Although Older folks may have more woodworking experience, younger gay
males may have an artistic flair and atention to detail that would
allow for equally good results. Espeacially with the more delicate
projects - thinking filigre work here.

And, of course, the grandparents raised at least one crackhead and the
court might have considered that "tracks record" a significant
negative.

I would hope the grandparents would share their shop and tools when
asked so as to assure the woodworking goes as well as can be expected.

Better to spend money on a Foley Belsaw, for instance, than legal
fees. Maybe a new lathe and some primo turning tools?