I managed to get it to work like this.

but i still have a 4" piece of black wire that was connected somehow in
this mess

+-----------+
H---------| Ballast |-----blk--------+
N---------| |-----blk---+ |
+-----------+ | |
| |
+--------------+ | |
+--blk-----|- Tube ( |-blk-+ |
| +-blu-|- -|-blu-+ |
| | +--------------+ | |
| | | |
| | +--------------+ | |
| +-blu| Starter |-blu-+ |
+--blk ---| switch |-blk-------+
+--------------+