Dave writes:

can anyone tell me the best finish to use for a trivet

Marble

i.e. http://www.woodcraft.com/family.aspx?familyid=1132

Yeah, I know. But he asked for the best....

I have the marble slightly higher than the wood, so the wood will never burn.
I've also seen burned trivets.

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