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On Wed, 05 May 2004 14:22:56 -0500, Richard J Kinch
wrote: And all this over ART GLASS? Puh-leeze. Your extravagant and non- productive hobby does not deserve anyone's attention or sympathy. Geese. And I though Ed Huntress was an arrogant ass at times..... looks like you beat him to Best of Class. Gunner "A vote for Kerry is a de facto vote for bin Laden." Strider |
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Harold & Susan Vordos writes:
She is having a hard time understanding your position. What makes your interests more important than hers? My interests are not important at all. I'm sure your wife is a fine and virtuous woman. I have no disdain, only respect, for both of you and your hobbies. Collecting useless stuff is a fine hobby. Most of us have one or more such pursuits. But your error is in pursuing your dispute at law, out of vengence, or "the principle of the thing". Based on your description of the situation, you have no reasonable hope of any economic recovery. All you can do is harass the crook in an attempt to get even by inflicting harm on him, not that it will do you any good. You are clinging to and cherising this injustice. If you are honestly self-interested, you will forget all this and move on. What I do disdain is getting all uppity-righteous over silly possesions like "art glass". Look, there's nothing wrong with collecting it, but fer cryin out loud, is IT WORTH THE LEAST UPSET IN YOUR LIFE? NO. I assume you'd feel the same way if a deal in which you had a real interest had a similar outcome? If you bought, for example, a lathe that was represented as new, but came to you a rusted piece of junk, it's just a crummy lathe? Yes, I would *feel* the same way. But I would hope that I would follow the principles that I have learned over the years, that in civil disputes, one must coldly assess the economic return from going to law for a recovery. Usually when one is cheated, the scale is too small to be worth legal action. Or the adversary is too well defended. The rational man forgets it and moves on. The hot-tempered man swears vengeance at any civil cost as you have done. Frankly, I'm surprised at you, Richard. This is about unscrupulous people screwing other people, not about art glass. I gather from your comments that it would matter only if it involved you and your interests. No, you misunderstand. Learn to major in the majors and minor in the minors. In life's scheme, this is a minor, and you should drop it. Otherwise, you are straining at gnats. Unhealthy, and unhappy. |
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In the middle of a conversation with store owner and with a store full of patrons, he says in a rather loud voice "I hear that you like to swindle people on eBay. Do you do that here in your store too?" This could amount to a criminal act of slander. All based on a breezy newsgroup discussion that omits the other side. Why would you as a stranger get involved in this man's quarrel, over a chintzy collectible of all things? |
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Harold & Susan Vordos writes:
I'm going to make their life as uncomfortable as I possibly can by asking people that frequent eBay to boycott them. I'm going to hit them exactly when it hurts, when they offer their next lot of live auctions. It will be impossible for buyers to miss or ignore, and it will cost less than $5 to pull off. Very bad idea. This can do you no possible good, and invites great harm. Only very bad judgment, or neurosis, could account for such action. |
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My experience has been that only American Express will go to bat for the cardholder. Amex apparently considers the cardholder as their customer. MC/Visa will reverse a charge, but it takes more than a bloody glove to make it stick. When it's your word against the business (who pays MC/visa) you will lose. For MC/Visa, the business owner is their customer, and money trumps fair play every time. I have a USAA issued Mastercard, and was once screwed by a seller via Paypal. I was attempting to purchase a TiVo upgrade as a gift for my brother, and after a whole lot of research decided to go with some guy by the name of "PVRJoe" who seemed to have nothing but good reviews, both on eBay and in various Usenet groups. Despite that, I got screwed. An order was made (not through eBay), payment was issued, and then all went silent. I attempted contact via telephone and e-mail but got nothing. I called the credit card company to file a chargeback, to which they said I should go through Paypal's system first, and so I did. Paypal, of course, did nothing. They "ruled in my favor" but said they couldn't collect. Called back the credit card company, they sent me a form to fill out about what happened. Sent it back, and a short while later was refunded my money. It was the least hassle of the entire situation, actually. Papal then sent me a nasty letter saying I should have used their complaint system first (which as I stated I had already done) and then threatened to cancel my account. Which would suit me fine, as I've experienced nothing but misery from their services. In this case, it wasn't my word against the guy who got my money. It was my word against Paypal's, and yet I still was refunded the money ($250) I spent. So I don't think it's fair to say that only American Express will be on the side of the cardholder. In the end, it's more about the bank that issues the card. USAA will most definitely take your side in these matters. And really, the card company gets their money either way since they take a chunk of the transaction every time it happens. In some cases they take a percent of the sale as well as the chargeback, which basically means the vendor pays them twice and gets nothing. |
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"DoN. Nichols" wrote in message ... snip---- http://cgi.ebay.com/ws/eBayISAPI.dll...sPageName= AD ME:B:EOAB:US:6 It looks as though the images are still present. I find some things interesting he 1) Looking at the bid history, I see only one live bid from the auction floor, but based on the amount that person bid, it was either someone who had not checked it out carefully enough, or someone who did not know the field. 