If you were a victim of child molestation and told your family about
it, yet your family is still close to, friends with, or acquainted with
your molester then I would like to hear your story. I am writing a
book on how this continually affects you and how you can make it right
and I might want to include your story in my book. The reason I am
writing this book is because I was molested by my father and my family
chose the 'let's pretend it never happened' approach. I spent endless
holidays, as an adult, alone because my family refused to stand up for
what was right. It's strange because I know if the roles were reversed,
and they had been molested, they would demand that he be hung from the
nearest tree. But they tell me to 'just put it behind you', as if that
were possible. I went through years of hurt and anger with my family
before I learned how to make it right for me. Anyway, that's my story
and my book (I believe) will help others deal with this very issue.
Your story will help them know that they are not alone. Please take as
many words as necessary to tell your story. Tell me how this persons
continued presence in your life makes you feel, who in your family
disregards your feelings by allowing the person to be around or by
bringing them up in your presence, what steps you have taken to try to
stop your family from doing this to you, was there a specific holiday
or event where this persons presence affected you, etc. Do not include
any details about being molested or anything like that, this is about
your interaction with your family. Your story will be anonymous if you
want it to be or if you don't you can include any portion of your or
any name you wish. E-mail it to me (do not send it as an attachment as
I will not open attachments). Write your story in the body of the
e-mail. You can write it elsewhere and then copy and paste it into the
body of the e-mail. Send it to . By
sending me your story you are giving me permission to use it in my
book. Yes, it is my goal to get this book published. However, if you
can write your own story and get it published I urge you to do so. The
more attention we bring to this issue the better. The child molesters
and the people who befriend child molesters do not want you to tell
your story because your silence justifies their actions. Imagine how
the world would see them if their secret were exposed? If we keep
silent, then they win. Raise your voice; make a difference. If you have
any questions just e-mail me at the address above. Thank you.

On 17 Oct 2006 07:57:20 -0700, Michele B. wrote:

If you were a victim of child molestation

Your post wouyld have been on topic if it were about masturbation. As it
is, it doesn't belong in uk.d-i-y.

Michele B. wrote:
If you were a victim of child molestation and told your family about
it, yet your family is still close to, friends with, or acquainted
with your molester then I would like to hear your story. I am
writing a book on how this continually affects you and how you can
make it right and I might want to include your story in my book. The
reason I am writing this book is because I was molested by my father
and my family chose the 'let's pretend it never happened' approach.
I spent endless holidays, as an adult, alone because my family
refused to stand up for what was right. It's strange because I know
if the roles were reversed, and they had been molested, they would
demand that he be hung from the nearest tree. But they tell me to
'just put it behind you', as if that were possible. I went through
years of hurt and anger with my family before I learned how to make
it right for me. Anyway, that's my story and my book (I believe)
will help others deal with this very issue. Your story will help them
know that they are not alone. Please take as many words as necessary
to tell your story. Tell me how this persons continued presence in
your life makes you feel, who in your family disregards your feelings
by allowing the person to be around or by bringing them up in your
presence, what steps you have taken to try to stop your family from
doing this to you, was there a specific holiday or event where this
persons presence affected you, etc. Do not include any details about
being molested or anything like that, this is about your interaction
with your family. Your story will be anonymous if you want it to be
or if you don't you can include any portion of your or any name you
wish. E-mail it to me (do not send it as an attachment as I will not
open attachments). Write your story in the body of the e-mail. You
can write it elsewhere and then copy and paste it into the body of
the e-mail. Send it to . By sending me
your story you are giving me permission to use it in my book. Yes,
it is my goal to get this book published. However, if you can write
your own story and get it published I urge you to do so. The more
attention we bring to this issue the better. The child molesters and
the people who befriend child molesters do not want you to tell your
story because your silence justifies their actions. Imagine how the
world would see them if their secret were exposed? If we keep
silent, then they win. Raise your voice; make a difference. If you
have any questions just e-mail me at the address above. Thank you.

I've been molested by a couple of women in the past...one sat on me chest,I
pretended I couldn't move.

