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Compulsive Hoarding....Do You Know Someone LIke This?
I do...many of my fellow friends who have shops overflowing with "good
stuff". In my own case, I see it as a very slippery slope....one great thing after another can follow you home until the doors to the shop won't shut. Sometimes...no many times...you just have to say "No". Your thoughts? TMT http://abcnews.go.com/Health/story?id=2790669&page=1 Medical Mystery: Compulsive Hoarders A Psychological Compulsion to Keep Everything, Even When It Ruins Your Life By CECILE BOUCHARDEAU Jan. 16, 2007- - We are all pack rats to some degree. We hoard, collect and buy more stuff than we have room to store. But what if something in our brains made us incapable of throwing things out? Janie Allocca and Lorraine Brennan both suffer from a psychological disorder called compulsive hoarding -- an urge to hold on to even the most mundane objects, even when they take over their lives. Watch "Primetime: Medical Mysteries" Wednesday at 10 p.m. ET, and go to ABCNEWS.com during the show to diagnose a real medical mystery. Lorraine Brennan has been hoarding for nearly 20 years. She lives in a two-story house in Massachusetts with her father, son and fiancée. Most rooms in the house are cluttered, and some are even unusable. The bedroom-office that she shares with her fiancée is overrun with stuff they tried unsuccessfully to get rid of at a yard sale. Lorraine's purse is bursting with junk mail and receipts. Brennan's hoarding is not only ruining her life, but affecting her entire family. Her son can't bring friends home from school. Brennan and her fiancée have been engaged for eight years, but he hasn't been able to commit to marrying her because of the clutter. 'There's No Place to Sit Down' Many hoarders are also compulsive shoppers. Janie Allocca has accumulated so much stuff that she uses her own house as a storage facility and lives with her mother. "I remember collecting, and keeping, and hoarding things since I can remember," Allocca said. "And now I am just living around the piles and piles I need to get rid of." "I have so much stuff that my house is totally unlivable," she continued. "There's no place to sit down. I can't get to the kitchen. I can't have anyone over for tea even though I have everything for tea. My collecting is taking up the space where I normally would live." There's a fine line between simple clutter and extreme hoarding. Most hoarders, observers say, are physically incapable of throwing things out. They can't live in, or use, rooms like the kitchen for their intended use. They also experience extreme distress from their condition. The Brain of a Hoarder Hoarding is currently considered a subset of obsessive compulsive disorder, but that may soon change. New research is finding that hoarding may be a unique disorder completely separate from OCD. Dr. David Tolin, director of the Anxiety Disorders Center at the Institute of Living in Hartford, Conn., has devoted his career to studying what goes on inside the mind of a hoarder. "At the moment, compulsive hoarding hasn't been fully defined by the psychiatric and psychological communities," he said. "One of the things that we wanted to do was to understand some of the brain mechanisms behind compulsive hoarding." Allocca is part of a study Tolin is conducting to see which parts of a hoarder's brain become active when they are faced with making decisions. She is hooked up to a brain-scan machine and asked to look at pieces of her mail and decide whether she wants them to be thrown out. She then must watch the mail get shredded. At this point, two parts of a hoarder's brain become active. The brain's orbitofrontal cortex is involved in decision making and causes a hoarder to process this experience as a punishing one. At the same time, the hippocampus of a hoarder actively searches for memories about the object. The hoarder tries to remember the object: what it is and why they saved it in the first place. By contrast, people without hoarding problems just don't think about the object that much. 'A Painful and Effortful Process' "What we find is that the brain is acting very, very differently when a person hoards," Tolin said. "When the person is trying to make a decision about what to throw away, it seems that the person who is hoarding, is processing this activity as if it is deeply punishing." "The person who hoards is going through a very, very effortful search of their memory to try to think of as many things as they can about this item before they make the decision," Tolin added. "What this all amounts to then is a painful and effortful process of decision-making, that you and I might take for granted." There is no cure for hoarding, and there is no medication to treat the condition. Right now, cognitive behavioral therapy is the only way to help hoarders make decisions and deal with their emotions. Getting Help In Beth Johnson's "Clutter Workshop" in Hartford, hoarders and clutterers practice throwing out possessions they have grown attached to. Johnson also takes her clients on nonshopping -- or nonacquiring -- trips to teach them not to buy things they don't need. "I try to help them see the larger picture and how this item won't fit into their life," said Johnson. "If you have a jam-packed house, if you're adding to it on a weekly or daily basis, you're basically defeating yourself." Dr. Randy Frost, a professor of psychology at Smith College in Massachussetts, focuses on helping hoarders make their homes clutter-free. "One of the things we know about hoarding is that the beliefs people have about their possessions are so powerful, that it's very difficult for them to get out of this behavior," said Frost, who is also author of the upcoming book "Buried in Treasures." "If the person throws something away and experiences distress, and does it again and again, eventually, they won't have that extreme emotional response, throwing something away." Frost held a one-on-one session with Brennan to see if he could help her. After a few hours, she was able to throw away receipts and a few pieces of junk, but, as with most hoarders, there is still a long road ahead. One major motivator for Brennan is the possibility of losing her fiancée if she doesn't clean up her home. When asked if she thought he would really leave, Lorraine said, "I don't want to find out. I don't want to end my relationship. I want to do better. I want to make it work. I don't want to live like this anymore. I really don't." Dr. David Tolin and Professor Randy Frost are co-authors of a self-help book called "Buried in Treasures," to be published on February 5th. |