2) A very interesting response to your complaint: ================================================== ==================== Fraudulent misrepresentation of item. Contact for full details. Buyer vordoinwa( 101) Mar-24-04 22:44 2218187309 Reply by myersfineart: Accurate representation of item Offered full refund & buyer declined. Oh well Mar-27-04 08:56 ================================================== ==================== Based on that, you were offered a chance to return it for a refund and you turned it down. However, you told us that you were refused a refund. I think that if you have the e-mails saved, you have some extra evidence of misrepresentation, here. Best of luck, DoN. Yep! Everything saved except for Susan's original inquiry as to the condition, but we have the response that says it is in good condition with no repairs or other anomalies. When they called, Susan was told they would make a refund on the purchase price, but not the shipping. One way was $31, so sending it back meant a loss of over $50 for something that was not represented honestly. When I talked to Mary, I told her that because they didn't disclose the repair, they were obligated to make full restitution. We would not have bid had we known of the repair. She informed me that she was under no obligation to disclose it because it wasn't a repair, something only a fool would have believed. The conversation got somewhat up tempo, and was terminated. Minutes later we received a call from Michael in which he said that he would not take the piece back under any circumstances, which was my reward for not agreeing with them that the repair was an inclusion. They have exaggerated pretty much the entire thing, attempting to make me look like the problem, including altering the photograph of the damaged area in question. That's one reason I'd love to get this thing before a judge. Too damned bad this country is so hell bent on defending crooks at the expense of honest folks. Thanks, DoN. Harold |
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"Richard J Kinch" wrote in message .. . Harold & Susan Vordos writes: I'm going to make their life as uncomfortable as I possibly can by asking people that frequent eBay to boycott them. I'm going to hit them exactly when it hurts, when they offer their next lot of live auctions. It will be impossible for buyers to miss or ignore, and it will cost less than $5 to pull off. Very bad idea. This can do you no possible good, and invites great harm. Only very bad judgment, or neurosis, could account for such action. That would be me! Neurosis. I don't seem to be able to come to terms with thieves, liars and other vermin. What are they going to do to me, stop me from using eBay? Wow! Now there's a loss. What ever would I do? Where else can I go to get screwed out of hard earned money? I gather you feel that losing my "rights" to following eBay is worth a great deal to me. Certainly more important than the $1240 dollars my wife is out. Did I mention we live on SS? Did I mention that amount of money represents 1/12th of our income? Maybe to you a thousand dollar screwing is insignificant. To us, it's a different matter. We worked for our money, Richard, it was not a gift to us. Did I mention that I was never unemployed one day of my life once I started working after high school? Did I mention I have never drawn so much as one thin dime of unemployment pay? Did I mention that I worked 60 hour weeks routinely, because that's what honest people do that want to get ahead and don't have an education from which they can leverage their income. I'm at a loss to understand why you feel it's better forgotten. No possible good? If I can prevent even one person from paying too much for a piece of junk from these people, please tell me how it can do no possible good? My intention is to cause great harm. To their dishonest business. If they think they can skin us and escape unscathed, I'll see to it that it costs them as much as possible. I can do that by telling the truth. They can't prosecute me for telling the truth, no matter how much it harms their business, and that's exactly what I intend to do. It's not a good idea to get crosswise with people like me, and I doubt I'm alone. There is a very decent man that lurks on the list that is an attorney, and he is advising me. I believe I'd be inclined to follow his recommendations at this point. Out of respect for his choice to remain anonymous, I shall not disclose his name,. but he knows who he is. He informed me that he never posts, prefers to not get into ****ing contests with idiots. Smart man! Harold |
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On Wed, 5 May 2004 22:48:07 -0700, "Harold & Susan Vordos"
shouted from the rooftop: "DoN. Nichols" wrote in message ... 2) A very interesting response to your complaint: ================================================== ==================== Fraudulent misrepresentation of item. Contact for full details. Buyer vordoinwa( 101) Mar-24-04 22:44 2218187309 Reply by myersfineart: Accurate representation of item Offered full refund & buyer declined. Oh well Mar-27-04 08:56 ================================================== ==================== Based on that, you were offered a chance to return it for a refund and you turned it down. However, you told us that you were refused a refund. I think that if you have the e-mails saved, you have some extra evidence of misrepresentation, here. When they called, Susan was told they would make a refund on the purchase price, but not the shipping. One way was $31, so sending it back meant a loss of over $50 for something that was not represented honestly. You should have taken the refund minus the shipping and chalked up the $81 difference to experience. I'm not on the sellers side, but they now have a good argument against you. -Carl "An honest man doesn't need a long memory"- Jesse Ventura |
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In article , Richard J Kinch
says... What I do disdain is getting all uppity-righteous over silly possesions like "art glass". Hmm. Does this apply to other purchases as well? For example, if I were to purchase a honda civic and there were a warranty issue with it, I would expect the dealer to make good on it. But what if I were to purchase a Lexus or a Mercedes? It almost sounds as though you would advocate eating the repair costs myself, simply becuause the extra cost of the fancier car is just a silly luxury item. The UCC does not make distinctions based on the catagory of the purchase. Luxury vs essential. Where do you draw the line? Food? Clothing? What's the clip level above (or below, depending on your perspective) where complete honesty is required of a seller? What if he had bought a camera? A bicycle? An antique chair? A car? Jim ================================================== please reply to: JRR(zero) at yktvmv (dot) vnet (dot) ibm (dot) com ================================================== |
