A group of students from Rutgers University in Newark, NJ would like
to obtain valuable information from you in regards to your divorce.
The feedback that you give through taking the survey linked below will
be used in our study to help us determine what processes organizations
can take in order to better serve women in the future that may face
the same challenges that you did during your divorce process. The
survey results are anonymous and it will only take about 10 minutes of
your time. We thank you in advance for your anticipated cooperation
and efforts to help those who will benefit from your feedback.

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We are conducting this survey for the benefit of The Divorce Education
Center of New Jersey. If you have any questions about the survey,
please contact the team leader, Brooke Chuang, at 732-500-6688 or
. If you have any questions about the Team
Consulting Program, please contact the Director, Paul Belliveau, at
973-353-1126 or . Thank you!

Sincerely,
Rutgers University Team Consulting Group

wrote in message
The feedback that you give through taking the survey linked below will
be used in our study to help us determine what processes organizations
can take in order to better serve women in the future that may face
the same challenges that you did during your divorce process.
Rutgers University Team Consulting Group


This is a very one sided issue. Men sometimes need help also, especially
when women take the guy to court for child support and use the money for
themselves. You have a narrow focus for an alleged bastion of higher
education. Discrimination lives.

On Tue, 6 Nov 2007 21:39:02 -0500, "Edwin Pawlowski"
wrote:


wrote in message
The feedback that you give through taking the survey linked below will
be used in our study to help us determine what processes organizations
can take in order to better serve women in the future that may face
the same challenges that you did during your divorce process.
Rutgers University Team Consulting Group


This is a very one sided issue. Men sometimes need help also, especially
when women take the guy to court for child support and use the money for
themselves. You have a narrow focus for an alleged bastion of higher
education. Discrimination lives.


The chance of divorce increases as the woman's education increases,
especially if she has a higher degree. Women are much more
independent today.

"Edwin Pawlowski" wrote in message
...

wrote in message
The feedback that you give through taking the survey linked below will
be used in our study to help us determine what processes organizations
can take in order to better serve women in the future that may face
the same challenges that you did during your divorce process.
Rutgers University Team Consulting Group


This is a very one sided issue. Men sometimes need help also, especially
when women take the guy to court for child support and use the money for
themselves. You have a narrow focus for an alleged bastion of higher
education. Discrimination lives.


Or even worse the bloodsuckers that screw a man finacially for years with
alimony.

Kate

Kate wrote:
"Edwin Pawlowski" wrote in message
...

wrote in message

The feedback that you give through taking the survey linked below will
be used in our study to help us determine what processes organizations
can take in order to better serve women in the future that may face
the same challenges that you did during your divorce process.
Rutgers University Team Consulting Group



This is a very one sided issue. Men sometimes need help also, especially
when women take the guy to court for child support and use the money for
themselves. You have a narrow focus for an alleged bastion of higher
education. Discrimination lives.


Or even worse the bloodsuckers that screw a man finacially for years with
alimony.

Kate




AKA "The screwing he gets for the screwing he got." G

Jeff

--
Jeffry Wisnia
(W1BSV + Brass Rat '57 EE)
The speed of light is 1.8*10^12 furlongs per fortnight.

Kate wrote:


Or even worse the bloodsuckers that screw a man finacially for years
with alimony.


Move to a state with no alimony (i.e., Texas). File for divorce there.

If, for example, you live in New York and your spouse files for divorce, zip
to Nevada or Texas or Florida, set up residence and get the divorce there,
while stalling the proceedings in New York.

Once divorced in, say, Florida, the New York proceeding is mooted (you can't
divorce someone from which you're already divorced).

This is one of the things lawyers don't tell you (a New York lawyer won't
mention it because he doesn't get a fee for your Nevada actions).

On Wed, 7 Nov 2007 17:29:42 -0600, "HeyBub" wrote:

Kate wrote:


Or even worse the bloodsuckers that screw a man finacially for years
with alimony.


Move to a state with no alimony (i.e., Texas). File for divorce there.

If, for example, you live in New York and your spouse files for divorce, zip
to Nevada or Texas or Florida, set up residence and get the divorce there,
while stalling the proceedings in New York.

Once divorced in, say, Florida, the New York proceeding is mooted (you can't
divorce someone from which you're already divorced).

This is one of the things lawyers don't tell you (a New York lawyer won't
mention it because he doesn't get a fee for your Nevada actions).



I'll never get married. It's so stupid that a man/woman has to prove
s/he's single to buy property or a house. But, to buy a vehicle they
don't care about marital status. I wish the government would stay out
of our personal lives. Letting each state define marriage is stupid
as well. I wonder how many dated a "single" person when really they
were secretly married?

h wrote:
"Phisherman" wrote in message

I'll never get married. It's so stupid that a man/woman has to prove
s/he's single to buy property or a house.

???What are you talking about? That makes no sense. My husband and I
did not have to prove we were married to buy our house. When we
divorced and I bought my own, I didn't have to "prove I was single".

It varies by state. In community property states, some lenders and buyers
insist that all who have a financial interest in the transaction
affirmatively consent to the deal.

On Thu, 8 Nov 2007 08:39:11 -0500, h wrote:


"Phisherman" wrote in message

I'll never get married. It's so stupid that a man/woman has to prove
s/he's single to buy property or a house.

???What are you talking about? That makes no sense. My husband and I did not
have to prove we were married to buy our house. When we divorced and I
bought my own, I didn't have to "prove I was single".


State laws