Anyone here know if one of these exists?.

We have a job to do to control some lights, in essence similar to the
PIR operated light in your front garden except that this is Six separate
lights around 2 kW in total load.

The lights are in shall we say, very awkward locations and are a PITA to
get to. It seems to me that if we under run them a bit then their
lifetime before replacement might be extended. There is a fair old bit
of cable run in this too so its prolly going to loose a bit anyway..

What also seems like a good idea is to soft start them i.e. just fade up
the volts applied over a second or so to reduce the switch on surge when
cold.

We have a simple infra red light beam detector arrangement that will
give a contact closure when triggered which we could interpose another
relay to source volts to the larger relay. If that one could accept
either a simple contact close or volts applied say 12 to 24 then fine.

If it can also stay switched on for a time period perhaps a minute or
so then better still.

TIA.
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Tony Sayer