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"Richard J Kinch" wrote in message .. . Harold & Susan Vordos writes: She is having a hard time understanding your position. What makes your interests more important than hers? My interests are not important at all. I'm sure your wife is a fine and virtuous woman. I have no disdain, only respect, for both of you and your hobbies. Collecting useless stuff is a fine hobby. Most of us have one or more such pursuits. But your error is in pursuing your dispute at law, out of vengence, or "the principle of the thing". Based on your description of the situation, you have no reasonable hope of any economic recovery. All you can do is harass the crook in an attempt to get even by inflicting harm on him, not that it will do you any good. You are clinging to and cherising this injustice. If you are honestly self-interested, you will forget all this and move on. What I do disdain is getting all uppity-righteous over silly possesions like "art glass". Look, there's nothing wrong with collecting it, but fer cryin out loud, is IT WORTH THE LEAST UPSET IN YOUR LIFE? NO. I assume you'd feel the same way if a deal in which you had a real interest had a similar outcome? If you bought, for example, a lathe that was represented as new, but came to you a rusted piece of junk, it's just a crummy lathe? Yes, I would *feel* the same way. But I would hope that I would follow the principles that I have learned over the years, that in civil disputes, one must coldly assess the economic return from going to law for a recovery. Usually when one is cheated, the scale is too small to be worth legal action. Or the adversary is too well defended. The rational man forgets it and moves on. The hot-tempered man swears vengeance at any civil cost as you have done. Frankly, I'm surprised at you, Richard. This is about unscrupulous people screwing other people, not about art glass. I gather from your comments that it would matter only if it involved you and your interests. No, you misunderstand. Learn to major in the majors and minor in the minors. In life's scheme, this is a minor, and you should drop it. Otherwise, you are straining at gnats. Unhealthy, and unhappy. I recently had an insurance company attempt to cheat me on a damage claim to my home. They wanted to pay me $700, which was unacceptable considering the damage, and after I'd been paying their premiums for many years with nary a claim.. Before I took it to small claims court, I paid $25.00 to have a subpoena issued against the representative of the ins. company that was located in an adjacent state. They had to hire a local lawyer to show up in court, after unsuccessfully attempting to "quash" the subpoena. I had several more independent appraisals done of the damage and stayed on top of the situation and generally made their life miserable. We settled before the next small claims court appearance for $4,000. I was out about $50.00 for the fees for issuance of two seperate subpoenas and some of my time on my days off to be there when the home repair estimators showed up. Harold, you might think about getting some accurate appraisals of the worth of this item in it's present flawed condition and going this route. In my state $4,000 is the limit in small claims court, so I did pretty well. And, Kinch, there aren't any "major and minors". If you get blatantly screwed, no matter what it concerns, you don't roll over for it. The rational man makes every effort to remedy the situation. You can believe that my adversary was well defended. Sic 'em, Harold. Garrett Fulton -----= Posted via Newsfeeds.Com, Uncensored Usenet News =----- http://www.newsfeeds.com - The #1 Newsgroup Service in the World! -----== Over 100,000 Newsgroups - 19 Different Servers! =----- |
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In article , Garrett Fulton says...
I recently had an insurance company attempt to cheat me on a damage claim to my home. They wanted to pay me $700, which was unacceptable considering the damage, and after I'd been paying their premiums for many years with nary a claim.. Before I took it to small claims court, I paid $25.00 to have a subpoena issued against the representative of the ins. company that was located in an adjacent state. They had to hire a local lawyer to show up in court, after unsuccessfully attempting to "quash" the subpoena. I had several more independent appraisals done of the damage and stayed on top of the situation and generally made their life miserable. ... Great story - but I would comment that even though you did "win" they are still your insurance company. No doubt after the dust settled, they probably dropped your coverage. And included a not in your file (which you could not see) to the effect that 'insured is recalcitrant and sticks up for himself. Suggest that any other insurance company stay away from him!' Insurance companies. Don't get me started.... Jim ================================================== please reply to: JRR(zero) at yktvmv (dot) vnet (dot) ibm (dot) com ================================================== |
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Tom wrote:
" Not a good scenario, Harold. I know it's hindsight, but I'm surprised that nobody has mentioned using eBay's Escrow service when buying expensive items:" EBay's Escrow service? Yeah, right! Hey, that'll work - just send in another fox to guard the hen house! Bob (like a rabbit, doesn't trust anything that may be a dog) Swinney "Tom" wrote in message ... Harold & Susan Vordos wrote: Susan has had a recent very unhappy experience with a seller on eBay. Big snip Many thanks, Harold http://pages.ebay.com/help/community/escrow.html Tom |
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jim rozen writes:
The UCC does not make distinctions based on the catagory of the purchase. Luxury vs essential. Where do you draw the line? There is no "line". Google "fallacy of the beard", 5990 hits. But vengence over this tchotchke, that's gotta be over some line. |
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Garrett Fulton writes:
And, Kinch, there aren't any "major and minors". If you get blatantly screwed, no matter what it concerns, you don't roll over for it. "No matter what"? So your threshold for lawsuits is zero? You were right to chase the insurance co. But you had prospects of winning something above the costs of litigating. In this case, there is none. |
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"Richard J Kinch" wrote in message . .. Lane writes: In the middle of a conversation with store owner and with a store full of patrons, he says in a rather loud voice "I hear that you like to swindle people on eBay. Do you do that here in your store too?" This could amount to a criminal act of slander. All based on a breezy newsgroup discussion that omits the other side. Why would you as a stranger get involved in this man's quarrel, over a chintzy collectible of all things? You are correct. I wouldn't. But I believe that others would (present company excepted). It was only a whimsical speculation. grin BTW Richard, I caught your web page about making your own seltzer water etc. Very interesting. I may try it. Lane |
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Robert Swinney wrote:
Tom wrote: " Not a good scenario, Harold. I know it's hindsight, but I'm surprised that nobody has mentioned using eBay's Escrow service when buying expensive items:" EBay's Escrow service? Yeah, right! Hey, that'll work - just send in another fox to guard the hen house! Bob (like a rabbit, doesn't trust anything that may be a dog) Swinney "Tom" wrote in message ... Harold & Susan Vordos wrote: Susan has had a recent very unhappy experience with a seller on eBay. Big snip Many thanks, Harold Your point being? Tom |
