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The problem is finding a source, preferably local
(Dallas area) but I'm willing to go online. Everything I've found so
far is S2S. Surely I'm not the first person in this situation. What
does everyone do?

Have you asked? I buy hardwood or specialty wood from three suppliers, and
every one of them will make exactly what I want. Some include planing in
the price, others charge extra.