked pretty much the same. In other words, if you try to make everyone the same, they'll *still* find a way to look for differences and better/worse distinctions ;-) Yes but the school can claim everyone is treated the same. Yes, the school treated everyone the same and everyone looked more or less the same, barring attempts to "vary" the school uniform as much as they could get away with - because human nature seems to be that everyone wants to look as different from each other as they can manage while staying within the rules. That depends on the culture this wasn't true in china. It is still isn't true in the authodox religions such as judaism, have yuo been to stamford hill ? The one situation where school uniform is a problem, is when it immediately identifies children from the "posh school" to the local kids from the council estate next door. We had a real problem with local "Pots Kids" (the district was unofficially called Potovens because of the smelting ovens in the area a long time ago) invading the school grounds, and attacking isolated boys who got separated from the rest while out on a cross-country run. Standard practice if you look differnt and it's not only a human trait it happens with animals too. When I was at school it was the closest school that happened to be catholic school that were the enemy I rememer one day one year someone saw a knife. But I had to walk almost past that school withing a few 100 metres but was never attacked they looked at us we looked at them. A few thugs might get involved in somne fights but the vast majoroty just got on with life. My mum said that in her day, the girls from the High School and the boys from the Grammar School were not allowed to be seen together while wearing school uniform (this was a High School rule - the Grammar School were not as paranoid) which was a problem when brothers and sisters travelled home on the same bus or train. Some girls took plain clothes in a holdall and changed into them in the loos just outside the school gate so they could meet brothers or boyfriends without being penalised. The school knew it happened and condoned this way of avoiding the rule: apparently it was not the fact that *"their* girls met boys, but the fact that they were seen to be High School girls doing it. The school had a very strange attitude: they allowed junior boys from the Grammar School to use the pool - obviously when girls were nowhere near - but they imposed a cur-off age of 12 because they thought that older boys, post-puberty, would "pollute" the water. Maybe they genuinely thought that their girls could become pregnant through swimming in water that virile boys had just swum in ;-) Sounds reasonable. But boys from boys schools and girls from girls schools were always kept apart when close to the schools, nothing new about that. Were they? Many boys from my boys only Grammar school spent most lunchtimes over at the girl's Grammar. I was talking offically, not what atually happened. No-one ever instructed the pupils of either school that they weren't permitted at the other school. There wasn't an official position on it. And I very much doubt gay male students spent much time in the girls scools. unless it was an attempt to cover up their sexual preference. Not sure where that came from, as I did not say "all the boys", only "many boys" spent their luchtime there - as as our lunch was 1-1/2 hours and the walk was only 15 minutes, there was plenty of time. SteveW |
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On 12/09/2019 21:21, Vir Campestris wrote:
On 11/09/2019 13:32, whisky-dave wrote: That's the thing about inteligent people thay can work it out by analising the context, thick ****s can't. Surely the correct three letters at this point a QED Analising? You stick the words up your ****? In WDs case, yup. -- €œBut what a weak barrier is truth when it stands in the way of an hypothesis!€ Mary Wollstonecraft |
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On Thursday, 12 September 2019 21:28:45 UTC+1, Steve Walker wrote:
On 12/09/2019 10:44, whisky-dave wrote: On Wednesday, 11 September 2019 21:01:19 UTC+1, Steve Walker wrote: On 11/09/2019 13:30, whisky-dave wrote: On Tuesday, 10 September 2019 14:22:35 UTC+1, NY wrote: "whisky-dave" wrote in message ... You could buy it from the school shop or from one specific gents' outfitters in town. There was still a gradation of poor/rich, based on the grade of blazer that your parents bought you: a "cheap" felt-like material or "expensive" worsted barathea. It was still more or less the same style and cut, the same colour (bottle green), same "silver" buttons, and with the same school badge on the breast pocket, but the gradation of the type of material still sorted the sheep from the goats ;-) yes but the general idea was that everyone from that school looked pretty much the same. In other words, if you try to make everyone the same, they'll *still* find a way to look for differences and better/worse distinctions ;-) Yes but the