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Harold & Susan Vordos wrote: "DoN. Nichols" wrote in message ... Yep! Everything saved except for Susan's original inquiry as to the condition, but we have the response that says it is in good condition with no repairs or other anomalies. O.K. I had printed copies of the auction last night, just in case you had not. (My wife was somewhat puzzled as to why I did this, until I explained the situation. [ ... ] agreeing with them that the repair was an inclusion. They have exaggerated pretty much the entire thing, attempting to make me look like the problem, including altering the photograph of the damaged area in question. That's one reason I'd love to get this thing before a judge. Too damned bad this country is so hell bent on defending crooks at the expense of honest folks. I hope that you *can* get it in front of a judge -- and a properly unbiased one, at that. Good Luck, DoN. -- Email: | Voice (all times): (703) 938-4564 (too) near Washington D.C. | http://www.d-and-d.com/dnichols/DoN.html --- Black Holes are where God is dividing by zero --- |
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"Richard J Kinch" wrote in message .. . Harold & Susan Vordos writes: I'm going to make their life as uncomfortable as I possibly can by asking people that frequent eBay to boycott them. I'm going to hit them exactly when it hurts, when they offer their next lot of live auctions. It will be impossible for buyers to miss or ignore, and it will cost less than $5 to pull off. Very bad idea. This can do you no possible good, and invites great harm. Only very bad judgment, or neurosis, could account for such action. Bye Richard. plonk |
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"Statics" wrote in message news:uCAmc.12163$iy5.2214@okepread05... "Richard J Kinch" wrote in message .. . Harold & Susan Vordos writes: I'm going to make their life as uncomfortable as I possibly can by asking people that frequent eBay to boycott them. I'm going to hit them exactly when it hurts, when they offer their next lot of live auctions. It will be impossible for buyers to miss or ignore, and it will cost less than $5 to pull off. Very bad idea. This can do you no possible good, and invites great harm. Only very bad judgment, or neurosis, could account for such action. Bye Richard. plonk Thanks, Statics! Need I tell you I'm about to do the same thing? This guy has, from all appearances, a total lack of ethics. Or is he on the other side? Sure makes you wonder. For the life of me, I can't understand why decent people should turn the other cheek where matters like this are concerned. All the crooks need is the slightest of cooperation through no action on the part of the victims and they continue the course. For us to let this one slide just makes no sense to us. One would have to question the motive of anyone that seems to be in support of the crooks, and I certainly am suspicious in this case. Decent folks don't encourage the criminals, they do what they can to stop them, often at great expense. Sometimes it even costs more than the dollar value, but there's more at stake here than money. If you were near I'd buy you a drink! Harold |
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Go get em Tiger.
If nothing else it has been intersting reading and educational to all. Keep us informed as to the results. |
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Harold & Susan Vordos writes:
This guy has, from all appearances, a total lack of ethics. Or is he on the other side? Sure makes you wonder. If you will review my first reply to your original post, you will see that "this guy" was offering advice intended to minimize your further losses, both financial and psychological, that your insistence on absolute justice will inflict upon your own head. All litigation is fraught with emotional trials. It will consume you and ruin your life for the duration, and there can be lasting effects. It will bleed you white in the wallet, because while there are cheap lawyers, lawyers that can actually win cases are very costly. If you have never experienced it, then you should take the advice of those who have. I have been a plaintiff in too many civil trials, and spent too many $10s of thousands on lawyers, to suggest otherwise. I have been in too many armed confrontations, and fired too many shots at the real crooks, to have anything but an intense interest in the more vital ethical issues of standing your ground. One has to learn to pick one's fights, but you say "to let this one slide just makes no sense". Rob Roy would have been dead in that tavern with that attitude. You make a believable and convincing story of having being swindled, although we haven't heard the other side, and it would be wrong to make any judgments without it. But you apparently cannot step back and look objectively at the fact that this is all over a silly trinket with artificial value. That you were willing to pay big money for such a thing doesn't change the absurdity of it all. It could have been Beanie Babies, or before that Dutch tulips. All stupid stuff that people get into stupid quarrels over. You sound like you're ready to commit libel because of some tiny bubble speck of a flaw in the goods. I'll leave the question of anyone fitting your estimate of a "total lack of ethics" to a future judge, who teaches the ethical principle of setting aside smaller disputes, not insisting on absolute justice in this life, even to turning the other cheek or walking a 2nd mile or handing over your cloak. This does not "encourage the criminals" as you state, because you are supposed to learn to avoid or manage this eBay risk in the future. Leave the punishment of crooks and swindlers to the state, that is the ethical basis to civilization vs vigilantism. If you seek raw revenge, recovery from this wrong being impossible, you will regret it. |
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"Richard J Kinch" wrote in message . .. snip You make a believable and convincing story of having being swindled, although we haven't heard the other side, and it would be wrong to make any judgments without it. But you apparently cannot step back and look objectively at the fact that this is all over a silly trinket with artificial value. That you were willing to pay big money for such a thing doesn't change the absurdity of it all. It could have been Beanie Babies, or before that Dutch tulips. All stupid stuff that people get into stupid quarrels over. You sound like you're ready to commit libel because of some tiny bubble speck of a flaw in the goods. I've read and understood, for the most part, that which you are saying, and while it makes sense, I am still of the opinion that to do nothing is to endorse the criminal actions of the perpetrator. I can tell anyone that is willing to listen what they have done, and how they have done it, and so long as I tell it like it is, I am not liable for anything. Telling the truth is not against the law. If the lousy *******s choose to take me to court, I'll welcome their charges with open arms. You have heard only my side of the argument, to that