On 15/01/2015 13:08, The Natural Philosopher wrote:

And why 'mutual respect' only works if both parties agree to do it.

Frankly, if someone hates me, tries to take everything I have, and
enforces a code of conduct on me that I think is insane and will make my
life nasty, brutish and short,

Where do you get this notion from? Who, apart from the government, is
forcing a code of conduct on you?

If this is just xenophobia on your part, it's pretty close to paranoia.