On 15/04/2021 07:26, Brian Gaff (Sofa) wrote:
Without reading the thread, I think the top is where the leaves were and the
tail is the pointy end which can be quite hard as well.

I'm with you Brian.

The top is obviously the bit at the top when it is growing; the little
bit at the other end I supposed does look slightly like a tail.

NY good luck with the divorce

Andy