Are you considering divorce? I’m talking about quiet, sober
consideration of a question, not the thoughts that flare up from the
heated emotions that come right after an argument. Have you thought
through the effects of a divorce, and come to the conclusion that you
may want to act? If you have, there are things you should do right
away If your husband has already filed before you, then you must act
immediately. If not, you should take certain actions quickly, but not
carelessly. The things you do now will affect every decision
throughout the process, right down to the final decree.

If you have reached the point where divorce is a clear option, and
particularly if you are considering an action that shows you mean to
separate from your husband (if you are thinking of leaving, or asking
him to move out), you should do the following before approaching your
spouse:

Seven things you must do before approaching your husband about
divorce:

Make copies of your husband’s pay stubs for the past eight weeks.

Make copies of your joint tax returns for the past five years.

Copy all bank statements and documentation of stock accounts, IRAs,
and pension plans.

Make copies of all of your monthly bills over the past three months.
These should include mortgage statements, rent payments, utility
bills, car payments, insurance premiums, children’s expenses, medical
expenses, and credit card statements.

Copy deeds to any properties owned jointly or in your husband’s name.

Copy documents relating to any investments. These should include
stocks, bonds, real

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