school can claim everyone is treated the same. Yes, the school treated everyone the same and everyone looked more or less the same, barring attempts to "vary" the school uniform as much as they could get away with - because human nature seems to be that everyone wants to look as different from each other as they can manage while staying within the rules. That depends on the culture this wasn't true in china. It is still isn't true in the authodox religions such as judaism, have yuo been to stamford hill ? The one situation where school uniform is a problem, is when it immediately identifies children from the "posh school" to the local kids from the council estate next door. We had a real problem with local "Pots Kids" (the district was unofficially called Potovens because of the smelting ovens in the area a long time ago) invading the school grounds, and attacking isolated boys who got separated from the rest while out on a cross-country run. Standard practice if you look differnt and it's not only a human trait it happens with animals too. When I was at school it was the closest school that happened to be catholic school that were the enemy I rememer one day one year someone saw a knife. But I had to walk almost past that school withing a few 100 metres but was never attacked they looked at us we looked at them. A few thugs might get involved in somne fights but the vast majoroty just got on with life. My mum said that in her day, the girls from the High School and the boys from the Grammar School were not allowed to be seen together while wearing school uniform (this was a High School rule - the Grammar School were not as paranoid) which was a problem when brothers and sisters travelled home on the same bus or train. Some girls took plain clothes in a holdall and changed into them in the loos just outside the school gate so they could meet brothers or boyfriends without being penalised. The school knew it happened and condoned this way of avoiding the rule: apparently it was not the fact that *"their* girls met boys, but the fact that they were seen to be High School girls doing it. The school had a very strange attitude: they allowed junior boys from the Grammar School to use the pool - obviously when girls were nowhere near - but they imposed a cur-off age of 12 because they thought that older boys, post-puberty, would "pollute" the water. Maybe they genuinely thought that their girls could become pregnant through swimming in water that virile boys had just swum in ;-) Sounds reasonable. But boys from boys schools and girls from girls schools were always kept apart when close to the schools, nothing new about that. Were they? Many boys from my boys only Grammar school spent most lunchtimes over at the girl's Grammar. I was talking offically, not what atually happened. No-one ever instructed the pupils of either school that they weren't permitted at the other school. There wasn't an official position on it. I doubt that otherwise why split the schools into boys and girls why not split them into left brainers and right brainers or any other division. My old infants school had two separte entrances for boys and girls although they were never used like that when I was there. And I very much doubt gay male students spent much time in the girls scools. unless it was an attempt to cover up their sexual preference. Not sure where that came from, as I did not say "all the boys", only "many boys" spent their luchtime there - as as our lunch was 1-1/2 hours and the walk was only 15 minutes, there was plenty of time. and I'm betting some boys like I did spend time playing football or going to the park or the local newsagents. |
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On Friday, 13 September 2019 09:01:37 UTC+1, The Natural Philosopher wrote:
On 12/09/2019 21:21, Vir Campestris wrote: On 11/09/2019 13:32, whisky-dave wrote: That's the thing about inteligent people thay can work it out by analising the context, thick ****s can't. Surely the correct three letters at this point a QED Analising? You stick the words up your ****? In WDs case, yup. so what is the connection between anal ising and the ****? and why the question mark ? -- €œBut what a weak barrier is truth when it stands in the way of an hypothesis!€ Mary Wollstonecraft Strange she thinks that way as scientists use hypothesis which is a supposition or proposed explanation made on the basis of limited evidence as a starting point for further investigation. |
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On 13/09/2019 12:59, whisky-dave wrote:
On Thursday, 12 September 2019 21:28:45 UTC+1, Steve Walker wrote: On 12/09/2019 10:44, whisky-dave wrote: On Wednesday, 11 September 2019 21:01:19 UTC+1, Steve Walker wrote: On 11/09/2019 13:30, whisky-dave wrote: On Tuesday, 10 September 2019 14:22:35 UTC+1, NY wrote: "whisky-dave" wrote in message ... You could buy it from the school shop or from one specific gents' outfitters in town. There was still a gradation of poor/rich, based on the grade of blazer that your parents bought you: a "cheap" felt-like material or "expensive" worsted barathea. It was still more or less the same style and cut, the same colour (bottle green), same "silver" buttons, and with the same school badge on the breast pocket, but the gradation of the type of material still sorted the sheep from the goats ;-) yes but the general idea was that everyone from that school looked pretty much the same. In other words, if you try to make everyone the same, they'll *still* find a way to look for differences and better/worse distinctions ;-) Yes but the school can claim everyone is treated the same. Yes, the school treated everyone the same and everyone looked more or less the same, barring attempts to "vary" the school uniform as much as they could get away with - because human nature seems to be that everyone wants to look as different from each other as they can manage while staying within the rules. That depends on the culture this wasn't true in china. It is still isn't true in the authodox religions such as judaism, have yuo been to stamford hill ? The one situation where school uniform is a problem, is when it immediately identifies children from the "posh school" to the local kids from the council estate next door. We had a real problem with local "Pots Kids" (the district was unofficially called Potovens because of the smelting ovens in the area a long time ago) invading the school grounds, and attacking isolated boys who got separated from the rest while out on a cross-country run. Standard practice if you look differnt and it's not only a human trait it happens with animals too. When I was at school it was the closest school that happened to be catholic school that were the enemy I rememer one day one year someone saw a knife. But I had to walk almost past that school withing a few 100 metres but was never attacked they looked at us we looked at them. A few thugs might get involved in somne fights but the vast majoroty just got on with life. My mum said that in her day, the girls from the High School and the boys from the Grammar School were not allowed to be seen together while wearing school uniform (this was a High School rule - the Grammar School were not as paranoid) which was a problem when brothers and sisters travelled home on the same bus or train. Some girls took plain clothes in a holdall and changed into them in the loos just outside the school gate so they could meet brothers or boyfriends without being penalised. The school knew it happened and condoned this way of avoiding the rule: apparently it was not the fact that *"their* girls met boys, but the fact that they were seen to be High School girls doing it. The school had a very strange attitude: they allowed junior boys from the Grammar School to use the pool - obviously when girls were nowhere near - but they imposed a cur-off age of 12 because they thought that older boys, post-puberty, would "pollute" the water. Maybe they genuinely thought that their girls could become pregnant through swimming in water that virile boys had just swum in ;-) Sounds reasonable. But boys from boys schools and girls from girls schools were always kept apart when close to the schools, nothing new about that. Were they? Many boys from my boys only Grammar school spent most lunchtimes over at the girl's Grammar. I was talking offically, not what atually happened. No-one ever instructed the pupils of either school that they weren't permitted at the other school. There wasn't an official position on it. I doubt that otherwise why split the schools into boys and girls why not split them into left brainers and right brainers or any other division. My old infants school had two separte entrances for boys and girls although they were never used like that when I was there. My infants and juniors both had boys and girls entrances and separate playgounds, but by the time I was there, they'd become the entrance and playgound for different year groups instead. The boys and girls grammar schools were originally one school, but with the post-war baby boom, it was too small in the sixties, so a second school was built. For continuity of subject teaching as pupils progressed through the years, the easiest split was then boys at one and girls at the other, rather than by years. The year after I left, they'd extended the old school and were re-merging the schools over a period of 3 or 4 years. And I very much doubt gay male students spent much time in the girls scools. unless it was an attempt to cover up their sexual preference. Not sure where that came from, as I did not say "all the boys", only "many boys" spent their luchtime there - as as our lunch was 1-1/2 hours and the walk was only 15 minutes, there was plenty of time. and I'm betting some boys like I did spend time playing football or going to the park or the local newsagents. If we wanted to play football or other sports, we had no need to leave the school. SteveW |
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