My that was fun.

--
Sir Benjamin Middlethwaite

On 2006-10-17 16:29:04 +0100, "The3rd Earl Of Derby" said:


I've been molested by a couple of women in the past...one sat on me chest,I
pretended I couldn't move.

My that was fun.

Was this the same as laying on your arm until it goes to sleep and then
pretending it's someone else?

Michele B. wrote:
If you were a victim of child molestation and told your family about
it, yet your family is still close to, friends with, or acquainted
with your molester then I would like to hear your story. I am
writing a book on how this continually affects you and how you can
make it right and I might want to include your story in my book. The
reason I am writing this book is because I was molested by my father
and my family chose the 'let's pretend it never happened' approach.
I spent endless holidays, as an adult, alone because my family
refused to stand up for what was right. It's strange because I know
if the roles were reversed, and they had been molested, they would
demand that he be hung from the nearest tree. But they tell me to
'just put it behind you', as if that were possible. I went through
years of hurt and anger with my family before I learned how to make
it right for me. Anyway, that's my story and my book (I believe)
will help others deal with this very issue. Your story will help them
know that they are not alone. Please take as many words as necessary
to tell your story. Tell me how this persons continued presence in
your life makes you feel, who in your family disregards your feelings
by allowing the person to be around or by bringing them up in your
presence, what steps you have taken to try to stop your family from
doing this to you, was there a specific holiday or event where this
persons presence affected you, etc. Do not include any details about
being molested or anything like that, this is about your interaction
with your family. Your story will be anonymous if you want it to be
or if you don't you can include any portion of your or any name you
wish. E-mail it to me (do not send it as an attachment as I will not
open attachments). Write your story in the body of the e-mail. You
can write it elsewhere and then copy and paste it into the body of
the e-mail. Send it to . By sending me
your story you are giving me permission to use it in my book. Yes,
it is my goal to get this book published. However, if you can write
your own story and get it published I urge you to do so. The more
attention we bring to this issue the better. The child molesters and
the people who befriend child molesters do not want you to tell your
story because your silence justifies their actions. Imagine how the
world would see them if their secret were exposed? If we keep
silent, then they win. Raise your voice; make a difference. If you
have any questions just e-mail me at the address above. Thank you.

**** off you stupid bitch.

In article . com,
Michele B. wrote:
If you were a victim of child molestation and told your family about
it, yet your family is still close to, friends with, or acquainted with
your molester then I would like to hear your story.

Pervert. Go and find your own kicks.

--
*If you try to fail and succeed, which have you done? *

Dave Plowman London SW
To e-mail, change noise into sound.

In message . com,
Michele B. writes
If you were a victim of child molestation and told your family about
it, yet your family is still close to, friends with, or acquainted with
your molester then I would like to hear your story. I am writing a
book on how this continually affects you and how you can make it right
and I might want to include your story in my book. The reason I am
writing this book is because I was molested by my father

Was it good ?

Did you TIUTA ?


And do you DIY it now ?


--
geoff

raden wrote:

In message . com,
Michele B. writes

If you were a victim of child molestation and told your family about
it, yet your family is still close to, friends with, or acquainted with
your molester then I would like to hear your story. I am writing a
book on how this continually affects you and how you can make it right
and I might want to include your story in my book. The reason I am
writing this book is because I was molested by my father


Was it good ?

Did you TIUTA ?


And do you DIY it now ?


Geoff, my father was a pedo.

He had a love of young girls. He told me that he never took advantage of
our daughter and she agrees with that.

However, I had to cut him out of my life for what he did. he got
arrested. The first time, I said that he had made a mistake and he was
welcome to visit my house.

The second time, I thought that he should have learned his lesson and
could be accepted back into the family.

The third time, I had to cut him out of out life. Pedo's never change.

He died 4 years ago, on his own.

