On Fri, 02 Mar 2012 17:50:21 -0700, wrote:

On Tue, 28 Feb 2012 20:51:30 -0600, Don Foreman
wrote:


I'm busy grieving.

I get that all this written moaning might somehow be cathartic but now
you're making a career out of it. Past a certain point dwelling on
grief is stupid. Responders here or anywhere who buy into it and feed
it aren't doing you any favors. Man up already for Christ's sake Don. \\'

That isn't how spouse loss grief works for either men or women.
Denial doesn't work, Grief needs to be done and it takes as long as
it takes. Dealing with and processing the grief requires facing the
pain and dlealing with it. Denial and/or advoidance is not "manning
up" , it's 's cowadlryl avioidance by denial.

Tough **** if reading about it is more than you can cope with. You
can simply stop reading.