On Mon, 18 Jun 2007 02:26:15 -0000, Pat
wrote:


You also need to breath deep and realize that this isn't emotional.
It's just a real estate transaction.

That's true, and he's moving agalin anyhow in what was it, 5 or 10
years. So no matter how bad it is, it's not forever.

Still, it's good to practice doing this right to be better able to
wage war, or peace as the case may be, the next time he buys a house.

With all the problems and confusion that there is here, among people
who have experience in these matters, many of whom have college
degrees and parents who owned their own homes etc. etc., just imagine
what it is like for someone who never had any legal or financial
experience, who has a job that pays well enough to buy a house, but
who's the first in his family to own his own home, etc. He must
really feel chewed up and spit out after one of these experiences.