Dave

In message , Dave
writes
raden wrote:

In message . com,
Michele B. writes

If you were a victim of child molestation and told your family about
it, yet your family is still close to, friends with, or acquainted with
your molester then I would like to hear your story. I am writing a
book on how this continually affects you and how you can make it right
and I might want to include your story in my book. The reason I am
writing this book is because I was molested by my father
Was it good ?
Did you TIUTA ?
And do you DIY it now ?


Geoff, my father was a pedo.
He had a love of young girls. He told me that he never took advantage
of our daughter and she agrees with that.
However, I had to cut him out of my life for what he did. he got
arrested. The first time, I said that he had made a mistake and he was
welcome to visit my house.
The second time, I thought that he should have learned his lesson and
could be accepted back into the family.
The third time, I had to cut him out of out life. Pedo's never change.
He died 4 years ago, on his own.


The relevance to uk.d-i-y being ?

Any sympathies I might have don't extend to it's being posted here

--
geoff

raden wrote:
In message , Dave
writes

raden wrote:

In message . com,
Michele B. writes

If you were a victim of child molestation and told your family about
it, yet your family is still close to, friends with, or acquainted with
your molester then I would like to hear your story. I am writing a
book on how this continually affects you and how you can make it right
and I might want to include your story in my book. The reason I am
writing this book is because I was molested by my father

Was it good ?
Did you TIUTA ?
And do you DIY it now ?



Geoff, my father was a pedo.
He had a love of young girls. He told me that he never took advantage
of our daughter and she agrees with that.
However, I had to cut him out of my life for what he did. he got
arrested. The first time, I said that he had made a mistake and he was
welcome to visit my house.
The second time, I thought that he should have learned his lesson and
could be accepted back into the family.
The third time, I had to cut him out of out life. Pedo's never change.
He died 4 years ago, on his own.


The relevance to uk.d-i-y being ?

Any sympathies I might have don't extend to it's being posted here

The original poster's name does not appear above, but my comments were
directed at Michele B. As it was written...

was it good ?
Did you TIUTA ?
And do you DIY it now.

I thought that it was not very nice to post that on a DIY group, it
trivialized the subject.

Regards

Dave

I love kids, but I couldn't eat a full one.

In message , Dave
writes
raden wrote:
In message , Dave
writes

raden wrote:

In message . com,
Michele B. writes

If you were a victim of child molestation and told your family about
it, yet your family is still close to, friends with, or acquainted with
your molester then I would like to hear your story. I am writing a
book on how this continually affects you and how you can make it right
and I might want to include your story in my book. The reason I am
writing this book is because I was molested by my father

Was it good ?
Did you TIUTA ?
And do you DIY it now ?



Geoff, my father was a pedo.
He had a love of young girls. He told me that he never took
advantage of our daughter and she agrees with that.
However, I had to cut him out of my life for what he did. he got
arrested. The first time, I said that he had made a mistake and he
was welcome to visit my house.
The second time, I thought that he should have learned his lesson
and could be accepted back into the family.
The third time, I had to cut him out of out life. Pedo's never change.
He died 4 years ago, on his own.

The relevance to uk.d-i-y being ?
Any sympathies I might have don't extend to it's being posted here

The original poster's name does not appear above, but my comments were
directed at Michele B. As it was written...

was it good ?
Did you TIUTA ?
And do you DIY it now.

I thought that it was not very nice to post that on a DIY group, it
trivialized the subject.

It's spam, I reserve the right to be abusive

--
geoff

raden wrote:
Michele B. writes

If you were a victim of child molestation and told your family about
it, yet your family is still close to, friends with, or acquainted with
your molester then I would like to hear your story. I am writing a
book on how this continually affects you and how you can make it right
and I might want to include your story in my book. The reason I am
writing this book is because I was molested by my father

It's spam, I reserve the right to be abusive


Is it selling something commercial?

Uk.d-i-y may be relevant because we have a range of tools for dealing
with such situations.

I just think its sad that in 2006 schoolkids still arent routinely
taught all the resources that exist for them to find help, it really
speaks badly of our school system.


