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On Sat, 03 Jun 2017 10:29:32 +0100, Dave Liquorice wrote:
On Sat, 3 Jun 2017 09:25:04 +0100, Brian Gaff wrote: There are different crying types. There is disstress crying and frustration crying. the latter is one of lifes lessons being learned, the other is in need of urgent attention. Agreed, shame that many parents don't seem able to tell the difference and give the child attention at the meerest whimper. Result in a kid that thinks the way to get attention for anything is to wail and if it doesn't work wail harder and longer up to a full blown tantrum. Our two tried the tantrum once possibly twice, we laughed, it didn't work, they gave up on the idea. M'colleague told me there's a way to stop your kid being needy. You completely ignore it crying as a baby and feed it on a schedule. It soon stops waking you up at night. -- Madness takes its toll. Please have exact change ready. |
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On Tue, 20 Jun 2017 19:46:31 +0100, "James Wilkinson Sword"
wrote: On Sat, 03 Jun 2017 10:29:32 +0100, Dave Liquorice wrote: On Sat, 3 Jun 2017 09:25:04 +0100, Brian Gaff wrote: There are different crying types. There is disstress crying and frustration crying. the latter is one of lifes lessons being learned, the other is in need of urgent attention. Agreed, shame that many parents don't seem able to tell the difference and give the child attention at the meerest whimper. Result in a kid that thinks the way to get attention for anything is to wail and if it doesn't work wail harder and longer up to a full blown tantrum. Our two tried the tantrum once possibly twice, we laughed, it didn't work, they gave up on the idea. M'colleague told me there's a way to stop your kid being needy. You completely ignore it crying as a baby and feed it on a schedule. It soon stops waking you up at night. Absolute ********. |
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On Wed, 21 Jun 2017 13:04:39 +0100, Mark wrote:
On Tue, 20 Jun 2017 19:46:31 +0100, "James Wilkinson Sword" wrote: On Sat, 03 Jun 2017 10:29:32 +0100, Dave Liquorice wrote: On Sat, 3 Jun 2017 09:25:04 +0100, Brian Gaff wrote: There are different crying types. There is disstress crying and frustration crying. the latter is one of lifes lessons being learned, the other is in need of urgent attention. Agreed, shame that many parents don't seem able to tell the difference and give the child attention at the meerest whimper. Result in a kid that thinks the way to get attention for anything is to wail and if it doesn't work wail harder and longer up to a full blown tantrum. Our two tried the tantrum once possibly twice, we laughed, it didn't work, they gave up on the idea. M'colleague told me there's a way to stop your kid being needy. You completely ignore it crying as a baby and feed it on a schedule. It soon stops waking you up at night. Absolute ********. No it isn't. When they realise that crying achieves nothing, they stop doing so. -- We've had a hot, dry summer this year. It was so hot that one of my neighbors said his wife even thawed out. |
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On Wed, 21 Jun 2017 15:46:39 +0100, "James Wilkinson Sword"
wrote: On Wed, 21 Jun 2017 13:04:39 +0100, Mark wrote: On Tue, 20 Jun 2017 19:46:31 +0100, "James Wilkinson Sword" wrote: On Sat, 03 Jun 2017 10:29:32 +0100, Dave Liquorice wrote: On Sat, 3 Jun 2017 09:25:04 +0100, Brian Gaff wrote: There are different crying types. There is disstress crying and frustration crying. the latter is one of lifes lessons being learned, the other is in need of urgent attention. Agreed, shame that many parents don't seem able to tell the difference and give the child attention at the meerest whimper. Result in a kid that thinks the way to get attention for anything is to wail and if it doesn't work wail harder and longer up to a full blown tantrum. Our two tried the tantrum once possibly twice, we laughed, it didn't work, they gave up on the idea. M'colleague told me there's a way to stop your kid being needy. You completely ignore it crying as a baby and feed it on a schedule. It soon stops waking you up at night. Absolute ********. No it isn't. When they realise that crying achieves nothing, they stop doing so. No. You seem to delight in your ignorance. |
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On Wed, 21 Jun 2017 16:18:15 +0100, Mark wrote:
On Wed, 21 Jun 2017 15:46:39 +0100, "James Wilkinson Sword" wrote: On Wed, 21 Jun 2017 13:04:39 +0100, Mark wrote: On Tue, 20 Jun 2017 19:46:31 +0100, "James Wilkinson Sword" wrote: On Sat, 03 Jun 2017 10:29:32 +0100, Dave Liquorice wrote: On Sat, 3 Jun 2017 09:25:04 +0100, Brian Gaff wrote: There are different crying types. There is disstress crying and frustration crying. the latter is one of lifes lessons being learned, the other is in need of urgent attention. Agreed, shame that many parents don't seem able to tell the difference and give the child attention at the meerest whimper. Result in a kid that thinks the way to get attention for anything is to wail and if it doesn't work wail harder and longer up to a full blown tantrum. Our two tried the tantrum once possibly twice, we laughed, it didn't work, they gave up on the idea. M'colleague told me there's a way to stop your kid being needy. You completely ignore it crying as a baby and feed it on a schedule. It soon stops waking you up at night. Absolute ********. No it isn't. When they realise that crying achieves nothing, they stop doing so. No. You seem to delight in your ignorance. It's not ignorance when I know it worked for her, her friends, and: https://www.reddit.com/r/NoStupidQue...rying_baby_in/ -- Ted Walsh - Horse Racing Commentator - "This is really a lovely horse. I once rode her mother." |
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On Wed, 21 Jun 2017 16:18:15 +0100, Mark wrote:
There are different crying types. There is disstress crying and frustration crying. the latter is one of lifes lessons being learned, the other is in need of urgent attention. Agreed, shame that many parents don't seem able to tell the difference and give the child attention at the meerest whimper. Result in a kid that thinks the way to get attention for anything is to wail and if it doesn't work wail harder and longer up to a full blown tantrum. Our two tried the tantrum once possibly twice, we laughed, it didn't work, they gave up on the idea. M'colleague told me there's a way to stop your kid being needy. You completely ignore it crying as a baby and feed it on a schedule. It soon stops waking you up at night. Ours got fed on demand but we made sure that the demand cry was a real "I'm hungry" cry based partially by how long since the last feed and partially how long that feed took (no bottles here). Absolute ********. No it isn't. When they realise that crying achieves nothing, they stop doing so. No. You seem to delight in your ignorance. I guess you respond to (read reward) your kids for every tiddly whimper they make. Must get through tonnes of cotten wool. -- Cheers Dave. |
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On Wed, 21 Jun 2017 20:24:39 +0100, Dave Liquorice wrote:
On Wed, 21 Jun 2017 16:18:15 +0100, Mark wrote: There are different crying types. There is disstress crying and frustration crying. the latter is one of lifes lessons being learned, the other is in need of urgent attention. Agreed, shame that many parents don't seem able to tell the difference and give the child attention at the meerest whimper. Result in a kid that thinks the way to get attention for anything is to wail and if it doesn't work wail harder and longer up to a full blown tantrum. Our two tried the tantrum once possibly twice, we laughed, it didn't work, they gave up on the idea. M'colleague told me there's a way to stop your kid being needy. You completely ignore it crying as a baby and feed it on a schedule. It soon stops waking you up at night. Ours got fed on demand but we made sure that the demand cry was a real "I'm hungry" cry based partially by how long since the last feed and partially how long that feed took (no bottles here). Absolute ********. No it isn't. When they realise that crying achieves nothing, they stop doing so. No. You seem to delight in your ignorance. I guess you respond to (read reward) your kids for every tiddly whimper they make. Must get through tonnes of cotten wool. I saw a poor kid outside in 27C heat and baking sunshine, no wind, wearing a thick jacket. Some mothers haven't a clue. -- What is the difference between a battery and a woman? A battery has a positive side. |
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On Wednesday, 21 June 2017 15:46:43 UTC+1, James Wilkinson Sword wrote:
On Wed, 21 Jun 2017 13:04:39 +0100, Mark wrote: On Tue, 20 Jun 2017 19:46:31 +0100, "James Wilkinson Sword" wrote: On Sat, 03 Jun 2017 10:29:32 +0100, Dave Liquorice wrote: On Sat, 3 Jun 2017 09:25:04 +0100, Brian Gaff wrote: There are different crying types. There is disstress crying and frustration crying. the latter is one of lifes lessons being learned, the other is in need of urgent attention. Agreed, shame that many parents don't seem able to tell the difference and give the child attention at the meerest whimper. Result in a kid that thinks the way to get attention for anything is to wail and if it doesn't work wail harder and longer up to a full blown tantrum. Our two tried the tantrum once possibly twice, we laughed, it didn't work, they gave up on the idea. M'colleague told me there's a way to stop your kid being needy. You completely ignore it crying as a baby and feed it on a schedule. It soon stops waking you up at night. Absolute ********. No it isn't. When they realise that crying achieves nothing, they stop doing so. It depends on the reason for crying if it's for attention and purely for attention then the crying will stop. But the commenst reason(s) are teeth and the resulting tooth ache amonst other things. |
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On Thu, 22 Jun 2017 11:42:23 +0100, whisky-dave wrote:
On Wednesday, 21 June 2017 15:46:43 UTC+1, James Wilkinson Sword wrote: On Wed, 21 Jun 2017 13:04:39 +0100, Mark wrote: On Tue, 20 Jun 2017 19:46:31 +0100, "James Wilkinson Sword" wrote: On Sat, 03 Jun 2017 10:29:32 +0100, Dave Liquorice wrote: On Sat, 3 Jun 2017 09:25:04 +0100, Brian Gaff wrote: There are different crying types. There is disstress crying and frustration crying. the latter is one of lifes lessons being learned, the other is in need of urgent attention. Agreed, shame that many parents don't seem able to tell the difference and give the child attention at the meerest whimper. Result in a kid that thinks the way to get attention for anything is to wail and if it doesn't work wail harder and longer up to a full blown tantrum. Our two tried the tantrum once possibly twice, we laughed, it didn't work, they gave up on the idea. M'colleague told me there's a way to stop your kid being needy. You completely ignore it crying as a baby and feed it on a schedule. It soon stops waking you up at night. Absolute ********. No it isn't. When they realise that crying achieves nothing, they stop doing so. It depends on the reason for crying if it's for attention and purely for attention then the crying will stop. But the commenst reason(s) are teeth and the resulting tooth ache amonst other things. Which cannot be cured with a cuddle. So again, no point in seeing to the baby. -- Why is bra singular and panties plural? |
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On Thursday, 22 June 2017 14:26:07 UTC+1, James Wilkinson Sword wrote:
On Thu, 22 Jun 2017 11:42:23 +0100, whisky-dave wrote: On Wednesday, 21 June 2017 15:46:43 UTC+1, James Wilkinson Sword wrote: On Wed, 21 Jun 2017 13:04:39 +0100, Mark wrote: On Tue, 20 Jun 2017 19:46:31 +0100, "James Wilkinson Sword" wrote: On Sat, 03 Jun 2017 10:29:32 +0100, Dave Liquorice wrote: On Sat, 3 Jun 2017 09:25:04 +0100, Brian Gaff wrote: There are different crying types. There is disstress crying and frustration crying. the latter is one of lifes lessons being learned, the other is in need of urgent attention. Agreed, shame that many parents don't seem able to tell the difference and give the child attention at the meerest whimper. Result in a kid that thinks the way to get attention for anything is to wail and if it doesn't work wail harder and longer up to a full blown tantrum. Our two tried the tantrum once possibly twice, we laughed, it didn't work, they gave up on the idea. M'colleague told me there's a way to stop your kid being needy. You completely ignore it crying as a baby and feed it on a schedule. It soon stops waking you up at night. Absolute ********. No it isn't. When they realise that crying achieves nothing, they stop doing so. It depends on the reason for crying if it's for attention and purely for attention then the crying will stop. But the commenst reason(s) are teeth and the resulting tooth ache amonst other things. Which cannot be cured with a cuddle. So again, no point in seeing to the baby. But it can be cured by the parent or anyone else applying medication and even if there is no medication it's been proved that' kissing it better' can have the placebo effect advantage and the pain or whatever was causing crying stops it. Why is bra singular and panties plural? Panties, knickers and trousers were originally two separte garments that were put on and then joined, it's similar to why we say scissors because it's two scissor crossed and joined to make one tool. |
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