I will agree. Will you give me your permission to send you a picture of the item that shows the repair of which I speak? Also a copy of the email that they sent when we asked specifically if there were any issues with the condition of the piece? It would be easy enough for you to go to the link I posted to see the item and their description. This is no tiny bubble speck of a flaw, this is a repair of an item that renders it relatively valueless in the collecting field. They intentionally withheld the condition of the piece, then when they were challenged we were told that it wasn't a repair, that it was an inclusion. The condition, regardless of what it may be, should have been disclosed in the ad, and it wasn't. The various photos were carefully composed to make sure it was not visible. When we inquired we were told it was in good condition. That's called fraud. Fraud is a criminal offense. I'm not sure, but it could even be a felony. I'm not sure that you do or don't understand what art glass includes, but this is a piece of fine art that is roughly 100 years old. Should you be familiar, this is a piece of Webb cameo glass. That it might be your choice in collectibles or not is not important, but that it is something that my wife chooses to collect for her pleasure is, especially to me. I'm lucky to have a wife that is supportive of me and the decisions I make, and I enjoy returning the favor. For me to stand by and see her screwed out of the money is what makes no sense, just like standing by and watching someone rape her would make no sense. I have yet to exhaust my options, and while this thing is eating me alive, I'll go to my grave early before I'll forget the matter. Have you ever known any Greeks? Are you aware of our dedication to matters? I realize I won't change your position, and likely you are the one that is in his right mind, but I'd certainly like you to see the listing and the response we got from these people when we asked, and then get a look at what they declined to disclose. If nothing else, you'll understand the level of disappointment that a good and loving wife has experienced when what was, to her, an item that she has waited to own for years, turns out to be nothing more than scrap glass at a very high price. Please, do not deny my wife her pleasure by demeaning her love and interest in her choice of collecting. This is a fine woman that never demands anything and is a caring and giving individual the is deserving of her one and only vice, her art glass collecting. May I send you the picture? Harold |
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On Fri, 7 May 2004 01:36:09 -0700, "Harold & Susan Vordos"
shouted from the rooftop: I have yet to exhaust my options, and while this thing is eating me alive, I'll go to my grave early before I'll forget the matter. Have you ever known any Greeks? Are you aware of our dedication to matters? Harold- Richard is right: at the end of the day, it's a piece of glass, not worth losing sleep over. According to your earlier post, the seller _did_ offer to refund the money, minus shipping, but you didn't accept that. Which you should have because the whole matter would have died right there. It looks like you shot yourself in the foot because now you will either recover nothing or spend thousands to recover $1200 or wind up being sued for libel. -Carl "An honest man doesn't need a long memory"- Jesse Ventura |
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In article , Richard J Kinch
says... All litigation is fraught with emotional trials. It will consume you and ruin your life for the duration, and there can be lasting effects. It will bleed you white in the wallet, because while there are cheap lawyers, lawyers that can actually win cases are very costly. Or they have gone out of business because they cannot collect the fees owed them..... While I don't agree with the principle you advocate (that non-essential goods or services can be sold without ethics) your legal advice has the ring of truth to it. After thinking a bit about this, I would say that Harold possibly should have accepted the refund, minus shipping, and then attempted to recover the shipping later. As far as libel and slander are concerned, as my attorney on retainer tells me, "truth *is* an absolute defense." Jim ================================================== please reply to: JRR(zero) at yktvmv (dot) vnet (dot) ibm (dot) com ================================================== |
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Jim sez: " As far as libel and slander are concerned, as my attorney
on retainer tells me, "truth *is* an absolute defense." Yeah, but Jim, can you trust a lawyer you're sleeping with? sorta grin Bob Swinney |
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Harold & Susan Vordos wrote: "John Hofstad-Parkhill" wrote in message ... snip----- Frankly, I'd rather picket the guy. It just seems a shame that the real, true & clear victims have no real recourse. Something is broken. This is why, whenever there is some doubt about the merchant's reliability, or when it is something one of a kind like this art glass, I try to use credit cards to pay for the item. The credit card companies can make life really tough for crooked businessmen, as they have all sorts of penalties triggered by some number of reversed charges. I have had a few situations, such as a motel that kicked my family out, then tried to charge us for a 2 days stay. The credit card co. reversed the charges after I wrote a letter explaining what happened. Jon |
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Harold & Susan Vordos wrote: "Paul K. Dickman" wrote in message ... I hate to just jump on your misery, but why on earth are you buying art glass on ebay?!! No problem, Paul. Susan buys art glass from eBay because it is a source for an otherwise scarcely available commodity. We almost never travel, so she has almost no opportunity to see or buy things otherwise. Both of us recognize the risk, and to quite honest, up until this issue, she's had relatively good results. Two scary previous experiences that were readily settled by the sellers, one even demanded returning our shipping fees. Not all people, we've found, are crooks. Some make a mistake and are willing to settle immediately. Well, looking at Myers' feedback, you are the first unhappy eBay customer he has had in 4 1/2 years! I note he says he has offered a full refund. Did he actually make this offer? It seems pretty unlikely that a real scumbag would have 1158 positive feedback from 647 different buyers, and only one bad transaction listed. The truly infamous Al Babin can't get 4 positive feedbacks in a row before he gets a string of negatives and gets removed from eBay. He rarely operates for more than 2 weeks before getting his username pulled. Jon |
