In alt.home.repair, on Wed, 07 Oct 2015 14:53:39 -0400, micky
wrote:


I talked to him, but not her, because he's my friend and she's just
someone he married 20 years ago. Should I email her, or is that just
causing trouble?

On the theory that the thought of having to move when one is old if
inferior to more likely living in the same home even when old and weak,
amd that that choice has never even occurred to her.