My solution is to tell her "sure honey, I can do it". Then take a week, and
make all kinds of excuses why it isn't done. She'll get so ****ed that
she'll never again insist on doing it her way.

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Never mind I googled it. Better nip this "must be obeyed" in the bud.
My rule is if she doesn't help, she aint telling me how to do it - I
don't tell her how to to cook so she's not telling me how to renovate.