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Harold & Susan Vordos wrote: "Richard J Kinch" wrote in message . .. snip The various photos were carefully composed to make sure it was not visible. When we inquired we were told it was in good condition. That's called fraud. Fraud is a criminal offense. I'm not sure, but it could even be a felony. It varies from state to state, but at $1200, it would likely be a felony in most states. but, with people stealing $30,000 cars every couple of minutes, the police are busy with a lot of bigger stuff. Sure, I'd like to see the photo of what they didn't show you. Jon Have you ever known any Greeks? Are you aware of our dedication to matters? Oh oh! Didn't pay attention to your last name, but I should have! Glad **I** didn't sell you that piece! (I will say that I have several items I've picked up, hoping to sell for a profit, and after cleaning and inspecting them, did not put them on eBay, because they were in such bad condition that it would be tantamount to fraud.) Jon |
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Harold & Susan Vordos writes:
I have yet to exhaust my options, and while this thing is eating me alive, I'll go to my grave early before I'll forget the matter. Have you ever known any Greeks? I saw that fat wedding movie. Does that count? Are you aware of our dedication to matters? Plato (wasn't he Greek?) said that to be dedicated to one thing is to be undedicated to all else, so that no one is truly dedicated. Not really, I made that up. But dedication itself is only as virtuous as the object of the dedication. The world is full of wrongly dedicated people. |
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As far as libel and slander are concerned, as my attorney on retainer tells me, "truth *is* an absolute defense." So we routinely hear. McDonalds *never* fills up the french fries like the photo on the menu. Calling them crooks and swindlers for this misrepresentation would be hard to defend as "truth". You can't cast a civil dispute over quality of goods as a criminal fraud, without being guilty of libel. Every merchant is greedy to some extent; we can't have them all being labeled criminals, at least not in a civil society. |
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"Jon Elson" wrote in message ... Harold & Susan Vordos wrote: "Paul K. Dickman" wrote in message ... I hate to just jump on your misery, but why on earth are you buying art glass on ebay?!! No problem, Paul. Susan buys art glass from eBay because it is a source for an otherwise scarcely available commodity. We almost never travel, so she has almost no opportunity to see or buy things otherwise. Both of us recognize the risk, and to quite honest, up until this issue, she's had relatively good results. Two scary previous experiences that were readily settled by the sellers, one even demanded returning our shipping fees. Not all people, we've found, are crooks. Some make a mistake and are willing to settle immediately. Well, looking at Myers' feedback, you are the first unhappy eBay customer he has had in 4 1/2 years! I note he says he has offered a full refund. Did he actually make this offer? It seems pretty unlikely that a real scumbag would have 1158 positive feedback from 647 different buyers, and only one bad transaction listed. The truly infamous Al Babin can't get 4 positive feedbacks in a row before he gets a string of negatives and gets removed from eBay. He rarely operates for more than 2 weeks before getting his username pulled. Jon Yep, his incredible feedback is what gave Susan the confidence to bid, especially when she got a reply from Mary that the item had no issues with condition. It's all too hard to believe, right up until the time you see the area in question on the vase. You also must have a firm understanding of what defects do to both desirability and value in art glass. What might be dismissed as "nothing" to the novice can have a profound effect on value for those the sell and collect. That isn't making our task any easier because we're the ones with the pictures of the repair, unlike his posted on eBay, which show a perfect piece. Perhaps it might be a good idea for me to post the picture of the repair for others to see? He accused us of trick photography, but all we did is side light the area so it better defined the repair, which I have already mentioned was determined to be a repair, not an inclusion, by a certified, accredited appraiser that had nothing to gain and everything to lose by telling lies. His reputation would be on the line, and he is the author of published books, so being right would be very important to him. We did not know this man until we sought him for the appraisal. We were referred to him by the Antiques Mall in Centralia. The bottom line on this issue is this: Whether it is a repair or an inclusion, it SHOULD have been disclosed. All decent sellers do so as a routine. Regards the return, when I told Mary that we expected that they should refund shipping charges because they had misrepresented the piece , she is the one that got defensive, telling us she had no obligation to disclose the anomaly, and their terms clearly state that shipping would be at our expense. I brought to her attention the fact that her terms also clearly state that they would disclose any anomalies with the items they sell, and they hadn't done so, which lead us to bid on an item that we, otherwise, would not have been interested in buying. When she couldn't convince us that it was an inclusion, the discussion got heated so we terminated the conversation. We received a follow-up phone call from the owner, Michael J. Myers, in which he told us that there was no way in hell he would accept the item in return because we had upset his wife. In other words, we can agree that it was an inclusion and they had no obligation to disclose it, or he wouldn't accept it in return. He could lie to us, but if we didn't agree with his assessment, then we must be punished by being refused a refund. *They lied about the refund* because he withdrew the offer to send us our purchase price, minus shipping, which was over $50 both ways. He clearly states that we "sealed our fate" in the exchange between us and eBay, which I will gladly forward to anyone interested. It all boils down to this: If they had been honest, we wouldn't be where we are today. We wouldn't have bid, which is the very reason we inquired before doing so. * They lied to us*, and they continue to lie about how it has gone. By the way, they did offer to accept it in return if we would discount the amount by the $175 that eBay awarded Susan for all her trouble. In other words, they would get the piece back, make a small amount for their trouble, and we're out the several hundred miles of travel we had to do for the appraisal, plus the time we have spent. The bad guys make a profit on the heads of the victim? I'd rather die first. EVERYONE that does business with these people should know and understand that if they are unhappy and unwilling to eat a loss that is not at their hand, they would be better off to not do business with them. This brings to mind a guy that was selling certified items off eBay from the Seattle area a while ago. One person complained and was ignored, yet when the truth came to be known, everything that was being sold was fraudulently represented by him, and he was the owner of the business doing all the certification. This is a quote from the email I received: "I've followed the thread, ouch. Your comment about being Myer's first ebay "negative" reminded me of the Seattle Times story about Thesaurus Fine Arts, beginning with their article in Jan. 2003. This outfit, owned by a prominent Asian economist and professor, had a high-profile gallery in Seattle and sold expensive "Chinese antiquities", authenticated by a well-known lab in Hong Kong. Turned out nearly 100% of what they sold was elaborate, entirely deliberate fakery, and that the gallery owner also owned the "independent lab". He's now wanted for fraud but will never be extradited back to Seattle." Bad things happen when good people don't speak up, and often not everything is as it appears. Harold |