NT

raden wrote:

In message , Dave
writes

raden wrote:

In message , Dave
writes

raden wrote:

In message . com,
Michele B. writes

If you were a victim of child molestation and told your family about
it, yet your family is still close to, friends with, or acquainted
with
your molester then I would like to hear your story. I am writing a
book on how this continually affects you and how you can make it
right
and I might want to include your story in my book. The reason I am
writing this book is because I was molested by my father


Was it good ?
Did you TIUTA ?
And do you DIY it now ?




Geoff, my father was a pedo.
He had a love of young girls. He told me that he never took
advantage of our daughter and she agrees with that.
However, I had to cut him out of my life for what he did. he got
arrested. The first time, I said that he had made a mistake and he
was welcome to visit my house.
The second time, I thought that he should have learned his lesson
and could be accepted back into the family.
The third time, I had to cut him out of out life. Pedo's never change.
He died 4 years ago, on his own.

The relevance to uk.d-i-y being ?
Any sympathies I might have don't extend to it's being posted here

The original poster's name does not appear above, but my comments were
directed at Michele B. As it was written...

was it good ?
Did you TIUTA ?
And do you DIY it now.

I thought that it was not very nice to post that on a DIY group, it
trivialized the subject.

It's spam, I reserve the right to be abusive

That is fine by me. I am an adult. We adults can take this 'spam'

Regards

Dave

wrote:

raden wrote:

Michele B. writes


If you were a victim of child molestation and told your family about
it, yet your family is still close to, friends with, or acquainted with
your molester then I would like to hear your story. I am writing a
book on how this continually affects you and how you can make it right
and I might want to include your story in my book. The reason I am
writing this book is because I was molested by my father


It's spam, I reserve the right to be abusive



Is it selling something commercial?

Uk.d-i-y may be relevant because we have a range of tools for dealing
with such situations.

I just think its sad that in 2006 schoolkids still arent routinely
taught all the resources that exist for them to find help, it really
speaks badly of our school system.

Funny that you should say that.

I have a part time job in a primary school and the crap they teach has
to be seen to believed.

I have worked with all sorts of religions. I know about Ramadan, the
right to wear a turban and bangles, that the Muslims must face Mecca
when they prey, but I was never taught about Diwali, the festival of
light. Now WTF has that got to do with a 'Christian' life.

Dave

Jack Straw was right.

Pull down the curtains

On Oct 19, 12:04 am, Dave wrote:
wrote:
raden wrote:

Michele B. writes

If you were a victim of child molestation and told your family about
it, yet your family is still close to, friends with, or acquainted with
your molester then I would like to hear your story. I am writing a
book on how this continually affects you and how you can make it right
and I might want to include your story in my book. The reason I am
writing this book is because I was molested by my father

It's spam, I reserve the right to be abusive

Is it selling something commercial?

Uk.d-i-y may be relevant because we have a range of tools for dealing
with such situations.

I just think its sad that in 2006 schoolkids still arent routinely
taught all the resources that exist for them to find help, it really
speaks badly of our school system.Funny that you should say that.

I have a part time job in a primary school and the crap they teach has
to be seen to believed.

I have worked with all sorts of religions. I know about Ramadan, the
right to wear a turban and bangles, that the Muslims must face Mecca
when they prey, but I was never taught about Diwali, the festival of
light. Now WTF has that got to do with a 'Christian' life.

Do they have "Brain Gym" in your school. WTF has that got to do with
education or science? Ben Goldacres articles in the Grauniad were very
interesting.

MBQ

Dave wrote:

The original poster's name does not appear above, but my comments were
directed at Michele B. As it was written...

was it good ?
Did you TIUTA ?
And do you DIY it now.

I thought that it was not very nice to post that on a DIY group, it
trivialized the subject.


While I cannot back this with evidence, I do not feel the subject
would have been trivialised by any regulars here (with the obvious
exception) if there was even the slightest chance of the OP being
genuine.

Researching a book about a sensitive subject from a Hotmail account
via Google groups on Usenet? You must be joking. Anyone who replied
would, at best, find that Michelle just happened to know, from her
own experience of course, a *really* good child-abuse lawyer and
recovered memory specialist. At worst...