a) If you were to stop whining & puling and start reading for content....
b) If you were to spend 1/10th the effort in thinking outside your tiny little box as you do complaining that the advice offered does not suit you....
c) If you were to try and understand that the community here consists of hundreds of years of experience doing many, many things....

You would be fine. And likely recognize the considerable amount of help you have gotten in these venues from many different individuals on many different subjects.

But, you do none of these things. Full Stop.

Peter Wieck
Melrose Park, PA