In message , "dennis@home"
writes

That is why many ex-smokers are so unsympathetic, they see the losers
for what they were and despise them.

Naaah, I don't despise them I just can't stand being near the stench and
am horrified that I used to smell like that & wonder how other people
could have put up with being near me.

--
Si

12) The Second Rule of Expectations
An EXPECTATION is a Premeditated resentment.