A bit complicated. Not so much repair as setup.

I got a new Television a few weeks ago and it's my first widescreen
(philips). I was wondering could someone answer a couple of questions
about it.

This is the problem: when I switch the tv on from standby or from the
on switch it always goes to bbc1 (RF)(first channel) the format always
goes onto super zoom mode (a screen filling mode).
We normally watch tv via a ski digi box it is set up for widescreen.
So I then have to switch on the sky box then switch to the av(1)
channel for sky then switch through the screen modes(x6) to get to
widescreen. If I go to an RF channel it goes to super zoom mode
nessecitating the screen mode switch dance again. Is there anyway that
the tv can be set to that it will stay on widescreen, or failing that
switch to widescreen when I switch to av1(sky).

Setup:
sky box connected to video and tv using scart.
dvd connected to tv using scart
video connected to tv using scart
RF from rooftop ariel going through sky box then tv and another tv (sky
box has 2 rf outputs).

The tv has 3 scart sockets
1 scart which has sky attached is audio/video inputs and rgb
2 scart which has dvd attached is audio/video s-vhs
3 scart has audio video input and the video is attached.


The sky box has two scart outputs, it appears that the top scart does
no screen format switching or channel switching and the bottom does.
Now when I connect the bottom scart sky output to scart 1 of the tv,
the tv turns onto sky when sky is turned on etc, ok. But bbc 1 (first
channel) via RF is superimposed by sky. When the sky box is turned off
the RF bbc 1 comes back on. This does not happen when using the top
scart output from the sky box but then I have no screen/channel
switching.

Now you might say why do you need rf bbc1 rf anyway? Well the sky box
is connected to my daughters tv so she can watch sky if we are watching
one of the rf channels, this is not possible if one of them is being
'blocked'.

So the questions a how can I get the tv to format switch
automatically and keep bbc1(rf) using the bottom sky box scart
connector or stay on widescreen permanently and save me switching
through the screen modes.

The ideal situation would be if I switched the sky box on the tv would
switch over to av(1) and go onto widescreen mode.

Thanks for any input

Steven