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"Harold & Susan Vordos" wrote in message ... I have attached links that will take you to two photos of the vase in question. I apologize for how the .txt was posted. I, somehow, ended up with all the MS crud in spite of the fact that I composed the message with the note pad. I assume it was in how I made the attachment. I'm not very good at this computer stuff, sort of keeps me off balance most of the time. http://www.metalworking.com/dropbox/Vase-txt.txt http://www.metalworking.com/dropbox/Vase01.JPG http://www.metalworking.com/dropbox/Vase02.JPG In case the text is tough to read, 01 shows the vase lit from the side with light passing through. The other, 02, was taken with overhead lighting. Nothing was done to the photos or the piece to enhance or otherwise change the image, or the repaired area Our entire argument is that the seller did not disclose the area in question, which resulted in our bidding way beyond the true value of the piece. Accident? Oversight? I think not. Not when they wouldn't do what any honest dealer would and make good their screw up. All indications are that they tried to profit through fraudulently representing the vase. I can't imagine a judge wouldn't see it the same way. I welcome your comments. Harold |
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"jim rozen" wrote in message ... snip---- After thinking a bit about this, I would say that Harold possibly should have accepted the refund, minus shipping, and then attempted to recover the shipping later. Yep, looking back on it, I realize that may have been the best avenue to pursue. I hope you can appreciate the fact that had the tables been turned, we would have stopped at nothing to make full and proper restitution to a buyer had we been responsible for a similar circumstance. When you go through life trying to do the right thing, it often comes as quite a surprise to you when you are confronted by dishonest people. Certainly you're not equipped to deal with them. For sure, we aren't. I'd have had a different approach had I been aware that I was dealing with crooks. It was hard to assume considering their great feedback. As far as libel and slander are concerned, as my attorney on retainer tells me, "truth *is* an absolute defense." My point exactly. I'm going to go far out of my way to notify anyone on eBay that bids on collectibles to be aware that these people have the possibility of doing to ANY buyer exactly what they did to us. The best part is for a few bucks I can get it in front of all of eBay. By presenting the evidence in support of our claims, I can't see how I can be prosecuted and have it stick. My hopes are that they haul me to court for telling the truth. What better way to bring them to us? They must file in the place that has jurisdiction. It is they that will have to be inconvenienced, not us. Our hopes are that they come to see the wisdom of doing the right thing, to not screw the consumer under the guise of some ethereal claim that is obviously a lie. It will cost them either a full refund for the misrepresented vase, or every time they run one of their auctions the bidders will see the evidence we have that screams of their dishonesty. If nothing else, it will minimize the numbers that are willing to take a chance on getting screwed the same way we were. Case closed as far as I'm concerned. One can not be prosecuted for telling the truth, no matter how damaging it may be to the offended party. If a whore does not prefer to be known as such, she can change professions. Harold |
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Well, I have to say that the photos seem to give some strong foundation to your claims. I find it interesting that the ONE view that would have shown the defect up really well...a shot directly down on the TOP of the vase...was not part of the handful of pictures in the auction. However, there was a shot straight on from the bottom of the piece. My feeling would be that the views were carefully choosen to beautify the item as much as possible. Seems a bit questionable to me.... But then I am not trying to get $1000+ for a little chunk of melted sand. (and yes...I DO appreciate art glass... just not the inflated prices of some of it). Regards Dave Mundt |
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"Gunner" wrote in message ... On Wed, 05 May 2004 14:22:56 -0500, Richard J Kinch wrote: And all this over ART GLASS? Puh-leeze. Your extravagant and non- productive hobby does not deserve anyone's attention or sympathy. Geese. And I though Ed Huntress was an arrogant ass at times..... looks like you beat him to Best of Class. Gunner Yes... amen. Mr. Kinch struck me as an intelligent man until this latest. Acouple of his posts lately have been in the troll category. This sounds like one of them. Mark P.S. I know Mr. Vordos in person, and he is a decent sort... not given to foolishness at all. His posts in the last few years have always been useful and to the point. |
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"Richard J Kinch" wrote McDonalds *never* fills up the french fries like the photo on the menu. Calling them crooks and swindlers for this misrepresentation would be hard to defend as "truth". You can't cast a civil dispute over quality of goods as a criminal fraud, without being guilty of libel. Every merchant is greedy to some extent; we can't have them all being labeled criminals, at least not in a civil society. This sounds like pontificating and obfuscation to me. If you had just pointed out that Mr. Vordos may lose more than he will gain in this matter, perhaps that would have been a valid point. Especially now that we learn that he was offered a full refund less the shipping. Instead, you ridiculed him and (worse) his wife for having an "extravagant hobby" (quote: "And all this over ART GLASS? Puh-leeze. Your extravagant and non-productive hobby does not deserve anyone's attention or sympathy. " end quote). What gives you the right to ridicule someone else's hobby? Do you know Harold's wife? I do, and she was a very kind and gracious person when I met her. Your comment about her hobby was boorish and ungentlemanly to say the least. I also note that you have done precisely the same thing as Mr. Vordos regarding your loss of $151 on ebay (re your first post on this thread. It seems that Mr. Vordos is not the only one that gets emotional over this sort of fraud. Clearly (from your link, http://www.truetex.com/ebayfraud.htm ) you spent FAR more than $151 pursuing your particular crook... evidently your high minded principles don't apply when it's your money at stake.... For an intelligent man, you are remarkably deficient in civilized behavior. Mark |
