"micky" wrote in message
Sender S has a small mailing list and sends emails once or twice a
week. . 10 or 20 months into this arrangement, recipient R emails
back to S taking issue with one of the emails.

S emails all the R's, doesn't say what R's issue was, but says that
R
was upset about the email..

What sex is R?

Post R's email so we can write and ask!