Thanks to everyone who responded to my switch position inquiry,
including those who simply advised keeping peace in the family. My
wife and I have been married nearly 51 years so we've found ways to
disagree without being disagreeable, and to find some humor wherever
we can.

Now, as to the switches, I dug out the installation sheet that came
with them. While it certainly isn't official on the matter of
position, the illustrations DO show the switches installed the way I
put them in. So there!

Thanks again!

-Len