On Monday, March 20, 2017 at 10:21:43 PM UTC-4, wrote:
On Monday, March 20, 2017 at 8:12:30 PM UTC-4, wrote:


That's what I mean. You look at Gunner, a lying, slandering jerk, and you find comfort there.

Ed, stop acting like an idiot.

I think the one behaving like an idiot here is you, Dan.

I don't find any comfort from Gunner.

Of course you do. You identify with something about him, or you wouldn't defend such an insulting, chronic liar. It's not possible that you think he is just pulling people's legs -- unless, as I said earlier, that you read selectively and ignore the reprehensible pattern of "brag and lie" that he uses as a way to put others down to his level.

] am just not emotionally involved.

If you weren't, you wouldn't be involved in this thread.

In Gunner I see someone that does not always tell the truth. You see this as a lying slandering jerk, while I see it as someone poking people with the verbal equivalent of a sharp stick.

Lies are not "poking." Lies are lies. When they're employed to insult or abuse someone else, they take on a special character.


I do not understand why people get worked up over Gunner.

Because he uses them to insult and belittle others. You certainly seem to be worked up, or you wouldn't be engaging the subject in your rather long list of posts.

He is what he is, and there is not much that I can do about it. And also not much that you can do about it. So I just accept it and you get worked up over it. There are lots better things to get emotional about.

Dan

You aren't the subject of his insults. I don't accept them.


Either you can't see what's going on, or that's your tribe.


I can see what is going on. Gunner is poking you and you are getting upset.

Then you don't see what's going on.

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Ed Huntress


I do not have a tribe. Who wrote the book about inner directed people, outer directed people and traditional directed people? Anyway I am pretty much inner directed or maybe tradition directed. But in either case not tribal.

Dan
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Ed Huntress