As you highlight, the purpose of the deflection limits is not because
that is where a joist will fail catastrophically, but that is where any
more movement would become unacceptable. L&P ceilings can move a fair
amount, but don't expect one that is supported by a floor structure that
deflects 5 inches every time someone walks over it to last long!
Not to mention the possibility of seasickness every time anyone bounces around up there !
Re noise transmission, the gap between the 2 joist layers has more
effect than 2x8s. And I don't expect anyone lives in your loft
anyway.
Loft floors (once strengthened) are actually very good for noise
insulation since they typically have two separate sets of joists
carrying the floor and ceiling loads.
I'm hoping this one will be good for heat insulation too, with a full load of insulation between the ceiling and the new floor.