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"Richard J Kinch" wrote McDonalds *never* fills up the french fries like the photo on the menu. Calling them crooks and swindlers for this misrepresentation would be hard to defend as "truth". You can't cast a civil dispute over quality of goods as a criminal fraud, without being guilty of libel. Every merchant is greedy to some extent; we can't have them all being labeled criminals, at least not in a civil society. This sounds like pontificating and obfuscation to me. If you had just pointed out that Mr. Vordos may lose more than he will gain in this matter, perhaps that would have been a valid point. Especially now that we learn that he was offered a full refund less the shipping. Instead, you ridiculed him and (worse) his wife for having an "extravagant hobby" (quote: "And all this over ART GLASS? Puh-leeze. Your extravagant and non-productive hobby does not deserve anyone's attention or sympathy. " end quote). What gives you the right to ridicule someone else's hobby? Do you know Harold's wife? I do, and she was a very kind and gracious person when I met her. Your comment about her hobby was boorish and ungentlemanly to say the least. I also note that you have done precisely the same thing as Mr. Vordos regarding your loss of $151 on ebay (re your first post on this thread. It seems that Mr. Vordos is not the only one that gets emotional over this sort of fraud. Clearly (from your link, http://www.truetex.com/ebayfraud.htm ) you spent FAR more than $151 pursuing your particular crook... evidently your high minded principles don't apply when it's your money at stake.... For an intelligent man, you are remarkably deficient in civilized behavior. Mark Well put, Mark. I was just going to say 'what a jackass', or something akin. Your reply has a nice polished touch. michael |
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What gives you the right to ridicule someone else's hobby? I didn't. I ridiculed the crusade for justice, which is indeed ridiculous, being founded on an exquisite piece of colored glass with less utility than an empty soda bottle. Hmmm, maybe that's sounds like I am ridiculing this hobby. But all collectibles are ridiculous, aren't they? Google "tulip craze". And it looks perfect from certain angles! But oh, the flaw is still there! The enjoyment and the value is not in how the thing itself looks, as if it were some genuine beauty, it is in the precious perfection of it, and lost it is, lost. So this is nothing more than a kind of silly baseball card type of collecting, where the values are all determined as a kind of zero-sum game (or negative, if you count the dealers' premiums). Now if this game appeals to you and entertains you, then fine, enjoy it. But these artificial and illusory values do not deserve the enforcement and protection of the sword of civil justice, which has enough genuine issues to try. No sane judge would rule on a basis of collectible values. Do you know Harold's wife? I do, and she was a very kind and gracious person when I met her. Your comment about her hobby was boorish and ungentlemanly to say the least. Don't confuse social interactions in real life, versus abstract, critical discussions in newsgroups. If somebody presents a case and asks for advice, then you can't complain that the truth hurt somebody's feelings. And it's a bit unfair to appeal to the lady's honor, as honorable as she no doubt is. It doesn't matter whether she was the victim, or some guy, or some lowlife. The advice is the same. I admit to being harsh. I remember stepping on a few toes during the Beanie Baby craze, and again during the surf-the-Web-for-money craze. I was vilified for pointing out how silly and ultimately worthless it would be. I was so cruel to all those stay-at-home-moms who just knew they would finally be able to earn some extra income. So boorish and ungentlemanly of me to point that out to them. And so few appreciated it, even when it eventually was borne out. Anyone remember alladvantage.com? I was puncturing the hopes of those charming women who were buying diapers and Christmas gifts for their kids, treating their husbands to dates out, and hugely helping to pay the bills. I also note that you have done precisely the same thing as Mr. Vordos regarding your loss of $151 on ebay (re your first post on this thread. It seems that Mr. Vordos is not the only one that gets emotional over this sort of fraud. Clearly (from your link, http://www.truetex.com/ebayfraud.htm ) you spent FAR more than $151 pursuing your particular crook... evidently your high minded principles don't apply when it's your money at stake.... Precisely? I wrote an essay to inform people of the arcane eBay fraud protection program, and to advise people of how to best diagnose and prosecute fraudulent situations. I resolved my own case to my satisfaction. My money recovery was a wash, but I discovered useful new information about doing business on eBay, formerly unpublicized, which value I freely share (via that Web page) with others. It currently gets about 600 readers/month, and I receive plenty of fan mail on it. I also note that my adversary was NARUed on eBay subsequent to my prosecution. The alleged "criminal" of this thread somehow remains active on eBay, and indeed, has a near-perfect well-aged feedback rating, which is phenomenal for somebody dealing in antiques and collectibles. Your criticism of "you same" only extends to the eBay buyer protection apparatus that we both invoked. Given that there was next to no public information on the true costs of that novel process (before my Web page, and a few others like it now), I indulged it as much as a research project as an attempt at recovery. So while it wouldn't be worth repeating, I don't regret having done it. The "you same" does *not* extend to hiring lawyers, starting lawsuits, Internet picketing, etc. that the aggrieved Mr V has been considering. If you read my page, written quite a few months ago, you'll see that everything I advocate there clearly sets forth the other-cheek calculus I have been advocating in his case. I have written off several major losses (anywhere from $2500 to $25000 each) from frauds and bad debts over my career, as has just about anybody in enterprise for business or hobbies. If you pursue precision justice at the expense of work or pleasure, you will end up with none of the three. |
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